I believe it is the storys content that everyone is upset
about - I'm not sure but I don't believe I have ever read
such an explosive kiss n tell story in the resent past. The trouble is it came out of no where like a bomb, and I really don't think any of us was prepared for that type
of bomb shell from either .

I too like it here I lurked in the other 2 threads but liked
the balance of opinions on this one.---

Sorry Hello everyone - came back on here looking for some quiet conversation and found myself in WW3 again

How a comment on her myspace page can be compared to the NOTW article is ridiculous imo.

I have no idea whether Chan is going to respond to said article in the mags or not next week. I just wish she didn't need to address things at all.

If someone wishes to share their private life, troubles etc with you that is one thing but for someone else to expose them is quite another.

Frankly I didn't want to know just as I don't want to know Chan's side in all honesty. I don't even want to know what is true and what is not. I find the whole thing sordid and upsetting and can't express how much I wish Zig hadn't begun this whole thing.

It will unfortunately drag on for some time to come. Each mag will want their own interview etc. It is unavoidable now. But in time the media will move on.

It has been no place for the faint hearted in here today....
I think everyone has baled out in disgust or despair tbh.

I used to really enjoy coming in here for a chat and a laugh too...
Those were the days eh?

You right juliadesigns on most other days I'd agree it is more pro-Chanelle, but today with the myspace businessit definately hasn't been as I think a few Chanelle fans were disappointed in Chanelle. And I'm trying to stay balanced in my opinions.

Beans I think you maybe right if She had come out first
, but that would have been based on the accusations she made ( if any) as it is we are stuck with this one.

The both seemed to be verbally agressive in their arguements but neither seemed inclined to anything physicial . Physical abuse from either side is hard to comprend with out the sketchy details that were given.

I would have been best to say - "we don't get along, we argue like when we were in the house"
I think the fm and fans would have agreeded and gone
on.

Roll on tomorrow when the CAT reopens....

At least if there are only one or two of us left in here, it will be peaceful...

Goodnight to anyone still around

see you tomorrow...perhaps. xxxx

you're funny

Yes , I miss the easy , happy days of friends chatting and
laughing --- I use to laugh so hard my son would coming running to find out why --- maybe in the near future we
all can have that again

Exactly some people are arrogant enough to tell people what they should allow on thier MySpace.

16 posts and still appreciating... Impressive!!!!!

Oh I think there will be more than 2 of us - many others
may have just backed out waiting for the other shoe to
drop --- roll on next week - I have a 3 day work week
Thanksgiving here an all - and with tradition of many I
took Friday off - so I can check in here more this week
than ususal.

Hi outsider.
I know what you mean by the accusiations,but just say they where exactly same comments zig used but chanelle used them instead,the way she is defended on here i think people would be saying things like she was forced to do it,or she had no choice,things like that.
Dont think its ever been equel support for them on here,think chan has always been more populer even in the good times.he was at a disadvantage as soon as he got out of the house and nothing has changed,And this is from someone who has always supported them both.

How you doin...?

Just popped in to say goodnight, ( quick exit before someone starts throwing bottles)

Night everyone.

Welcome back, Charmer1 X!

Night 872fisher. :sleep:But its o.k on here most of the time.

Beans, If she had made the same accusations he did
, there would be an out cry of people I agree, Ziggy would possibly have been talked to by the police. Their is no justice when It comes to women hitting men, I think it is one sided , women want to be treated equally , and should be, in everything including crimes. I think Chanelle had so much support before she left the houseand the way she left it - everyone blamed Ziggy, I for one did not - She was stressed beyond all reason , he did try to console her and keep her from walking at the time ,but everyone tried to blame him, which at the time was sad - he was not totally responsible for her or
her decisions leading to her walking out.

I agree with that - the no. of appreciation vs. dislike posts for Chan is a lot different to the ratio for Zig. I would hope that if Chan had done it I would treat her actions in the very same way, but you know what I'll say next .... that's a hypotheical situation and she never would have.

Goodnight juliadesigns.:yawn::sleep:

Only need 8 more goodnights for 1000 posts.

Beans , we'll try to get you there--- at least we would have
something to cheer about tonight

I.ll have to do it tomorrow. cant keep my eyes open i didnt sleep last night.

Night anyone.:yawn::sleep:

I am also hoping for more good news on both of their futures....

Night, Cape... Sleep still, dream sweet!!!!

My thoght always was that the house has so many
early 20"s people - except for leslie and carole.I never really understood why a middle 20's man would want to even try his hand in that house. Leslie left - she has a life outside the house , carole had no life. Chanelle seemed like the one everyone wanted in a daughter to
start with , likeable, kind - I think many try to give her age and inexperience the benefit of doubt. Maybe it is
just human nature -- or a womens to try to nuture from
a far. I saw a lot of myself in her in my younger days, Ziggy just really confused me for his age, My OH wasn't
that confusing at 26 - he was trying to find a job that would last a lifetime , he was non commitual towards our relationship ( i'm three yrs older ) but at least seemed to know what he wanted from life. Ziggy I think
is still wandering and not settled into anything yet, let alone working towards anything lasting . God I hope this makes sense.

Im too busy thinking about myself to worry about being arrogant!!!!

My thought was that the house has so many
early 20"s people - except for leslie and carole.I never really understood why a middle 20's man would want to even try his hand in that house. Leslie left - she has a life outside the house , carole had no life. Chanelle seemed like the one everyone wanted in a daughter to
start with , likeable, kind - I think many try to give her age and inexperience the benefit of doubt. Maybe it is
just human nature -- or a womens to try to nuture from
a far. I saw a lot of myself in her in my younger days, Ziggy just really confused me for his age, My OH wasn't
that confusing at 26 - he was trying to find a job that would last a lifetime , he was non commitual towards our relationship ( i'm three yrs older ) but at least seemed to know what he wanted from life. Ziggy I think
is still wandering and not settled into anything yet, let alone working towards anything lasting . God I hope this makes sense.