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EE Should Deano and Carly give thier Mum a chance
Deano despreatly wants a mum,but keeps being let down. Carly just cant trust her and wont allow herself to be drawn in. Should they give Shirley a chance ??
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def not they didnt ask to be her children and she should have tried harder when they were still young! too little too late?!
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Yeah they should...she's not evil. Better late than never, it would be better for both of them if they could forgive her and move on.
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Well Dean has always wanted a mum type figure...and he has given her loads of chances already...im not sure really. I think they should be civil with her but not sort of take her word for anything and trust her as much as you would with a parent.
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def not they didnt ask to be her children and she should have tried harder when they were still young! too little too late?!
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shirley keeps letting deano down though. he has tried so many times with her.
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There is no doubt she's got no mothering skills at all...but she isn't a vile person she's just a bit of a slapper. She's not gonna turn into mother of the year, they should just accept this is the way she is and get on with their lives..they are adults now.
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I think they have to. Deano wont be happy till he does have a relationship with Shirley but he has to wake up and realise she isnt capable of being the kind of mum he wants. carly needs to talk about how she felt as a 5 year old being left and get alot of stuff off he chest with her Mum and accept some mothering if Shirley is able to supply it
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I think they have to. Deano wont be happy till he does have a relationship with Shirley but he has to wake up and realise she isnt capable of being the kind of mum he wants. carly needs to talk about how she felt as a 5 year old being left and get alot of stuff off he chest with her Mum and accept some mothering if Shirley is able to supply it
She's Deano and Carly's mother but she can never be their 'mum'. |
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I think they want Shirley to make more of an effort. I think they have given her enough chances
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they have. Carly went to her last week or something for info, and all looked good, the conversation was cival and happy, till carly realised she was lying, and bam, that probaby just reinforced to her, she cant trust her, or rely on her because she always lets you down. Dean the same. Shirley keeps making mistakes, you can tell she loves them, but she's let them down big time, of course they are going to be resentful of her. any child who's mother leaves when you are young and abandons you for 17 odd years while you grow up is going to be very angry and resentful. the strong unconditional bond children have with their parents, isnt there with carly because she hasnt brought her up or been in her life. she hasnt been a 'mother' to them in any sense of the word.
she needs to make small steps, and gain their trust gradually, because i do think they want a relationship with her underneath it all, deano deff.. and maybe they can have a cival relationship with her, but one suspects shirley will keep screwing up, she's just a character that you cant really trust because you always get let down in the end. |
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Shirley should leave Walford and take her son with her
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No they should both say
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No they should both disappear and never be heard of again.
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No I do not want them to leave.
I want Shirley to stop trying to get Carly to accept her and by extension make deano feel small. I want Deano, well I want Deano. Seriously though I want Deano to accept that he is loved by Kevin and Carly; to stop trying to have the Mum he wants but accept the Mum he has got. Carly, well Carly is fine, all she really cares about is Kevin and Deano and she owes nothing to her Mum, so whatever. |
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Ah, kyri and SULLA - the biggest Deano fans!
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That's us
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It's obvious you care kyri
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Yes they should in my opinion. They should all move on from the past and Carly and Deano should get to know their mum whilst they still can - they now have an opportunity to get to know Shirley very well now and they shouldn't let that opportunity slip away.
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shirley has never had kids so she doesnt know how to treat them and how their minds work.
She has been alone for like the past 17 years so in that time she has become very selfish. I deff think she should work harder and stick to what she says to Dean and carly. And Dean should make up his own mind about her...not take Carly's word for it like last time |
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shirley has never had kids so she doesnt know how to treat them and how their minds work.
She has been alone for like the past 17 years so in that time she has become very selfish. I deff think she should work harder and stick to what she says to Dean and carly. And Dean should make up his own mind about her...not take Carly's word for it like last time
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It suits him at the moment
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It suits him at the moment
Deano sounds childish for a 19/20 year old...i dont like it |
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Yes they should in my opinion. They should all move on from the past and Carly and Deano should get to know their mum whilst they still can - they now have an opportunity to get to know Shirley very well now and they shouldn't let that opportunity slip away.
If she truly cared for them she wouldn't want to make them unhappy but, not only can't she seem to help herself, she also seems to get pleasure from it! I think she's turned up now for all the wrong reasons - namely: she's suddenly getting too old to be the good time girl and realises once she loses her ability to 'pick-up' the men, she'll end up on her own. That's why she wants her family around her, selfishness, not because she cares about them. |
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