Originally Posted by stapler:
“Why shouldnt she say "on your feet for kate"..??
if she says it for eveyone else then she should say it for her as well,not single her out, asking people to be on their feet for her would show her she has the same support, not make her think she is having the piddle taken out of her.
just because she is in a wheelchair doesnt make her deaf nor dumb,she is the same as a normal person,its her legs she is without not her feelings.
why are so many people so down on her?,at least she has the bottle to get up there and give it her best knowing full well she will be having the mickey taken out of her.
if she can accept her disability and not hide behind her chair why dont everyone else?,nobody is perfect, no body is better than you ,but your no better than anyone else either.”
well, i assume that's a typo and you mean Kerry

I AM NOT HAVING A POP AT KERRY! please lighten up.
i don't rate her voice but i am not picking on her. i don't give a monkey's if she's in a chair. if her voice and presentation knocked my socks off she'd get my vote above anyone else who didn't.
the direction my post is going is aimed fair and square at how PC we have to be today. how the child looking at the very fat person makes the parent sweat worrying if or when the said child will say 'mummy, look at that fat man'. there's no malice, but we all get so hot under the collar over it all. and if Kerry had an ounce of humour, YES! she would laugh! because it would be as you said. but what would really happen? gasps... red faces... fumbled scripts, shocked faces, nervous twitterings and something to cover Kate's discomfort at having made such a social faux-pas! so please understand i am not vindictive or petty minded, and can equally spot the funny side of a situation.