Originally Posted by pmw_hewitt:
“I think you may very well win this thread, Ann_Tenna - not only did you meet someone very famous but also whilst they were, in a sense, making history. In Lennon's defence he was off his face on Lord-knows-what at the time. I don't think he was a particularly bad person, but he was that unpleasant mix of self-important and self-hating.
Yoko, I've never actually heard a bad word about from anyone that has met her on a superficial level. Again, I don't believe the tripe about Yoko being a bad person at all. As I said earlier in this thread, I did meet her earlier this year after she hosted a talk about her new book. She politely declined photos and autographs, as it was getting late and she wanted to rush off to get some dinner, but the most surprising thing about Yoko is how shy, unsure and softly spoken she is in person, completely the opposite of what you'd expect from the media-fuelled "dragon lady" persona.
It's well known that Yoko is fiercely intelligent, manipulative when she wants to be, and has a marked talent for money-making and negotiation, but she has never come across as a particularly confident, extroverted person. She was also wonderfully self-deprecating both times I've seen her.
Sorry to ramble, but I find her an endlessly fascinating person - and I like her music, too. She's massively overdue a reappraisal.”
I agree with you about John perhaps being on something when I met him. I was only fourteen and I was naive about drugs back then, but he could have been into the heroin. I remember reading later that he used to snort it, and he was thin when I met him.
Yoko was very quiet and sweet, and as I mentioned, I spent most of the short time I had in their hotel suite talking with her as she was such a nice woman.
A friend of ours who also met John and Yoko the same day we did, but went to the room after my friend and I left, once was in New York and spotted Yoko Ono on a street somewhere. She followed Yoko and caught up with her, and said hello to her. She told me that Yoko could not have been more gracious and friendly, though quiet.