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Old 12-07-2002, 13:59
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I have never been a Jade fan yet I find it difficult to watch her being constantly ridiculed by the other housemates. I think BB should arrange for her Mum to come to the diary room and give her a big hug!
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Old 12-07-2002, 14:04
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Tim needs a slap, more like.
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Old 12-07-2002, 14:05
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Originally posted by Gulag Blues
Tim needs a slap, more like.
Maybe or some hair dye!!!
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Old 12-07-2002, 14:07
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After the Sophie bashing I really wanted her out to face the public slaughter.

However now that she is being shunned by all the housemates chages things.

She must feel so alone in that house and she can do nothing right in the eyes of the others.

Yes it's mostly her fault but in the real world we all make mistakes and you can walk away and try again.

In the house she wasn't told off about her behaviour, infact she was encouraged by some and this has only made things far worse.

Now that she knows some of the things she has done and how the housemates feel she can't even walk away. This would be a massive test for any of us never mind the fragile state that Jade is in.
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Old 12-07-2002, 14:09
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My girlfriend and I where joking last night that BB was going to call him into the diary room and say:

Tim - you are a tosser.

TIm you may go now.

Instead we got his "I am a wonderful human being speech".
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Old 12-07-2002, 14:10
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Originally posted by Toekiller


However now that she is being shunned by all the housemates chages things.
She is being shunned by her housemates because she has p*ssed them all off.
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Old 12-07-2002, 14:14
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I know she has peeved all the HM's off and has done a lot of bad things but then you cant help feeling sorry for her. I agree I think she does need a hug.

What I don't understand is what her mother is doing, I know if I was in that house and god forbid if I ever I was like a Jade my mother would have broken the doors of the house down and dragged me out of that place no matter what the consequences were and the 70k would never have been an issue,
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Old 12-07-2002, 14:14
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Originally posted by spoon


She is being shunned by her housemates because she has p*ssed them all off.
I'm sorry but I don't agree with what they are doing to her. It is cruel and unkind, if you were isolated in a house with 5 people who didnt like you how lonely would you feel. I feel sorry for Jade, she has made a fool or herself in many ways but to err is human, is it not?
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Old 12-07-2002, 14:16
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Originally posted by Toekiller
After the Sophie bashing I really wanted her out to face the public slaughter.

However now that she is being shunned by all the housemates chages things.

She must feel so alone in that house and she can do nothing right in the eyes of the others.

Yes it's mostly her fault but in the real world we all make mistakes and you can walk away and try again.

In the house she wasn't told off about her behaviour, infact she was encouraged by some and this has only made things far worse.

Now that she knows some of the things she has done and how the housemates feel she can't even walk away. This would be a massive test for any of us never mind the fragile state that Jade is in.
Yes, its hard to watch Jade struggle in there. I felt so sorry for her when she was crying to Jonny. I know she's p*ssed people off both inside and outside the house but she has been good to watch for her b*tching, her apologies, her Jadeisms (whether intentional or not), her sense of fun, WartGate etc etc. She has given us the unforgettable catchphrase, well used in our house - "Am I a Minger......??"
For my money we have seen the real Jade, warts and all, if you'll pardon the pun, and also some real examination of herself which can only be a good thing. I cannot abide all the cr*p about her resemblance to a pig. She had lovely legs and a fine pair of pins. I thought some men like something to get hold of. (please tell me I am right about this!!)
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Old 12-07-2002, 14:19
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Originally posted by warton12


I'm sorry but I don't agree with what they are doing to her. It is cruel and unkind, if you were isolated in a house with 5 people who didnt like you how lonely would you feel. I feel sorry for Jade, she has made a fool or herself in many ways but to err is human, is it not?
Have you every lived with someone as demading as Jade? The constant high maintenance - the need to comfort her constantly - the need to be careful what you say in case you get hours of tears and shouting. It becomes very draining and given its probably quite difficuly living in there without trying to keep Jade happy so they have stopped.

I lived briefly in a house with someone like this years ago and I ended up sleeping on mates floors rather than going home
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Old 12-07-2002, 14:19
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Trouble is, she needs a hug all the time, to the exclusion of everyone else. In the last 24 hours, she has had tearful heart-to-hearts with almost all the HMs, and when she has got round them all she will go back to the beginning and start again. On and on, for ten weeks - no wonder they're beginning to crack under the strain...
She's like an emotions-vampire.
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Old 12-07-2002, 14:21
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She needs a slap, if only for the ridiculous volume she constantly screeches at. Never mind all the backstabbing, bitching, bullying, playing up her ignorance, etc. Her voice alone makes the bloody program unwatchable for me, especially when she's drinking.
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Old 12-07-2002, 14:21
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Originally posted by spoon


Have you every lived with someone as demading as Jade? The constant high maintenance - the need to comfort her constantly - the need to be careful what you say in case you get hours of tears and shouting. It becomes very draining and given its probably quite difficuly living in there without trying to keep Jade happy so they have stopped.

I lived briefly in a house with someone like this years ago and I ended up sleeping on mates floors rather than going home
Well no I haven't but it still doesn' t stop me feeling sorry for the poor girl. I just want her to feel like she has a confidente. Everyone else in the house does.
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Old 12-07-2002, 14:22
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Originally posted by spoon


Have you every lived with someone as demading as Jade? The constant high maintenance - the need to comfort her constantly - the need to be careful what you say in case you get hours of tears and shouting. It becomes very draining and given its probably quite difficuly living in there without trying to keep Jade happy so they have stopped.

I lived briefly in a house with someone like this years ago and I ended up sleeping on mates floors rather than going home
Yep, I lived with someone like that when I was a student. It was a hellish time as she was using lovely subversive bullying tactics to try to make me feel small. A horrible time. She was demanding and attention seeking 24/7. When things didn't go her way, she would cry, scream and shout. Funnily enough, I don't keep in touch with her!
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Old 12-07-2002, 14:25
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Even I have to admit that Jade has grown on me in the past few days and I do feel sorry for her. She is the only HM that has admitted that she's done wrong and is trying hard to correct her mistakes. The other HM seem to far stuck up their own backsides to give her any credit or even notice! Except for Jonny of course who seems to be making a slight effort
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Old 12-07-2002, 14:29
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Personally I loathe the girl, but I hope people like the Sun and Graham Norton who have been nothing but vitriolic towards her - get her involved in advertising or something - they her an awful lot of money I think.

What do you think she'll do when she comes out?
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Old 12-07-2002, 14:32
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Originally posted by warton12

Well no I haven't but it still doesn' t stop me feeling sorry for the poor girl. I just want her to feel like she has a confidente. Everyone else in the house does.
She had loads. She used their confidences against them. End of Story.
(btw PJ doesn't have a confidant(e) either)
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Old 12-07-2002, 14:37
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I think that what Jade really needs is rid of PJ, which I'm sure is going to happen tonight. Maybe without him around constantly ridiculing her things might get a bit easier for her. Yes she's made mistakes but she has tried to make up for them and she does seem to be a really genuine person (even if her genuine isn't to every liking) and I think that she is the only HM who has really put her heart and soul on the line. I do hope she wins!
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Old 12-07-2002, 15:01
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Originally posted by warton12
I have never been a Jade fan yet I find it difficult to watch her being constantly ridiculed by the other housemates. I think BB should arrange for her Mum to come to the diary room and give her a big hug!
I agree!Thats a lovely thought!Ive never really been a big Jade fan,but i dont want to see anyone being made to feel so miserable.
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Old 12-07-2002, 15:38
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Jade needs a slap more like.
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Old 12-07-2002, 15:40
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The HM's should show that they are better than that. Yes Jade was a horrible to Sophie & has done some nasty thing in her time, but that does not mean that she should be treated like crap now. It showed last night how much of a man Jonny was in that he broke rank and comforted her. I've never been much of a Jonny fan, but he did show a very nice side to himself, and came off being very unselfish. It made the others look a bit cruel in comparrison.
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Old 12-07-2002, 15:47
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Originally posted by warton12


to err is human, is it not?
to forgive is divine....

(as the saying goes)
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Old 12-07-2002, 15:47
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The HMs are simple just TIRED of Jade and her antics. If you were in the house 24/7 you would be as well. There is only so much you can take from a person like Jade and her time of suckering other HMs has long expired. Jade was just lucky Jonny took time to comfort her. Any of the other HMs would have done a similar thing if presented with Jade last night in the same circumstances. It is just incredible that people are so soft that they actually feel sorry for her now.....I repeat Jade is a nasty two faced person. SHE WILL BE OUT NEXT WEEK.
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Old 12-07-2002, 16:06
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I know people deserve a 2nd chance.....BUT I cant forget what she was like to Sophie....and she made her feel excactly the same.....here comes that saying....what goes around comes around
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Old 12-07-2002, 16:25
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Originally posted by Spud Father
The HMs are simple just TIRED of Jade and her antics. If you were in the house 24/7 you would be as well. There is only so much you can take from a person like Jade
Yup that's true and in their position I might ignore or avoid her whenever possible but... I would not be that unkind to someone who is sooo out of her depth.
Also lets not forget that all of the HMs have turned her lack of common sense to their own advantage and used her when it suited them only to reject her once she had served her purpose. They know full well what she is like when she's been drinking so why have none of them tried to dissuade her from doing so?
Don't get me wrong I don't like Jade and would have no time for her in the outside world but they're not on the outside, she has no place to go in there. Despite some of the views in here she is actualy a human being and deserves to be treated like one. I'm not and never have been too keen on Jonny but I respect him for at least making some sort of effort to cheer her up. None of the others seemed to give a toss, especially Alex; next to Adele he's used her most and in a very calculating and cold fashion and now he has no use for her he's dropped her like a hot brick. To be honest I don't think any of them deserve to win.
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