I think the point is, Katie said she would always put her children first and that was construed wrong. If someone had said to Tre "you can either have this job and never see your kid or have your kid and never get this job" he too would have chosen his children, its a parent thing. Hell, even Sir Alan would put his kids first I'm sure. The interviewer was trying to tie Katie up in knots...but, having said that, he was right because Katie didn't want to relocate her kids in the end.