Originally Posted by Raquelos.:
“Well not really, she has explicitly consented to have sex with him tbf. Granted she doesn't look that impressed with the whole thing in the tv series but that's nervous virgins and culture clash for you!”
The book was a lot more rapey

There's a difference between knowing you have no choice and consent though don't you think? She expressly stated she didn't want to marry him and then sobbed all the way through the horsey style sex, if she had had any personal power to say no without the threat of physical violence included in the horsey style sex she would have used it; submitting because you have no choice doesn't really constitute consent...i want to know why GRRMartin is so obsessed with doggy style all the sex is rough doggy style.