Originally Posted by TheSilentFez:
“I think people need to be taught that language is a living thing in constant flux where the rules are defined by mutual agreement, not by manuals of textbooks.
"Gotten" is gaining ground in the UK because of American English influence, It may irritate some, but there's nothing inherently wrong with that. American English is by far the most dominant dialect of English in the world.”
One effect of that state of flux being that the word "gotten" by and large fell out of favour some time toward the start of the last four hundred years or so. I say by and large because it does seem to have survived as a dialectical form, but I wouldn't say that it was in
general use (and still isn't).
Nonetheless, it was sufficiently widespread to prompt the cautionary tale (from either Fowler's
Modern English Usage or Brewer's
Phrase and Fable, I think):
A man who had promised to take his wife to a very popular show that was typically sold out months in advance managed by some miracle to secure two tickets. Excitited, he sent his wife a telegram* that read "Have gotten tickets". Imagine his surprise when he met his wife at the theatre to find that she had brought with her four other couples...
*Which should tell you that this is by no means a
new story