Originally Posted by davejc64:
“Just shows how shallow and vain they all are.”
Oh now, that's
hardly fair. Some of them may be shallow and vain but it's still shallow to write anyone off who may "appear" that way despite they fact might be much more than their looks. I don't entirely understand the concept of vanity myself. A girl or woman who worries about her appearance isn't necessarily vain as they are insecure.
Even so, vanity to me seems a self contained flaw - harmless to anyone else so long as they don't project it onto anyone. Shallowness is quite another thing altogether - to be shallow often means overlooking others who are deemed inferior or insignificant in some way.
Personally, I don't like fake tans and I've never had one, but I understand there are different reasons why women might get them. I know some girls might be in environments where their mum's encourage it. We do tend to get some of our beauty influences from our immediate family. We think young people get all their influences from peers, but it's more complicated than that.
Paler skin is a little more in style these days anyways. The 00's were pretty tan obsessed from what I remember. I think it's easier to be pale in the UK than it is in Canada in the summer. We have hot, sunny summers and pretty much no one is pale. Except for me, lol.