Foxy23, I can see you're determined to think the best of Marc, but your argument isn't logical.
Marc was already back home, and knew what the media reaction had been like, when he wrote that note. If he really thought it would be better to give Cerys some space, why write a note promising to be there? Don't make promises you're not prepared to follow through on!
You've got to give him some credit, though - first he manages to publicly humiliate his (now ex) girlfriend in front of millions. And then, within a matter of days, he publicly humiliates her replacement in front of millions too!
I despair of my fellow women sometimes

Wake up and smell the coffee, Cerys!
Oh, and to answer your question:
Quote:
“And don't we all secretly want 'updates' as to what is going on?”
For me, the answer's a definite NO!!