As I waited for Darnell to come out this morning , I reflected on the threads I have read here, one where he was described as a Gorilla-racist overtones ofcom alert- with ensuing insulting nasty remarks rooted in pure ,malice.You could feel the negative energy emanating off the screen like Dante’s inferno...Darnell has indeed deep emotional issues, ones that I recognise all too well. Most of his angst is based on his visual impairments and eventual blindness. Most individuals who are blind or have limited sight need intensive counselling in adolescence or After they lose their sight. Otherwise they get deeply angry and bitter at something they cannot control and do not know how to cope with. This anger is evident In Darnell and the house has intensified it tenfold..Mikey has certainly had this counselling and has benefited from it. Though I must add his life skills training i.e eating skills have been neglected. He also need to update his cane to a roller head one.
I feel from listening to Darnell that he has tried to be as normal as possible and has denied his condition to a degree, but now he can no longer do so. Mikey and Darnell are different people also and will handle things in different ways.I seen people posting I know this Albino who has done this or that. Their albinism is a condition , it is not who they are , each person is unique and different with a different perspective on life depending on their upbringing and life experiences and even genetic personality. They cannot be compared. He has emotionally broken down in there and has become disorientated and forgotten who he is. He will not attack anyone, he is not aggressive , he is desperately hurt and sad and will more likely sink into the million tears that have been repressed for many years. I do know what I am talking about, no amateur pyscho babble for me.
Rex on the other hand is an emotional assassin, concealing his poison in supposed jokes and when his victim look upset, retorts. “only joking” -- not. Behind Sara back he called her a dog needing a kennel, badger get back in your hole, dirty slut. He has said as much to her face as well though couched in humorous terms. He said to Mo why would you want THAT, He has also excluded and ill-treated Mo.He is a string puller, the lead pack dog who manipulates those he controls. Yet he is excused all of this, it is being dismissed as teasing while he has bullied Rachel relentlessly.
Sara sexual history is her business, but the world is unfair and judges women more harshly than men.Sara has spoken openly about her sexual past saying she has fvked around,spoke to Rex about sex tapes and pictures. I heard it myself. This meant the men lost respect for her. No it should not be that way, but it is the way a lot of men think. This does not excuse the insults she endured, which were out of order, but allows understanding of why they were made. She sits with people but tunes out their conversation nodding and saying really. She sounds as insincere as she is. She has done nothing in there but bide her time to get out. She has no interest in anyone in there, not even Stu. All the men avoided her advances, you have to ask why- so she settled on a very naïve Darnell. Sara, actions in BB were governed fully by self-interest. Now she was caught out in several lies about Noms last night and obviously her main view is how she is being perceived. and how she can manipulate that. I don’t think she is malicious or nasty just scarily ambitious. She is a pretty girl with lovely expressive eyes and will do well out of the show. One has to ask if she is such a saint and put upon victim , why everyone except Lisa voted her out and if Darnell is such a bully and bad guy why only Sara voted for him.Lisa her mate did not nom him.!! It defies logic.Also why were so many Hm,s pacing worrying about Darnell this morning and why the love bombing when he came out. Do nasty people get treated like this.Has anyone noticed that noone is tactile with Rex or anyway as affectionate as they are with Darnell. He is obviously loved , pity he cannot see it.
It was good to see her and Lisa win the cash and congrats to them.
Where were all the ofcom junkies when Jodie Marsh was being viciously attacked or when the vitriolic Pete Burns was tearing people apart., But then that was just some some Glamour models or tarts as George Galloway would say- ahem. or when Chanelle called Charlie a dirty slut, but that was just Charlie hardly a person worthy of respect or kindness. - ironic grin.,Why is complaining to Ofcom selective?. I read a thread here calling Bex Shrek and a slapper and worse.
A lot of people read the boards here and lurk, and read these written insults. People say its not to their face but behind their backs hehe on the Net..Hello!!offline or online it comes from the same mean spirited, cruel place.. When I saw the lovely Rachel waiting outside the Dr today to console and give a hug, it made me proud to be female. Yes Boring Rachel who does have opinions but they are positive ones full of empathy and kindness.. She sticks up for herself in her quiet strong way and is thoughtful of the feelings of others.. She is respected by the men even Rex and has behaved in a consistent way throughout the series. She has high principles and has adhered to them. I would quite happy if Rachel or Mikey won. What’s with the women in there I would have Rex leashed, muzzled, barking and renamed Rover by now.posted this in the warzone yeh I,m back, whiskey raw and throat burning bar tend.You looking at me--hahah