I think SULLA means that having a relationship with a bisexual could be complicated...maybe. I mean Ivan could still be tempted by women when with Paul. IF they get together that is, I'm still not sure if they do

Yes, I believe you know where I'm coming from. I was refering to a long term relationship.

Am I wrong in wanting people to make their mind up.

So? If he was out right gay he could still be "tempted" by other men. If someone has a 'wandering eye' or is prone to infidelity their sexual orientation doesn't come into it!

I'd just like to say again, I'M NOT HAVING A GO, it just seams like bisexuality gets a really bad rap. Why is it so unexcepted and misunderstood by so many?

But when you're gay or straight and in a relationship, you are still with the only gender you fancy, so if you stray it's for other reasons.

Being bisexual however, when you have a partner, surely there is a chance that you still want the other half that you've had to leave out cause of the relationship. Basically you might still want men and women at the same time (well not literally, but you know), so being involved could get tricky as you'd essentially have to ditch one half of your sexuality.

A woman paranoid about her male partner possibly straying with another woman would be doubly paranoid if her male partner was bi- sexual I suppose. I believe that it is natural to suspect that a bi-sexual person would tend to stray.

But to clarify, being bi-sexual does not make someone a bad person.

sorry to change the subject, was there any Carl/Del stuff??

It gives more choice

If someone is, by nature, a faithfull, monogamas person, then that's how they'll be in a serious relationship regardless of sexuallity. You might even still look at other people of whichever gender but you would never act on it! You certainly don't feel like you're giving anything up. Quite the opposite. When you meet the right person, it's like you're gaining EVERYTHING!

Whether you're a cheater or loyal to the last, that's how you'll be regardless.

And I certainly wasn't insinuating that you thought bisexuals were bad people. Sorry if it sounded that way.

Yay, Diane and Val have made up.

The Louise/Martin date was funny and Diane winding her up.

Sam under the table was funny and poignant at the same time.