Originally Posted by Keibro:
“I agree.
The way the camera stayed on him for such a long time, as he began to contemplate was excellent. I thought Danny did a great job last night. I also have to commend EastEnders for their handling of this story. It's not an easy watch. I see elements of myself in Lee from two years ago and at times I've been quite emotional watching him.
I hope there's a positive outcome to the story but from last night, this is the darkness before the dawn. Very well done Danny, EastEnders and the Samaritans who do excellent work.”
Originally Posted by absalomabsalom:
“Absolutely. Just posted this to another thread.
I have to say that in the absolute depths of depression I have been in a similar situation and the last thing on my mind was getting a new job. Obviously I wasn't working with a bunch of criminals BUT it was a hugely stressful job and my boss was a c**t. However, I was in such a state that I couldn't see beyond getting through the next hour let alone planning for my future.
That scene at the end of last night's ep really got to me and was brilliantly played by the actor. Him sitting in his car as the realisation of what his only option is in his mind was so realistic.
I remember one day finishing work early and thinking "brilliant, I'll go and meet a friend or something." However, I stood there in my office for a good ten minutes and was an absolute blank - there was nothing going on in my head except "kill yourself, kill yourself, kill yourself." I went straight to a pub and got ossified and then sat at the top of a cliff near home trying to get the nerve up to jump. That failed so I went home, collected a massive bag of anti depressants, mood stabilisers, anti psychotics, xanax and pain killers and a bottle of gin, went back to the cliff, starting horsing the drugs and drink down me and eventually rolled off the cliff. However, someone saw me do it, it was high tide and the life boat was literally around the cove so I was rescued and ended up in a psychiatric ward for a few months. And that's only three years ago!
Anyway - all this came to my mind during Lee's silent final scene. He is literally at a loss and there is only one way out. Powerful stuff, brilliant acting all 'round, so truthful.
Self-therapy over....”
It's encouraging to hear that EE's depiction of Lee's depression/anxiety is being done so well and, just to say, how brave of you both to say so
Both of you highlight the continuing need for these storylines to be shown, especially concerning depression in men. Even the simple things included in Lee's story, his boss' "Man up!" comment and the 2017: Time to be a Man poster, are very powerful and hammer home the huge stigma that persists around men, the concept of masculinity and depression.
This is story-telling at its best, as far as I'm concerned. I don't mind the odd bit of sensationalism and comedy, but real issues that affect real people is what should be at the heart of the soaps.