Originally Posted by ProVista:
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I am a "stay-at-home-mum" and I don't think it is unreasonable to ask that question.
There is a perception that you should very easily manage to be a great mum and a good team player at work. Some manage it very well, but they probably have strong (and expensive) child care arrangements. Usually, if the kids are ill and can't go to nursery/school then its the women who ends up calling into work to take time off at short notice. Regardless of whether its an un-PC point of view, it is a fact that other colleagues then have to cover that work and if it happens on a fairly regular basis it can become an issue and resentment can fester, which isn't an ideal scenario.
I always think that the employer has a duty to all staff, and if that means passing over someone who might not be able to pull their weight in the future, then so be it.”
Yes, fair point but where do you draw the line? I'm certainly NOT saying here that I think Suralan didn't hire Claire because she is a woman.
However, in the 'real' business world, is it not ridiculous to presume that an ambitious and capable woman, no matter how dedicated to her work, is likely to become a liability simply because she is a woman and may one day choose to go forth and multiply? That's very narrow-minded discrimination that does not take the individual into account.