Originally Posted by Lotus666:
“Lucinda strikes me as a person who treats as she finds. Treat her right, and I am sure she would do more than right by you.
If she's been abused - she's not likely just to let it pass. That may be vindictive, but in my books, it's fair enough. It's probably still a wee bit too fresh in her memory to let it drop totally.
Been there, done that, got the T-shirt (and not quite the naive and trusting soul I once was either).”
Yes, 'Treat her right' = 'as long as you do what she says then you're fine'.
Voice any disagreement or dissent, and you're a bully.
This is what I'm getting from several people on here. Pander to her wants and needs and that's fair. Disagree or argue with her and you're a bully.
She can have as many strops as she wants, be as destructive as she wants, disagree all she wants, and you have to go along with it and accept it...but if you do the same then you're in the wrong and are perceived to have abused her or treated her terribly.
I believe that in a few weeks time, or months even, people will see the hypocrisy for what it actually was in hindsight.