Originally Posted by HeavySaurus:
“On a personal level it's been a great year for me and my husband. Most of the year was spent wedding planning and then we got married in a beautiful ceremony in the north of France with all of our favourite people.
Eearlier in the year I lost my job which I hated anyway and was planning on leaving - the redundancy just accelerated my plans. I got a new one within a week and love it, it's been the best thing! I had the opportunity to go part time which helped with the wedding planning and overall stress levels and I've had more of a life again, and I was still taking home very close to what I got from the full time job that I hated. And the hubby has had a year of pretty smooth sailing in his job which is very welcome after a couple of years of some turbulence - it's just been ticking over with no major highs or lows.
Everyone else in the family, both families, has had a shit time though. There's been a rape, a death, a stroke, a tumour, job insecurity, alcoholism...”
Not exactly part time, but one of the few positives to occur to me this year - and a big one at that - was the opportunity to assist a project team at work, which means I work from home 2½ days a week Wednesday pm to Friday. Most of this work I can get done before 10am, and the rest of the day is then my own. The downside is that I am on call until midnight those days, to deal with issues. But since 3rd August, when I started, until now, I've had just one SMS at 8:20pm one Friday night, to deal with something which only took me 5 minutes.
So a definite gain, and set to last another 6 months at least
Mind, even then, I got nasty remarks. When I mentioned it on facebook at the start, one colleague said it was because they couldn't stand me and it meant I was out of their sight for half the week. Bastard.