Originally Posted by Dangerman:
“I've no doubt there are some - out of 70+ people , it's inevitable there will be a few who are jealous but it may be that more are jealous of the opportunities 'given' to her rather than actually jealous of her i.e. those who feel they haven't been given the opportunities they deserve ( Craig & Kemal come to mind ) while others who maybe had less lofty aspirations or have been given more opportunity wouldn't be jealous at all.”
I don't think anybody could argue with what you've said there Dangerman, and it's definitely accurate from what I know of some housemates (from both points of view).
There are some things I wish I'd been able to do as a result of being on Big Brother, and some things that I've been stunned at having the opportunity to do. I'm especially glad that I've been able to avoid "most" (lol) of the things I'd no doubt regret, and sadly I think that's where certain housemates come a cropper - whether it's agreeing to do things that are perhaps ill-advised, or seeking to do everything that is offered 'no matter what' just for that 5 minutes of fame thing.
I suppose to some people I might come across as hypocritical when it comes to 'meeja work' after Big Brother, having genuinely thought that I would return to my 'normal' work straight after the programme finished. I do think a combination of things is to blame when it comes to housemates' downfall (or perceived downfall at least) and I don't think it's the fault of the housemates 100% of the time. I know we can blame 'the press' for anything and everything, but a lot of the responsibility for how we view a particular housemate lies with the press, once they're out of the house. Often there's 'no smoke without fire' but we all know how spin can affect things. There is no doubt that some housemates turn up at the renowned opening of an envelope and would be better advised to stay home occasionally - yet on the other hand there's no doubt that some of these events are not the shallow glam-sham that many of them are.
From my own point of view, I'm not jealous of other housemates' opportunities - I love it when I see some of them having great fun and enjoying the loads of exciting opportunities that come their way. I met Ant from BB6 recently and he's having a ball and genuinely enjoying most of it. That's what I like to see, not the desperate circus-following that some are accused of.