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The bullying of Sophie
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Avenger
24-06-2002
I feel more and more sorry for sophie now. she really does not deserve all the bitching done behind her back. Sophie is so miserable and she really has no idea what she has done wrong. I think the treatment she has recieved especially by Jade who seems to instigate most of it is nothing but bullying.

I really hope Jade is up for eviction on Friday as I know for sure that is where my vote will go. I think once Jade is out the house then Sophie will be happier again. I just hope it will not be to late for sophie as she seems so withdrawn at the moment.

I don't think it's fair to include Alex in on the bitching that is going on, he had said earlier tonight that he really does not see a problem with her. He also confessed in a session on Friday night that he had no idea there was anything wrong with Sophie.
Little Ali
24-06-2002
Quote:
“Originally posted by jon72
People don't like Adele becuase it reminds them how dumb they are???

mmmm

I don't like Adele because I've seen her kind of behaviour before and I don't like it, its sneaky. I've been on the receiving end.
I'm intelligent enough to recognise it

People who come into forums and berate others by criticising their intelligence usually have an axe to grind (ie lacking in the grey matter themselves) IMO

follow the logic of that?
”

No problems here
Little Ali
24-06-2002
Back on the subject of Sophie.

She came in late, when most people had decided already who they did/didn't like, based on their time together. She has always been an outsider, and I can't see that it's her fault. She has tried joining in, but has met with such hostile reactions that it's become almost impossible for her to breathe without feeling a wave of hostility.
Her repeats of "alright mate" are IMO an attempt to begin a conversation, and judge the reactions of the one she's trying to communicate with.
She talks about herself, possibly to get others to open up a bit. When she realised it was failing, she backed off, prompting several comments that she was "boring" and didn't join in.
Sophie is being herself. If she wasn't, then she'd know why eveyone dislikes her, and change tactics accordingly.
When people criticise her as being boring, try and consider that she has no opportunity to be anything else - she can't be the life and soul of a party to which she's not invited.
And, she has discussed with Jonny her feelings of being disliked, but hasn't slagged off anyone, or even moaned much about her isolation. Brownie points to her for that, thinks I.
scorp
24-06-2002
Quote:
“Originally posted by Longsightboy


The sad thing is, not everybody has E4 and won't see the major bitching session which has now ceased as of 03.05am.

Most will only see what CH4 put out on their half hour nightly show & won't see the full extent of some very nasty (unwarranted) bitching.

Jade prides herself on her openess & honesty so, why does she not have it out in the open with Sophie then?


Disappointed in Alex sinking to their level though, very disappointed.
”

Good point....I don't have E4, but my eyes have certainly been opened since I discovered 'digitalspy'......I've been passing the url round to everyone I know without E4..they love it too....reading the live updates certainly puts a whole new slant on things....I can't beleive how biased BB is towards certain hm's...and my opinion of Adele and Alex has plummeted....(Jade was always at the bottom!).....thankfully, judging by the popularity polls both here and on the C4 site, the public seems to be in no doubt of the 'true' story!..........

I'd like to see Jade up against Adele this week (jade to go)...

then....
Adele up against Alex the week after....(Adele to go)

I'd love to see Jonny win......I feel that Jonny, Sophie, and Kate haven't really shown much more than being passive observers, and think they'll all shine once the terrible two have left.....Alex up against Tim in nominations would be a good one... .....just to see Alex doing his 'sack cloth and ashes' routine!!....that makes me giggle!!!.......his cringe factor is nearly worse than having to watch one's father disco-dancing at a family wedding!!!!
Indo
24-06-2002
Adele and Jade have showed themselves to be nothing more than nasty witches. Sophie as mentioned before has no real opportunity to be interesting if most of the housemates isolate her. IMO, she deserves a break and if she's nominated 2 weeks in a row, then I'd want to Adele and Jade up against her, so these 2 nasty pieces of work get the public's judgement for their behaviour.
m&m
24-06-2002
Quote:
“Originally posted by xen20


Hate women much? Going on your comments, anyone would think you were suggesting that they are worthless without physical beauty. You mentioned her lack of attractives in your post five times and twice how on that basis she is not 'entitled' to an opinion. And what evidence has Adele displayed of being "a dirty slag"? She's a virgin for f*ck's sake! You sound like a complete misogynist. If you don't like Adele, there are far less sexist and offensive ways of saying so.
”

i'm sorry, did i upset you??

ok sure enough i went well overboard on that post, and congratulations to you for telling me so. however, it is very clear to me that adele's jealousy of the other girls is the major factor behind her dislike for them. if you had bothered to read certain other postings i have made you will see that there are many occasions where i have outlined just why i dont like adele in a non "sexist" manner as you put it, however they may still be deemed "offensive" by you as they outline just what i think of her. by the way, i wouldn't believe anything adele comes out with, we have seen how 2 faced and decitful she is already and as you do not know her personally, i would argue that equally YOU cannot tell me for absolute certainty that adele is a virgin. i will make absolutely NO APOLOGIES for giving my own opinion on her.

for the record i do not claim it to be the absolute fact. everyone here is merely stating their own opinion. unless someone here actually knows any housemate personally, that will continue to be the case. so dont go getting yourself all upset over what i write without bothering to read other posts i have made too which shall we say were written by me while my dislike for adele was under control. you are correct to pull me up on that last post i admit, but you should also try reading other posts too and stop being so selective. if the last post so upset you, well i will not apologize to you until adele herself also starts behaving in a more civilized manner to people such as kate and sophie who have done her no wrong. isn't it strange how she finds jade to be someone who she can call a friend in the house? people often say: show me your friends and i'll tell you the type of person you are. since jade is clearly a bitch, then what does that make adele? and since she also has alex as a friend, in my view it means she is completely 2 faced just like i have been saying, because i cannot believe for a moment that the type of person who would like alex would also like jade. it's just not consistent and it's the biggest give-away of just how 2 faced adele really is. one minute she's a nice girl with alex, the next minute she's a bitch with jade. doesn't make sense to me. that's why i said she's fake. and i will stand by that observation whether you like it or not.
BlueEyes
24-06-2002
You go M&M...some people on here take things to heart and I get the impression (from the same minority) that if u disagree with their opinions you are so wrong..like we keep saying everyone is entitled to their own opinions and you don't have to keep shoving your own down our throats.
m&m
24-06-2002
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“Originally posted by BlueEyes
You go M&M...some people on here take things to heart and I get the impression (from the same minority) that if u disagree with their opinions you are so wrong..like we keep saying everyone is entitled to their own opinions and you don't have to keep shoving your own down our throats. ”

thank you, and well said.
Deerd
24-06-2002
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“Originally posted by hyacinthbee
They're all at it again, Jade seems to be obsessive about it, its her that keeps bringing it up. It was really funny, on the highlights feed, Jade was complaining cos Sophie had started using some of her mannerisms ie, the baby talk, and 'Adelly', and she was upset, saying, thats my saying, thats my way!!

No room for another baby perhaps?

Oh, and Alex seems to be joining in now too, so hes no better than the rest of them.
”

he never was!!!
kegger
24-06-2002
well done m&m and BlueEyes, I couldn't agree more.
Deerd
24-06-2002
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“Originally posted by johnno

Alex needs to be careful - he is in danger of getting too cocky - this may go down OK inside the house as he seems to have taken on the alpha male mantle, at least on the rich side, but could work against him outside. His frequent *smirking* is a bit of a put off.
”


totally agree with the cocky bit - and boy am i glad he's doing himself no favours.

but this stuff the psyche was on about last night about alpha male is rubbish.

allex is not a natural leader he's a dictatorial wimp - and i don't see that as an oxymoron.

he go the role he's in by THROWING A DART - i was half waiting for the psyche to start waxing about the spears used by the hunters of of old.

it's not alex who provides the luxury, its bb.

any HM/viewer who can't see that and places him in the role of natural leader is deluded.

best bit - was the crying into his t-shirt in the bedroom cos his 'best bud' ( who's known for a week' is on the poor side. boo hoo hoo!

alpha male - i think not.
Deerd
24-06-2002
can anyone out there tell me the exact rules on influencing nominations?

surely the openess of adele and jades bitching about sophie has reached the point where it could be construed as attempts to influence.

i realise that not every body is going to like each other and bb has to allow them to talk about other HMs but this is ridiculous.

there just aren't the words to describe how much i hate jade and adele, particularly adele, - although the words that would come close aren't suitable for public consumption. it's about time jonny, kate, p.j. and sophie stopped letting them get away with it.

if they threw down the gauntlet they would have the public support.

Deerd
schwobble
24-06-2002
Quote:
“Originally posted by Deerd

but this stuff the psyche was on about last night about alpha male is rubbish.
”

Most of the stuff that psyche goes on about is rubbish, largely due to the 80's-feminist-office-politics spin she affects to put on everything...
m&m
24-06-2002
Quote:
“Originally posted by Deerd
can anyone out there tell me the exact rules on influencing nominations?

surely the openess of adele and jades bitching about sophie has reached the point where it could be construed as attempts to influence.

i realise that not every body is going to like each other and bb has to allow them to talk about other HMs but this is ridiculous.

there just aren't the words to describe how much i hate jade and adele, particularly adele, - although the words that would come close aren't suitable for public consumption. it's about time jonny, kate, p.j. and sophie stopped letting them get away with it.

if they threw down the gauntlet they would have the public support.

Deerd
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the reason why kate jonny and sophie haven't seen through the others is becasue adele in particular is very skilful at lying and deceiving people. sophie has figured jade out for what she really is, but i am just longin for her to overhear adele bitching about her behind her back yet againb and finally figure adele out too what she also is, simply a 2 faced so and so. and you are correct, bb is very slowly in taking action to deal with the people who are flouting the rules, the usual suspects. i think jonny has got a trike hasn't he? so why not adele yet? i'm with you, she has done a lot more rule breakimg but she seems to constantly get away with it. *sigh* i dont know.
Rufus73
24-06-2002
I don't want just Sophie to overhear though - all the others on the poor side so everyone can see how 2 faced she is. Hopefully she'll come unstuck soon as they bitching is becoming more frequent and something will slip.

Failing that, we can probably rely on Jade to get wrecked and open that big gob of hers and get herself into trouble - fingers crossed.

As the saying goes "what goes around comes around" - they'll get their comeupance (spell?!)
Deerd
24-06-2002
Quote:
“Originally posted by schwobble


Most of the stuff that psyche goes on about is rubbish, largely due to the 80's-feminist-office-politics spin she affects to put on everything...
”

it was the GUY psyche who went on about alex as alpha male. sorry.

i guess he must be an unreconstructed feminist - while obviously you're a post-feminist???

Deerd
m&m
24-06-2002
Quote:
“Originally posted by Deerd



totally agree with the cocky bit - and boy am i glad he's doing himself no favours.

but this stuff the psyche was on about last night about alpha male is rubbish.

allex is not a natural leader he's a dictatorial wimp - and i don't see that as an oxymoron.

he go the role he's in by THROWING A DART - i was half waiting for the psyche to start waxing about the spears used by the hunters of of old.

it's not alex who provides the luxury, its bb.

any HM/viewer who can't see that and places him in the role of natural leader is deluded.

best bit - was the crying into his t-shirt in the bedroom cos his 'best bud' ( who's known for a week' is on the poor side. boo hoo hoo!

alpha male - i think not.
”

you are so right. but did you see their analysis of adele too? that was even worse. they said she's "playing cool" and seemed to go out of their way to portray adele in a good light imo. definitely not what i've been watching. they said she's playing the game best, but i disagree. the british puclic do not like backstabbers or people who are constanly bitching like jade and adele. we prefer the genuine types like alex, sophie etc. i have no doubt that there is huge army of people out there who cannot stand both adele and jade and are just waiting for them to be nominated so they can vote them out. if they are not nominated as in adele's masterplan, people will still not vote for adele to win through their sheer dislike of her. and the crescendo of boos when they leave will become part of bb folklore when these two come out. this is not how to play the game if you want to win as far as i'm concerned. they will find that out very soon.
schwobble
24-06-2002
Shrink : Fair enough

Post-feminist : Moi? Not until someone makes a screaming big deal about how I can successfully juggle work and home life, and I'd be the first bloke anyone ever did that for
Eenie
24-06-2002
Quote:
“Originally posted by FaceAche
I quite like Sophie, probably because I feel sorry for her, but I'd love to see up against Jade for nomination. Bye Bye Jade, and I hope Sohie gets a little pleasure from that!!

I was sticking up for Jade for ages, but shes turned into quite a nasty little cow!
”

Same as you - she is horrible isn't she, I can't believe I spent my time defencing her. I think the best punishment for her would not be booing, but total silence - or no one showing up at all to see her go.
maybe
24-06-2002
Alpha male = biggest knob

Maybe
A feminist
MustGetOutMore
24-06-2002
Quote:
“Originally posted by schwobble


Most of the stuff that psyche goes on about is rubbish, largely due to the 80's-feminist-office-politics spin she affects to put on everything...
”

Disagree.
I reckon humans are just slightly more sophisticated pack animals.. ie their basic motives are hidden by civilising influences - social elements etc. I think the pysche was exactly right.

Re Alex... maybe not an Alpha male
but
possible
an
Alpha Charlie/Delta Charlie male
schwobble
24-06-2002
Quote:
“Originally posted by MustGetOutMore
Disagree.”

Ignore me - I was talking about the wrong shrink
epicurus
24-06-2002
Quote:
“Originally posted by Avenger
I feel more and more sorry for sophie now. she really does not deserve all the bitching done behind her back. Sophie is so miserable and she really has no idea what she has done wrong. I think the treatment she has recieved especially by Jade who seems to instigate most of it is nothing but bullying.

I really hope Jade is up for eviction on Friday as I know for sure that is where my vote will go. I think once Jade is out the house then Sophie will be happier again. I just hope it will not be to late for sophie as she seems so withdrawn at the moment.

I don't think it's fair to include Alex in on the bitching that is going on, he had said earlier tonight that he really does not see a problem with her. He also confessed in a session on Friday night that he had no idea there was anything wrong with Sophie.
”

The repititive comments from Jade about Sophie are extremely boring and probably too cruel. But, the fact is that Sophie is one-dimensional and pretentious. She may be getting more than her fair share of insults but it does provide a good method for sending a message to people like Sophie in the real world. The message being is that their shallowness is transparent. Having said that, Sophie is enduring more than she should have to.
MustGetOutMore
24-06-2002
Quote:
“Originally posted by epicurus


The repititive comments from Jade about Sophie are extremely boring and probably too cruel. But, the fact is that Sophie is one-dimensional and pretentious. She may be getting more than her fair share of insults but it does provide a good method for sending a message to people like Sophie in the real world. The message being is that their shallowness is transparent. Having said that, Sophie is enduring more than she should have to.
”

She's just a fish out of water. She'll be fine in her own world but she's been dropped into an alien environment and she's struggling. I reckon I would too. Fat Jade has no sense of anything other than herself and, fish-wife like, would loudly batter through whichever environment she was in. Kate and Sophie are adults. Jade is an immature brat. The adults feel more and are aware of more - so its harder for them.
As for Adele - she's lost a fan in me for her cheap work over Sophie
Deerd
24-06-2002
Quote:
“Originally posted by schwobble
Shrink : Fair enough

Post-feminist : Moi? Not until someone makes a screaming big deal about how I can successfully juggle work and home life, and I'd be the first bloke anyone ever did that for
”

well schwobble please let me be the first to at least congratulate you on trying to do the above.

i don't know you so a screaming big deal would be a bit much.

i'm sure the women/men in your life appreciate your efforts.

beware about juggling though you might have alex to answer to (al kate and the oranges) his ego is obviously easily bruised and if he ever hears of your juggling success it might just set him off.

i sent to you a cyber bunch of flowers as a successful juggler.

Deerd
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