Originally Posted by Vivid:
“I don't object to her personally, rather what she represents. She is an example of the air-headed, self-indulgent, immature and self-deluded who thinks the world revolves around her needs and desires, and Feng Shui and aromatherapy. She is detached from reality, yet she thinks she is marvellous and attached to reality, it is a grand delusion. It is as though she hasn't grown up from being a teenager and is still dressing up.
She has some sort of following in the main (there are exceptions of course) because she dresses up and wears berets and thereby seems to catch support from people who are more interested in style than substance, and it is very noticeable that almost all of her supporters don't seem to understand the adult world, how to manage people or how to achieve goals. One notable supporter seemed to recognise her general ineptness and defended it because she was ...errrhh .. inept and argued she should be given special consideration rather than criticism, insane!
Perhaps most maddening of all is her focus on herself, on her feelings, her emotions, on her views, at the expense of other people and the real world and its priorities and her conversation revolves infuriatingly around these themes.
She would probably be better social company than some of the other candidates, such as the graceless chav Claire ( who is also focused on herself but has learnt to hide it) , because she is more harmless and less stupid than Claire and has some basic charms, but if I had to work with her I would go absolutely barmy.”
She thinks the world revolves around Feng Shui and aromatherapy? Why, because she's interested in them? You've absolutely no basis for that statement. Do you have interests? If so, do you think the world revolves around them?
"She thinks she is marvellous" - does she? You've heard her say "I think I'm marvellous"? What is the grounds for this statement.
"She hasn't grown up..." - because she's not bitter and twisted and maintains an element of light-heartedness in her life? (This is the queue for your "immature..." etc rant here, without actually providing any basis for all these names).
Your whole 2nd paragraph is about her "support" which i believe - as mentioned in my last post - is not under her control. She's not Oprah with an army of baying brainwashed viewers awaiting their next orders (eg "Buy Book").
Your 3rd paragraph refers to her focus on herself at the expense of everything else. What is this based on? On the show i've seen her show empathy for fellow contestants (eg Lindi when being fired, Sara when under attack by the other candidates). Regarding her expressing her views etc, I assume you're talking about the "to camera" pieces, where she is replying to direct questions about her views on various matters...? If not, please fill me in. She does have a more visible softer side than most of the other candidates, which in my opinion is not a bad thing. You need all sorts to make a team work.
Yes, she is good social (and business) company - although I've actually warmed to Claire in the past few weeks too and think she might be a good laugh to have a drink with, outside of the office. (I'm not trying to disagree with everything you say, i promise!).
I've found her to be extremely capable, sharp, respected (by peers, clients and managament) and fun.
To reiterate my original point - and the reason i'm typing all this in the first place - I still cannot help thinking that there's something more driving your posts than just a girl off the telly that annoys you. If this is the case, you'll never tell us I'm sure so this post has been a waste of time for everyone concerned, but even so, your continuous venom has bothered me into replying. It just all seems a little over the top to me.