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Lee's "bullying" of Sara
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DavetheScot
04-06-2008
Lee seems to me to be a man with two sides to his character. He is very extrovert, and this can manifest itself in a good way, especially when things are going well and he is in a happy frame of mind. Look at him in Marrakesh with Lucinda and Sara; see how full of confidence he is, and how the two girls are enjoying being in his company.

But there does seem a darker side to him, when he becomes very aggressive and angry, sometimes for not much reason. His behaviour to Sara after Kevin's firing was one example, but there have been others; remember his fury in the restuarant task when he was asked to get black bin bags?

I think he is essentially a decent guy, but this is a very off-putting trait of his. Maybe being on The Apprentice will have done him a favour in this regard; if he's been watching I imagine he probably found himself cringing at the sight of himself snarling at a petite young woman. Maybe he'll be a little more aware in the future how he comes across at such times?
sparkie70
04-06-2008
Originally Posted by apprentice_fan:
“I think lee was definitely out of order. There were a few other sentences: "If 4 people out of 5 thought you didn't contribute, how are you sitting on that sofa"”

Whist I felt for Sara, I beleave Lee just went off on one which is bound to happen under pressure.

The fact he pointed to the others shows he is just pointing out what others say in their heads.
vidalia
04-06-2008
I think the 'pack mentality' thing comes out quite a lot especially when there are still quite a lot of them but they have been there long enough to have made connections and cliques - Lucinda definitely was ganged up on and so was Sara. That diminishes as the numbers drop and groups split up and personalities start to come out more.

I think it is human nature and happens a lot when you have groups living and working closely together like that.
Healthylife
04-06-2008
He is my fave sara was a weak link.
vidalia
04-06-2008
It is not bullying according to Raef on GMTV this morning but 'inarticulate enthusiasm'.
Katenutzs
04-06-2008
Originally Posted by vidalia:
“It is not bullying according to Raef on GMTV this morning but 'inarticulate enthusiasm'.”

I felt that too but this year bully seems to be the buzz word associated with 'the apprentice' even SAS is a bully according to some. Political correctness gone haywire.

However I will accept there have been some bullying in the female side this year. But Lees outburst was not bullying even if it was not nice
2LO
04-06-2008
Originally Posted by Katenutzs:
“I felt that too but this year bully seems to be the buzz word associated with 'the apprentice' even SAS is a bully according to some. Political correctness gone haywire.”

I agree.

Having a loud argument with someone is now bullying.

Lee and Helene were both accused of bullying on the basis of being unnecessarily loud and forceful.

In each case their behaviour was not ideal (although Lucinda gave as good as she got and actually initiated the shouting), but comes nowhere close to what could be described as bullying.

Compared to the shouting match between Saira and Paul on the last episode of S1 neither of these incidents even registered on the Richter Scale.
vidalia
04-06-2008
Sara said she didn't feel it was bullying but that was ganged up against - as it was aimed at her, we ought to accept that that was what she felt.

It was inappropriate in that, as Ruth Badger said on TV this morning, when you get back from the boardroom you feel totally exhausted and as though you have been through several rounds with a tiger, so all you want is a hug and to relax. You do not expect to have that mauling continue from your colleagues including people who were not even in your team.
InigoMontoya
04-06-2008
Originally Posted by vidalia:
“It was inappropriate in that, as Ruth Badger said on TV this morning, when you get back from the boardroom you feel totally exhausted and as though you have been through several rounds with a tiger, so all you want is a hug and to relax. You do not expect to have that mauling continue from your colleagues including people who were not even in your team.”

With the editing, we have no idea if she did get a hug and an chance to relax before that incident. All we can say is that she hadn't changed her clothes.
vidalia
04-06-2008
Originally Posted by InigoMontoya:
“With the editing, we have no idea if she did get a hug and an chance to relax before that incident. All we can say is that she hadn't changed her clothes.”

That's true. All we know is that she herself said she felt ganged up against, she was not given a chance to defend herself and she looked like a rabbit caught in the headlights. She also said she saw a counsellor about it afterwards and had considered leaving. Raef also said on GMTV that he felt very uncomfortable whilst it was happening and that's why he stepped in.
Sidespin Nid
04-06-2008
Originally Posted by InigoMontoya:
“With the editing, we have no idea if she did get a hug and an chance to relax before that incident. All we can say is that she hadn't changed her clothes.”



Well we can't really do that can we? Otherwise we could apply that to everything and say things like Lucinda said she definetely wanted to do the technical things in the photography as she wanted to learn. Or that Lee told everyone to start on Sara and it was all edited out. We can't assume things we have no proof of.
InigoMontoya
04-06-2008
Originally Posted by Ansildrall:
“Well we can't really do that can we? Otherwise we could apply that to everything and say things like Lucinda said she definetely wanted to do the technical things in the photography as she wanted to learn. Or that Lee told everyone to start on Sara and it was all edited out. We can't assume things we have no proof of.”

I must be missing something because I think that's what I said.
2LO
04-06-2008
Originally Posted by InigoMontoya:
“I must be missing something because I think that's what I said.”

Yes, you are missing something.

You make a comment that suggests that we cannot draw any inferences based upon what we see

The response we got was that it's unrealistic to take that approach because if you do you really cannot believe anything much at all.

Yes, you can say that something might have happened and base your opinion on that but if you are going to go down that road you can effectively deny the truth of anything and everything that you see on the screen.
InigoMontoya
04-06-2008
Originally Posted by 2LO:
“You make a comment that suggests that we cannot draw any inferences based upon what we see”

Got that, albeit not quite so universal - just a response to a point blank assertion by Ruth Badger that Sara was mauled as soon as she walked in.

Originally Posted by 2LO:
“The response we got was that it's unrealistic to take that approach because if you do you really cannot believe anything much at all.”

That's where you lose me as the response was that you can't not draw inferences because otherwise you can "say things like Lucinda said she definetely wanted to do the technical things in the photography as she wanted to learn. Or that Lee told everyone to start on Sara." Which of course, you can't if you don't draw inferences.
Sara Webb
04-06-2008
Originally Posted by Muttley76:
“And as i said, he quite clearly was directing his comments towards Sara regaurdless. Do I think Lee's a bully? No. Was he out of order? Very much so.”

Bingo. Well said.

Judging by his behaviour on other occasions, Lee doesn't seem to be a bully (well, in my opinion)... but the way he spoke to Sara was rude, aggressive, unnecessary, and really rather arrogant.
brangdon
04-06-2008
Originally Posted by InigoMontoya:
“With the editing, we have no idea if she did get a hug and an chance to relax before that incident. All we can say is that she hadn't changed her clothes.”

Actually we know she got at least one hug, because we saw Lucinda give her one.
Safa1
10-06-2008
Quote:
“Did you regret laying into Sara when she escaped being fired?

Ana Davies, Crouch End

Lee: I knew that the following week I would be project manager and I was talking to everybody, saying: "If you don't pull your weight, you're going into the boardroom." It wasn't directed just at Sara. You give up quite a lot to be on The Apprentice, so you don't want to be with people who don't pull their weight. And, as it happened, Sara and Lucinda were fantastic in Marrakesh. I project-managed them and got the best out of them, and they got the best comments they'd had in the boardroom.

Alex: It was just a debate, and debates like that happen in business.

Helene: In the end, Sara told Claire to shut the **** up. She wasn't a wilting violet.”

Seems like Lee isn't as guilty and Sara isn't as innocent as you all assumed.
Katenutzs
10-06-2008
Originally Posted by Safa1:
“Seems like Lee isn't as guilty and Sara isn't as innocent as you all assumed.”

Never thought he was but he was easy bashing for some

Until then they had nothing much to bash him with
DavetheScot
10-06-2008
Originally Posted by Safa1:
“Seems like Lee isn't as guilty and Sara isn't as innocent as you all assumed.”

Does it? I accept that the "any of you" that was apparently cut puts a different perspective on what Lee said, but in the context of what else was going on at the time, it would still have come over as principally directed at her, even if Lee didn't mean it to be. I stick to my opinion of him; he's basically a good guy, but he could really do with thinking about how he's coming across.

And if Sara told Claire to shut the f*** up, good for her. Hardly makes her "not innocent", given the provocation.

Alex's offering only makes me more glad than ever I don't have to work with him, frankly.
Ignazio
10-06-2008
Originally Posted by apprentice_fan:
“I think lee was definitely out of order. There were a few other sentences: "If 4 people out of 5 thought you didn't contribute, how are you sitting on that sofa"”

That is what I remember - and imo exposed a weakness - putting his mouth into gear based on hearsay.
He was not even on the same team as Sara - so how the hell would he know what occurred?

Muttley
- I've got the champagne on ice for an Alex win. I am of course perverse - but oh the anticipated joy when the Alex haters metamorphose into lemmings and commit mass suicide.
Originally Posted by vidalia:
“It is not bullying according to Raef on GMTV this morning but 'inarticulate enthusiasm'.”

I doubt any intention to bully - I also doubt the 'inarticulate enthusiasm' excuse. He turned on Sara without any knowledge of her performance in the task except hearsay, thus instigating gang mentality. imo it was a black mark against Lee - but on many occasions he has redeemed himself.
Originally Posted by vidalia:
“It was inappropriate in that, as Ruth Badger said on TV this morning, when you get back from the boardroom you feel totally exhausted and as though you have been through several rounds with a tiger, so all you want is a hug and to relax. You do not expect to have that mauling continue from your colleagues including people who were not even in your team.”

This is what I felt - Sara was being kicked when she was already down.

Originally Posted by vidalia:
“ Raef also said on GMTV that he felt very uncomfortable whilst it was happening and that's why he stepped in.”

Raef stepped in without drama and without exacerbating feelings which were already running high; he recognised the gang mentality undertone and, with the voice of moderation, calmed troubled waters.

Class Act.
Originally Posted by Sara Webb:
“Bingo. Well said.

Judging by his behaviour on other occasions, Lee doesn't seem to be a bully (well, in my opinion)... but the way he spoke to Sara was rude, aggressive, unnecessary, and really rather arrogant.”

Although his behaviour seemed to deviate from the norm and was perhaps alcohol induced, "In vino veritas," does spring to mind!

Originally Posted by Safa1:
“Seems like Lee isn't as guilty and Sara isn't as innocent as you all assumed.”

I'm trying hard to see your point of view - but at the end of the day he attacked the performance of someone who was not even on his team!
apprentice_fan
11-06-2008
Originally Posted by Safa1:
“Seems like Lee isn't as guilty and Sara isn't as innocent as you all assumed.”

I don't know if Helene is a compulsive liar or she simply forgets what really happened!! Sara didn't tell Claire to "shut the **** up". Sara said to the camera "I feel like telling Claire to shut the **** up" and Claire was really giving her a hard time.

As for Lee, He should have apologised for it and I believe there was at least a part of it aimed at Sara!! In the same interview, he also failed to admit that he lied in his CV. I really hope that this interview omits a large part of what the finalists actually say.
DavetheScot
11-06-2008
Originally Posted by apprentice_fan:
“I don't know if Helene is a compulsive liar or she simply forgets what really happened!! Sara didn't tell Claire to "shut the **** up". Sara said to the camera "I feel like telling Claire to shut the **** up" and Claire was really giving her a hard time. ”

Helene seems in that quote to be saying that Sara said this after we left the argument, which seemed to be still going strong. All the candidates will, of course, have said and done plenty of things we didn't see.
apprentice_fan
11-06-2008
Originally Posted by DavetheScot:
“Helene seems in that quote to be saying that Sara said this after we left the argument, which seemed to be still going strong. All the candidates will, of course, have said and done plenty of things we didn't see.”

Don't you think that it is a bit strange that Helene remembers Sara's exact words after 6 months of them actually being said?!! They also happen to be the same words Sara said to the camera!!

Sara said that she felt like saying those words but she didn't say them. Even if they continued the argument, Helene didn't attend this argument as she was with the sales subteam.

Claire and Sara later argued in the kitchen and Sara didn't defend herself very well. It was actually Helene who defended Sara. If Helene thought that Sara said those words to Claire, why did she intervene?!!!

I also believe that if Sara said those words to claire, they would have been included in the final edit instead of including Sara talking to the camera. They always seem to air the worst bits of the arguments between the candidates.
DavetheScot
11-06-2008
Originally Posted by apprentice_fan:
“Don't you think that it is a bit strange that Helene remembers Sara's exact words after 6 months of them actually being said?!! They also happen to be the same words Sara said to the camera!!

Sara said that she felt like saying those words but she didn't say them. Even if they continued the argument, Helene didn't attend this argument as she was with the sales subteam.

Claire and Sara later argued in the kitchen and Sara didn't defend herself very well. It was actually Helene who defended Sara. If Helene thought that Sara said those words to Claire, why did she intervene?!!!

I also believe that if Sara said those words to claire, they would have been included in the final edit instead of including Sara talking to the camera. They always seem to air the worst bits of the arguments between the candidates.”

I think we're at cross purposes. As far as I'm understanding it, Helene is referring to the argument in the house after Kevin's firing. I may be inferring this wrongly, but it's how I read it.

We left this argument as Raef was intervening and Alex continuing to criticise Sara, and went to an external shot of the house with the sounds of raised voices continuing. I'm reading it that Helene is saying that this went on for at least a little while after we left it, and eventually Sara told Claire to shut the f*** up. Whether this is true or not, I don't know. Claire actually didn't seem to be attacking Sara in the house; in fact, she was almost defending her, as she insisted that it wasn't really Sara's fault that they'd lost the task. I think it was Jenny who really needed to be told to shut up.
vidalia
11-06-2008
Originally Posted by apprentice_fan:
“As for Lee, He should have apologised for it and I believe there was at least a part of it aimed at Sara!! In the same interview, he also failed to admit that he lied in his CV. I really hope that this interview omits a large part of what the finalists actually say.”

Sara said on the You're Fired programme that Lee had apologised to her afterwards.
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