Originally Posted by Tc7:
“...that was my initial point.
However, if I owned a small post office, I would like to know if the employee has children as there will be times when that employee is late and has to take time off for the kids. That impacts on my business and profits.
Also if the employee lives in an area with poor transportation, I would like to know.
A bad decision could cost me my business. Yet, apparently, I can not ask these relavant questions when interviewing.
Tc”
The problem with this is that dinosaur employers make the assumption automatically that the woman deals with childcare, and therefore is less reliable. And that isn't always the case.
They also assume if aged 30 you don't have kids, you are just about to.
The fact is, you are at just as much risk employing a guy, in your post office who might turn out to be just as unreliable. Perhaps he will sleep in alot. Or perhaps he has elderly parents to care for. Or perhaps he is just a waster. You just don't know, and he isn't going to admit to any of the above at interview....
I agree that smaller businesses can find it a minefield when employing women, and it can be an expensive issue to absorb. Personally I'd like to see a fairer system of reimbursement to aid small businesses. But I can also see it from the point of view of a woman of child bearing age.
Personally, I made a commitment to my employer the day they hired me. To me it is about working together to find the best working practice that suits us both and ideally it would be up to the individual employers to work things out with their employees. Unfortunately many employers are less clued up about the work-life balance and because of this there needs to be legislation to protect parents.