I've said it before. The
vast majority of people on this forum who object to Emma don't actually object to her per se. They object to what they perceive is the vast amount of publicity surrounding her in proportion to the others (and much of this is not her fault but if this is her PR company I think she should fire them! They're doing her absolutely no favours!) and also what they see as overmarking (not getting into that). Their axe is with the judges, the BBC and the media. As is mine but in a different way because it's doing her no favours and I actually like Emma and would like to see her progress into the semis at least (doubt very much if that's going to happen now).
Unfortunately there are the minority who seem to think it's okay to be personal (about her personality, how genuine she is, the way she looks et al). Would those same people, hiding behind the anonymity of forum names as they can on here speak to her like that in public? Are they really so keen on being hurtful to someone whose only crime is to appear in a dance show (and be a singer from an ex-famous pop group, however bad or good they were)? If so, then I despair of this society. (But then I despaired of society a long time ago. I much prefer animals).
Criticising the dancing is fair enough - after all, that's what this forum (and others) are for but the personal attacks are a bit much (not that it's limited to this forum or even DS. Since the advent of the internet it seems it's fine to launch deeply personal attacks on people whom you don't know and with whom, if you were face to face, you wouldn't say such things - unless of course there was a gang of people all of the same mind and that kind of thing has been known to get out of hand and turn to violence
It seems that 'self-restraint' is a forgotten entity where some people are concerned. Freedom of speech is incredibly important (and I would defend to the death someone's right to say whatever they like), but where has tempering what one says in line with morals and manners gone? In fact, what has happened to manners and morals?
I think that's why I prefer animals!
It doesn't help when a small minority of Emma's fans then make blanket statements about others on this forum either! Maybe they haven't bothered to read the whole thread but have just digested those comments aimed at Emma specifically and then tarred everyone with the same brush (wow, I love a good cliche

).
And it also doesn't help Emma's cause when her fans (again a tiny minority of them) feel the need to attack other celebs or pros in defence. That just makes things ten times worse. Again, those are personal attacks which are completely unwarranted and shouldn't be tolerated.
To be honest, some of the vicious attacks on this forum on both Emma and others (although there have been far more directed toward Emma by that small minority than against Mark, Matt, Louisa and their partners), have really turned me off SCD this year. I shall be quite glad when it's over.
That can be partly attributed to the way SCD has gone about things this time and I agree that they should take a good, long look at the direction they've taken it and change it back to how it used to be next year. All the joy has been taken out of it for me (and for a lot of others, I would guess, whoever they are fans of). The constant backbiting on here and the heavy inclusion of the media (who really
don't know the meaning of self-restraint but that's partly society's fault as if we didn't buy the newspapers publishing such crap then they wouldn't print it) not to mention the overkill of people publicising their albums/DVD/s etc etc etc on SCDITT has ruined the show.
I understand that the BBC are in a ratings war with ITV and The X-Factor, but lowering themselves to the lowest common denominator is not the way to go about it. Although they seem to think it is.
As I said,
the vast majority of people on this forum are reasonable, polite people who are simply expressing their own frustration about the direction things have taken this year and unfortunately, Emma's treatment seems to be at the core of it; however, they're not attacking Emma herself and actually may feel a little sorry for her. And unfortunately, the tiny minority who do seem to feel it necessary to attack her personal attributes don't seem to understand the concept of plain, ordinary, common manners but defend their actions with the obligatory 'I can say what I want; it's a free forum'. I have no doubt that there'll be several messages to that effect after this (and therefore I rest my case, m'lud!)