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Old Yesterday, 23:43
razorback Tony
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Sorry I can't believe young people have such a lack of willpower. I had girlfriends - and we went to the cinema - was I not normal - or was it the "you will die if you have sex" preaching of the teachers in 1981
scotti, I honestly don't recall ANY sex-ed at school, if there had been, it would have been early to mid seventies for me, but surely you're kidding when you say your teachers preached "you will die if you have sex."
I have no wish to rain on your parade, but as to your suggestion of lack of willpower, surely I couldn't have been the only teenaged boy who would have been "in like a rat up a drainpipe" at the first sign that a teenaged girl was as keen as I was.
It would be a very strong willed boy or girl who could fight human nature when the teen hormones kicked in.
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Old Today, 02:09
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Just a little update.

Son asked if he could stay at her house Friday night and we said No as we need to have a chat with her parents 1st and he seemed to understand that.

so he asked about next weekend and i said that would give us time to chat to her parents and that we would see after talking to them.

Now if they are ok about him staying do ww then say we dont want son to sleep in the same room even if its there own home?

how do we go about that?
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Unread Today, 10:03
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Hi. Just be honest and say that it's the fact she's under 16 that's worrying you as it's illegal if they do the deed. They may not be bothered but say it's your son, 16, who could get in to big trouble and you'd prefer it if they didn't spend the night together.
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Unread Today, 10:11
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There is no Statutory Rape in UK law, the girl is over 12 and can therefore give consent, the age gap between the two is reasonable and they are both minors therefore it is highly unlikely that any criminal charges would be pursued. No 16 year old is going on the Sex offenders register for having consensual Sex with a 14 year old.

OP, I wouldn't encourage sleep overs at this stage but bear in mind that they will be having sex somewhere so have the talk with your son. Other than that, I'd stop worrying about it and let it run its course, it'll be over in a couple of months.
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