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Old 30-01-2007, 13:09
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Kevin is not Carly and Deano`s Dad yet when Shirley left them he continued to care for them and brought them up and loved them as if they were his own. The alternative would have been to say they aren`t mine and put them into care.
He has been a doting father who has put them first, been there for them all the time. Their Mother obviously, to put it mildly sleeps around a bit. By keeping her away from them he did them a favour.
As he and Shirley were married presumably he is named as their father on their birth certificates, so when was the best time to tell them he wasn`t really their Dad?
When they were small, having had their mother leave them would they have felt more secure if he had told them then?
When they were grown up, what`s grown up Carly when we first met her, Deano now?
I`m on Kevin`s side in this and I think they should thank Kevin. A Dad is the person who loved and cared for you not someone you didn`t even know.
From what I`ve read happens Carly and Deano are selfish spoilt brats who should get down on their knees and give thanks that Kevin didn`t walk away from them like their mother.
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Old 30-01-2007, 13:15
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I thought this too. I can't imagine why this is so bad that they'd run away or try to kill themselves!!
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Old 30-01-2007, 13:17
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I think that once the kids realise just how much he's done for them they'll really regret their actions. Imho it stems from the fact that he's not told them all these years. I suppose it's a bit like a child being told he/she has been adopted when he/she is in their teens.
Pat or Denise will sort them out with a few home truths.
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Old 30-01-2007, 13:25
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I think it would be a huge shock for anyone. Imagine if your mother or father turned around and said to your I'm not your Father/Mother.
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Old 30-01-2007, 13:25
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yes, i wondered this. after all he's done for them, ud think they'd appreciate him even more for the fact that he cud have just walked away and left them to fend for themselves. whether there is something more to this i don't know, but it does seem a bit mad
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Old 30-01-2007, 13:25
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theres gotta be more to it than that imo
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Old 30-01-2007, 13:26
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Originally Posted by Sunanda
I think it would be a huge shock for anyone. Imagine if your mother or father turned around and said to your I'm not your Father/Mother.
A shock yes, but no need to go silly about it
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Old 30-01-2007, 13:27
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But its all been built on a lie. Surely people are not that slow to pick up why anyone in this situation would feel cheated?
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Old 30-01-2007, 13:35
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I understand why Carlie & Deano are so upset, they have been lied too all there lives, but I think they will come round eventually to the fact that Kevin as been a doting dad, and that hes always loved them like his own. However if he abandons them (like there mother did)... he will completely shatter his relationship with his kids.
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Old 30-01-2007, 13:40
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Originally Posted by Sunanda
I think it would be a huge shock for anyone. Imagine if your mother or father turned around and said to your I'm not your Father/Mother.
Happened to me, when I was about 14, I was told something similar, I just looked back at the last 14 years and at the 14 years I might have had with my real mother (who I knew) and weighed up very quickly that I had had the best deal out of it and that was it. I have never hankered after my mother or wanted to find out who my father is. It neither interests me, nor do I think it would be respectful of the two people who brought me up as their son and scrimped and saved and sacirficed things to give me a good upbringing.
Not once did I turn against them.
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Old 30-01-2007, 13:42
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Originally Posted by soapmania
I understand why Carlie & Deano are so upset, they have been lied too all there lives, but I think they will come round eventually to the fact that Kevin as been a doting dad, and that hes always loved them like his own. However if he abandons them (like there mother did)... he will completely shatter his relationship with his kids.
Exactly. Its a normal reaction for many. My best friend found out her dad wasn't her real father 6 years ago and she took the news so badly. She started drinking heavly and everything however she did eventually come round.
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Old 30-01-2007, 13:43
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Originally Posted by soapmania
I understand why Carlie & Deano are so upset, they have been lied too all there lives, but I think they will come round eventually to the fact that Kevin as been a doting dad, and that hes always loved them like his own. However if he abandons them (like there mother did)... he will completely shatter his relationship with his kids.
He would not need to go anywhere if they were not so thick and selfish
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Old 30-01-2007, 13:45
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another wicks thread lol they are a popular family
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Old 30-01-2007, 15:15
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I don't think this is the only secret. Surely they wouldn't go mad over just this?
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Old 30-01-2007, 15:30
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Originally Posted by jen0607
I don't think this is the only secret. Surely they wouldn't go mad over just this?
Why wouldn't they? first off they find out they Dad is not their real father making their whole lives a lie. Then they find out neither Carly or Deano share the same father and are the result of their mother being a slut.

I think they have a right to be angry. Like I said before its a normal reaction to finding out something this big. They are not going to say ''oh nevermind'' are they.
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Old 30-01-2007, 15:35
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Originally Posted by Sunanda
Why wouldn't they? first off they find out they Dad is not their real father making their whole lives a lie. Then they find out neither Carly or Deano share the same father and are the result of their mother being a slut.

I think they have a right to be angry. Like I said before its a normal reaction to finding out something this big. They are not going to say ''oh nevermind'' are they.
Are you saying I am not normal then?
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Old 30-01-2007, 15:40
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Originally Posted by Sunanda
Why wouldn't they? first off they find out they Dad is not their real father making their whole lives a lie. Then they find out neither Carly or Deano share the same father and are the result of their mother being a slut.

I think they have a right to be angry. Like I said before its a normal reaction to finding out something this big. They are not going to say ''oh nevermind'' are they.
But why would that set them off against Kevin... If their mum had slept around that meant she'd cheated on Kevin in the first place...

Ok fair enough they'd be a bit messed up but they'd get over it eventually but they can't blame Kevin for Shirleys actions can they??? Surely after a while they'd realise that Kevin was a better man then they had thought for taking them in ok I know it'll take a while for them to get over it but I don't think it makes their life a lie either... It means they've never known their parents but they still are the people that they grew up to be...
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Old 30-01-2007, 15:45
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why would carly and deano be mad with kevin? that is what i do not understand. i can understand that they would be even more upset with shirly
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Old 30-01-2007, 15:46
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It's the second secret that really flips them over the edge..it's in all the spoiler mags and on all the other Wicks secret threads.
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Old 30-01-2007, 15:52
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but maybe if i found out my dad wasnt mine i wouldnt know how id react. It is a hard one as hes brought them up well knowing they arent his kids.
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Old 30-01-2007, 15:55
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i dont understand why they would react like that, cos i dont think there are many men that would continue to care for children after finding out they werent his own.
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Old 30-01-2007, 16:03
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We haven't seen them react yet?
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Old 30-01-2007, 16:03
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Old 30-01-2007, 16:03
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thats true but at the same time they must be shocked and they are hitting out with this news. Some people would take this hard. never being in this position i cant and probably shouldnt comment but maybe we should take a step back and think how we would feel.
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Old 30-01-2007, 16:03
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Post or thread?

Go to the front Soap page for a thread...top left hand corner is the thread button.

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