Originally Posted by Kenko2000:
“Just watched this and didn't Lee doesn't seem to understand that there is a hierarchy in a kitchen for a reason, and you have to respect whoever is made team leader, even if you don't agree with them.”
And that might be fine in a cooking situation, and Lee had already admitted he'd done wrong, and apologised, and considered it water under the bridge. However, regardless of where you are in the cooking hierarchy, you should still treat others with respect, and Lee has just as much right as anyone else to say when he finds something offensive. It's also worth remembering that it isn't just about kitchen banter. They are making a tv show that is screened in living rooms across the country. That's the reason Emily, a daft, ignorant 19 year old, was chucked out of Big Brother, with front page headlines to match, when she didn't think she'd done anything wrong either. I know the term isn't as offensive, but I wonder what would have happened if an unknown contestant on any other reality tv show had said something similar, and another contestant challenged them on it?
Lee wasn't making a big show of things, he was surprisingly measured when he approached Marco, and I'm sure if he'd said that he didn't agree that it was offensive, and he was using it in the original sense etc, and then they could have agreed to disagree. Instead, Marco tried to humiliate Lee by making out he and all of his gypsy friends must be stupid if they think it's an offensive term, or that he was making it all up just to spite him.
Moving away from whether or not the term "pikey" is offensive, apart from the alliteration, what was the point in raising a "pikey picnic" in the first place? He was making some kind of irrelevant generalisation about gypsies, not once, but twice.
I think it's telling that Marco admires Jim Davidson so much, and his great, great admiration for Maggie Thatcher was a bit chilling too.