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Why is Petes behaviour acceptable?
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Plant
27-01-2006
Originally Posted by catspaw:
“You've taken the words right out of my mouth! As someone else said higher up the thread, it is reality TV. And it's reality in inverted commas; it's not the really real world where people can come and go as they please, see who they want to see and not those they don't.

Pete may or may not be playing to the cameras when he goes off on one. Equally the person on the receiving end may or may not choose to retaliate/ignore or whatever due to those same cameras. It is a game.

If Pete were like that in the outside world - and I've heard tell that he's a pretty tricky customer - then I'm sure he regularly gets back what he dishes out. In that house it's clearly a different story, presumably because everyone's taking very special care of their image.

Pete has entertained me, and I actually think there's something more to him than spite and vitriol. If there isn't, then he's got me thinking there is.....so he's won me over either way. (Did I hear someone whisper 'gullible'?? )”

The thing is, if he's so terrible, why is it that so many of the people living with him seem to like him? Only Jodie and Rula seem to have a problem with him and Jodie has a problem with everyone.
BigMomma
27-01-2006
Its great to watch George Galloway spiralling into damage limitation as briefed by his advisors I would think. He will give both Pete and Rodman a wide berth mind,....didnt stop him before with SH and crew did it???
Petes single is due for release Monday. It was a very average 1 hit wonder when it first came out and I see no point in re-hashing it.
Muzski
27-01-2006
Pete is not entertaining. He is cruel, evil and extremely ugly. All the vile things he says about other people are projections of what he thinks about himself. He is an insecure, ugly man who wants to be a woman and who thinks he is far cleverer than the really is. He is certainly NOT a genius, what a proposterous assertion by Galloway!!!
Kewpee
27-01-2006
Originally Posted by woo:
“Have to agree with most of this.

It is a game show and people really need to detach themselves from it a bit more.

It's no worse then most soaps and dramas shown at prime time.

In the real world he wouldn't last 5 minutes with his attitude.

The Traci attack was cringeworthy but the rest of his 'act' has been entertaining.

Don't care who wins now Dennis has gone.”

That's all fair enough, and Pete has entertained me, sometimes, but that doesn't mean it's a good thing for him to win.

BB is a pantomime, the goodies, the baddies, the extras etc. And like all good pantomimes, the baddies don't win.

If Pete was to win, what sort of message does that send? That being like him means you are a winner?
Muzski
27-01-2006
Originally Posted by Kewpee:
“That's all fair enough, and Pete has entertained me, sometimes, but that doesn't mean it's a good thing for him to win.

BB is a pantomime, the goodies, the baddies, the extras etc. And like all good pantomimes, the baddies don't win.

If Pete was to win, what sort of message does that send? That being like him means you are a winner?”

He won't win - guaranteed. The public are far smarter than he is.
catspaw
27-01-2006
Originally Posted by Wickedkitten:
“Well hell, when are they cancelling Eastenders and most of the other prime time shows that "impressionable teens" may end up watching?”

Agreed. I know it's an old chestnut, but some of the stuff that is churned out on prime time TV is potentially far more damaging than anything you're likely to see on this show. As far as I know nobody's been murdered, raped, abused (OK - verbally, perhaps ), caught taking smack etc etc etc on BB. Where do you draw the line...........?
The Finisher
27-01-2006
Originally Posted by Gadget:
“I couldn't disagree more.

It's a prime-time show which I would imagine has a huge audience amongst impressionable teens. Rewarding rude, confrontational behaviour is sending out a message that it's not only acceptable, but that it can actually help you get ahead in life.

He should have been booted out at the first possible opportunity.”

I don't think your giving teenagers enough credit. My teens along with most of their friends, are voting for Chantelle, Preston or Traci. This is precisely because they don't like the behaviour of most of the other housemates, and they have come to this conclusion all on their own. If a teen goes on to emulate Petes bad behaviour as a result of watching BB then i would suggest that he\she was going to take that path anyway, regardless of BB. This program gives them a heightened snapshot of the real world and actually teaches them something in how to deal with it. From what i have seen, teens have the ability and intelligence to decide for themselves whats right and wrong. What would you have them watch.. Big Nanny?
catspaw
27-01-2006
[quote=Muzski]Pete is not entertaining. He is cruel, evil and extremely ugly. QUOTE]

Have a heart - he can't help how he looks ..........
peaches41
27-01-2006
Originally Posted by metafis:
“Yes, agreed, we all throw our hands up in despair at the attitudes of some youngsters and how violent crime has risen amongst them etc etc, but then some support this sort of attitude on tv as entertainment.
no wonder some kids today have such appaling attitudes to others when individuals like Pete Burns are feted and supported for their behaviour.”

Couldn 't agree with you more.
Kewpee
27-01-2006
[quote=catspaw]
Originally Posted by Muzski:
“Pete is not entertaining. He is cruel, evil and extremely ugly. QUOTE]

Have a heart - he can't help how he looks ..........”

I would usually have agreed with that, but considering that he's spent a long time and a lot of money to look how he does...well?

Granted his lips were a mistake, but if he hadn't wanted to reinvent them originally....
catspaw
27-01-2006
[quote=Kewpee]
Originally Posted by catspaw:
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I would usually have agreed with that, but considering that he's spent a long time and a lot of money to look how he does...well?

Granted his lips were a mistake, but if he hadn't wanted to reinvent them originally.... ”

I was doing irony..........clearly misfired!
aiko
27-01-2006
Originally Posted by Mummyd:
“[b] ... I keep coming across people who want him to win. If this kind of behaviour is accepted then no wonder we live in a world like it is”

... perhaps people only find it acceptable whilst it is being directed at a target they personally find acceptable. When it is redirected towards a target they personally find unacceptable, then perhaps it also becomes unacceptable. Supporting it allows the dismantling of something. Doing it by proxy, so to speak, saves getting the piquant little dish of spite spilled on their own sweet selves and leaving a stain for the world and it's Grandma to see.

But it is just a thought. One of those thoughts that occurs to you at about 2.30 in the morning. Feel free to mock.
Mummyd
27-01-2006
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“It's no worse then most soaps and dramas shown at prime time.”

There is a difference here.

Soaps and dramas involve acting. Comments made to you do not affect you because it is acting. Its not real

Petes behaviour is real. His behaviour is meant to hurt peoples feelings and he is genuinely upsetting people in there.

When children see their parents supporting Pete and wanting him to win 'he's entertaining', 'that was funny'- what message do you think that gives them?
bob_loblaw
27-01-2006
Originally Posted by Gadget:
“I find it deeply worrying that some people place more importance on being entertained by a TV show than they do in people having good manners.”

So may I ask exactly what it is you want to see on a typical Big Brother series?
bob_loblaw
27-01-2006
Originally Posted by Mummyd:
“There is a difference here.

Soaps and dramas involve acting. Comments made to you do not affect you because it is acting. Its not real

Petes behaviour is real. His behaviour is meant to hurt peoples feelings and he is genuinely upsetting people in there.

When children see their parents supporting Pete and wanting him to win 'he's entertaining', 'that was funny'- what message do you think that gives them?”

Traci still likes Pete, she seems to be over it now.

Maybe you should consider doing the same?
bazzup
27-01-2006
Originally Posted by bob_loblaw:
“So may I ask exactly what it is you want to see on a typical Big Brother series?”

Personally, I like to see the entertaining characters stay in the house until we get towards the end. Then I like to see the ones who add to the dynamic of the house but are deeply unpleasant get punished with evictions and boos.

HM's who are not entertaining but are just unpleasant, eg: Scary Mary or Leslie, should go asap.

Most of the time, I think the BB voters get it about right.

What I don't like seeing is people trying to pass off Pete's rudeness as wit or bullying as "telling it straight". And I certainly don't want to see Pete Burns get a talk show out of it (I think that's rubbish anyway).

For me, BB is a personality contest and I think the person who comes across as the most good and decent should win in the end.
bob_loblaw
27-01-2006
Originally Posted by bazzup:
“Personally, I like to see the entertaining characters stay in the house.”

What is entertaining for you?

Pete is entertaining for a lot of us, as you can see from his popularity.

I would like to say that if Pete wasn't in this Big Brother there probably wouldn't be a Celeb BB5.
bazzup
27-01-2006
Originally Posted by bob_loblaw:
“What is entertaining for you?

Pete is entertaining for a lot of us, as you can see from his popularity.

I would like to say that if Pete wasn't in this Big Brother there probably wouldn't be a Celeb BB5.”

Entertaining people are the ones who add to the dynamic of the house - the ones who make things happen. Whether that's because they start rows or have fun doesn't matter. I would Pete in the "entertaining" category, although I disagree with your second assertion - I think there were plenty of more entertaining people in the house, eg: GG, Jodi, Barrymore, Chantelle, Preston. I'm not saying I like all of them, but they added to the show. Pete's just a one-note bitch.

Like I say, I don't mind Pete lasting towards the end, but I hope he gets a boo to end all boos when he comes out of the house.
catspaw
27-01-2006
Originally Posted by Mummyd:
“There is a difference here.

Soaps and dramas involve acting. Comments made to you do not affect you because it is acting. Its not real

Petes behaviour is real. His behaviour is meant to hurt peoples feelings and he is genuinely upsetting people in there.

When children see their parents supporting Pete and wanting him to win 'he's entertaining', 'that was funny'- what message do you think that gives them?”

Two things.

If these young and impressionable people are so easily led, they're unlikely to differentiate between fiction and fact. It'll either affect them or it won't, whether it's Eastenders or BB. There seem to be plenty of grown adults around who think that Phil Mitchell et al are real, judging from the reactions in the street that these actors say they get, so why children should spot the difference I'm not sure.

Children are notoriously horrendously cruel to each other They'll probably be far less fazed and influenced by Pete's verbal torrents than the average grown-up. They're like it every day in the playground, and I'm not just talking about bullies! (And, yes, much as I like Pete, he IS a bit like an overgrown infant much of the time. )
tigerboy
27-01-2006
[quote=catspaw]
If Pete were like that in the outside world - and I've heard tell that he's a pretty tricky customer - then I'm sure he regularly gets back what he dishes out. In that house it's clearly a different story, presumably because everyone's taking very special care of their image.
QUOTE]

I think Pete will be as much as a drama queen on the outside as on the in, he reminds me of a gay guy who used to work in the same office. As anybody knows from watching The Office, workplaces can be bitchy places, with some workmates providing equally bitchy remarks and humourous comments. Now just think if the guy working in that situation is like Pete, not in looks but in temperment
tigerboy
27-01-2006
Originally Posted by susie4964:
“Pete's basically a freak, under the guise of just being himself. I nearly died when George said he would meet him outside the house, somehow I don't think the two of them frequent quite the same places!! .”

Think there is a Lib Dem joke to be worked somewhere into that paragraph!!!!
Mummyd
27-01-2006
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“Traci still likes Pete, she seems to be over it now.

Maybe you should consider doing the same?”

Its his general behaviour i'm referring to here. If i were to get over his behaviour then thats saying i find it acceptable
ludovica
27-01-2006
I used to think he was pretty cool before CBB

I now think he is repulsive in just about every way possible
His behaviour is NOT acceptable as far as I am concerned
xynaria
27-01-2006
I love the way some of these posts have a gleeful viscousness that Pete at his is worst could only dream of............................
40-40J's
27-01-2006
Originally Posted by catspaw:
“Agreed. I know it's an old chestnut, but some of the stuff that is churned out on prime time TV is potentially far more damaging than anything you're likely to see on this show. As far as I know nobody's been murdered, raped, abused (OK - verbally, perhaps ), caught taking smack etc etc etc on BB. Where do you draw the line...........?”

Soap operas/drama's etc are 'acted out' - not for real. The 'beginning' 'middle' and 'end' are scripted and the producers/directors know exactly what reation they are looking for.

So, bearing this in mind, would it be 'entertainment' if BB said the gloves are off, its a fight to the finish and the last one standing wins...literally?

If BB said is was ok for the housemates to bring there own supply of smack and if you fancy any of the girls that are in the house, it's ok if just have your way with them and if someone dies in the onslaught of any of this it doesn't matter because "it's reality t.v and entertaining"

If it's ok for Pete to verbally abuse his fellow housemates for the sack of the few small minded viewers, then surely those same viewers wouldn't see a problem with it going further.
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