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“Originally posted by johnno
I really don't think PJ is gay, but I do think he has some male issues to deal with. By being so much on the attack, you could see this as being overly defensive of his sexuality... it's possible that in the past someone has asked him or suggested to him that he might be gay, and he has since wanted to know what it was about him that provoked this conclusion. I have seen this happen to guys, and they become a tad paranoid that others see the same thing. Just a possibility. ”
possibly: but you still don't say WHY he would become *defensive* about his sexuality. The merely fact that someone has indicated they think PJ is gay, shouldn't , in and of itself, make him suddenly become defensive about his sexuality, surely?
I speak from experience in that I've been asked if I'm gay, usually by gay men (but that's quite another story!..).
And I have no doubts about MY sexuality.
Could it be down to peer pressure? Or perhaps he is merely mimicking the way his father acted towards effiminate men?
Etc
jack
a man, knows it, doesn't need to overplay it.