Originally Posted by Robbie01:
“The night by which you are supposed to take them down - or else it's supposed to be bad luck - is 12th night which is the evening of the 5th. Many people think it's the 6th but it isn't, it's the evening before.”
I believe that some churches, particularly further east regard the 6th as twelfth night, although the CofE and most other western churches do consider it to fall on the 5th.
Honestly, I'm not actually sure that my tradition of taking them down on the 6th comes from the belief that the 6th is twelfth night anyway, but I don't think it does.
When I was small I think it was told to me that it was fine to have them up on twelfth night itself as that night was the last night of, and therefore still part of the Christmas festival. As long as they were down before dark, in particular making sure that no lights were put on or celebratory Christmas candles lit on what would be the 13th night, (13 being an unlucky number) then it was all good. Pretty sure that's how it all went, but not 100%.
I probably won't end up taking them down until it is dark on the 6th as I won't be home during the daylight hours thus risking bad luck, but will likely adhere to the "no lights" thing.