I think you'll struggle to find a non-B&O product compatible with the Beo5 remote.
The reason is that the Beo5 remote is adaptive - i.e. the button names and functions change as you do different activities. This adaptive response is programmed to work only with B&O equipment. It doesn't work with other manufacturers products.
The remote is configured by the B&O dealer according to the B&O kit you have. If you change any component for a new B&O model then the remote has to be reprogrammed to accommodate those changes.
This leave you with two choices:[LIST=1][*]buy a non-B&O Bluray and use its own remote[*]pony up for a B&O Bluray (if one exists) and have the Beo5 reprogrammed.[/LIST]
There is a third option, but I bet it will work out more expensive than buying a B&O Bluray.
Regards
Chris