who says you should sweeten your posts just because an aunty of a housemate is posting, but nor should a member of the family be to afraid to post because some ignorant rude people call other human beings ugly names, would you like me to call your mum, sister, brother etc ugly? no of course you wouldnt, and as for this being the biggest forum, crap, I have seen bigger, you lot are just going to pick on that one housemate because his family have DARED to post on these forums because they are proud of their son, and no, I am not a member of the family, I dont even know the lad, it just makes me cringe that people can be so cruel to others, it just proves that they have sad little lives.