Originally Posted by Starla:
“Fair enough.
You think I started this thread just to be nasty, truth is I didn't. I wanted to put my finger on what it was about her that I didn't/don't warm to. That is a fact. A lot of people have similarly misinterpreted my reason, thus causing me to say they are over-eager and defensive.”
I felt a similar nebulous dislike for Austin but really didn't know why. There was nothing I could put my finger on - I just found something about him unpleasant. But the truth is I have never met Austin Healy and am in no position to make reliable judgements about him. There could be any number of reasons for my feeling uneasy about him. He could remind me subconsciously of some little playground bully from infant school. Whatever it is, it's not his fault, and it's not Lisa's fault, or Rachel's fault, that some people who don't even know them somehow feel they are qualified to pronounce on their personality or lack of it, based on entirely subjective evidence such as a few facial expressions on a television screen. I wish people would try to consider their responses and remember these are flesh and blood human beings who may be quite undeservedly hurt by comments on forums.
I hope you find something helpful in this response, OP, it's not intended to be a criticism of you or your post. It's my reaction to posts I've read on here over the weeks, as well as comments from people I know personally, that just leave me unable to believe anyone can be so spiteful to people they don't even know.
By the way, Merry Christmas, everyone!