Originally Posted by pony:
“I don't think Sam has a strong character, really, but she does behave in an extrovert fashion - she paints herself as an avid clubgoer, who is so well known as a local personality that she regularly gets in for free - she says she enjoys casual, unemotional sex - she's willing to sit around all day in bikinis, even when it is cold, on national tv! There's nothing wrong with any of that, if it's what she enjoys, but it doesn't really sit with the introvert diagnosis. A while ago a poster suggested Sam's lack of social skills was due to her good looks usually getting her what she wants, so she's never had to develop much of a personality - I'd think that might be nearer the mark.”
“I don't think Sam has a strong character, really, but she does behave in an extrovert fashion - she paints herself as an avid clubgoer, who is so well known as a local personality that she regularly gets in for free - she says she enjoys casual, unemotional sex - she's willing to sit around all day in bikinis, even when it is cold, on national tv! There's nothing wrong with any of that, if it's what she enjoys, but it doesn't really sit with the introvert diagnosis. A while ago a poster suggested Sam's lack of social skills was due to her good looks usually getting her what she wants, so she's never had to develop much of a personality - I'd think that might be nearer the mark.”
I don't think Sam has a strong personality either. I did not put myself over very well, what I was trying to say is introverts are not always as mousey as is percieved. I will have to agree to disagree, as I see it, Sam may well be all the things she says about herself in a small or familiar group, but certainly has not lived upto that within a group of strangers, instead saying little & other than wearing not much not being very sexual other than a couple of minor conversations. While group activities where one works together do seem difficult for her.



