Okay Stuart 62, if you really WANT to be tedious ...
I wasn't judging her just by her weight
Don't be ridiculous! Of course you were. And if you weren't, why go on to defend doing it in your next sentence...
No - if you read it properly instead of just jumping on the weight thing I said that I thought she looked older than I would have thought her character was supposed to be but perhaps it was her clothes and her weight. Not just her weight. The way she dressed and her weight. Why did you just pick up on the weight thing?
human beings DO judge each other by appearance. It may not be fair, but that's the way it goes.
Speak for yourself. Personaly I try not to judge people anyway but in general, my opinion of them is based on their behaviour and their ideas. Thankfully, most of the people I know do the same.
That's crap, quite frankly. You may do it subconsciously, but you judge whether somebody is male or female, whether they are young or old, whether they are likely to be fertile (size of hips, narrowness of waist etc), whether they are sexually aroused, whether they are likely to accept your advances, whether they are good breeding stock, whether they are bigger or smaller than you. We're animals. We get over it quickly once we get to know someone, but we DO make those first impressions of people based on their appearance. That's why people dress up for interviews, that's why women wear high heels and make up.