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Why don't some people care?
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About pervs and paedos etc trying to get at kids or like blaming the actual girl for looking too old??
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How do you know what people think about you if you don't know them?
Am I missing something here?
I have spoke to people and they have basically said that all people my age dress deliberately to get attention and then cry when an old man looks on the bus or stares at your legs.
In the summer we wear skirts so I am asking for my legs to be stared at by pervs??
Sorry i am just angry
Well, first piece of advice is, anyone who makes a statement including the words "all people" should be roundly ignored. Unless it's a statement like, "all living people respire", or similar
Second piece of advice is, people stare at people for all sorts of reasons. This is the way of the world, and it will never change. Be comfortable in your own skin, be confident, and sod 'em.
Oh I see. You are a young girl and if you dress in a way that others might think is inappropriate they accuse you of 'asking for it'. It being unwanted attention from older men I presume.
Not everyone who stares at your legs is a perv. Some men might be genuinely admiring. You possibly need to learn the difference between someone leering at you or someone admiring you. The expression on the face is actually quite different.
You shouldn't be accused of asking for it...because nobody actually asks for unwanted unpleasant attention. However no matter how much confidence you might have in how you look, even if what you wear leaves little to the imagination, what you don't have is control over what other people think, and people are predisposed to always think the worst. It isn't fair, but it's what they do and it's something you're probably just going to have to get used to I think.
OP is a 14yo, who only posts about pervs.
Really??
Oh.
*lightbulb*
Not, pervs at bus stops, by any chance?
That is grossly unfair. The OP has been deeply concerned about a friend, who has been the target of a twenty-seven year old man, who has been grooming her. Hardly an obsession, more like a worried and caring friend.
Yup! The lack of variation in their posts are becoming most annoying, a WUM perhaps?
Really??? Glad I haven't stumbled across that thread yet. :rolleyes::yawn::sleep:
Can you link, please? I've had a quick look and can't find reference to this.
edit, s'ok, I've found it.
o A group of kids clustered round a terminal taking the piss.
o A sadly disturbed child with real-world problems.
o A unspecified individual "pretending"... :sleep:
o A Special Branch decoy!
Whatever, I think it would be a service to the forum if the
moderators took responsible (even independent?) action...
She may well be genuine.
In another thread, the writing style changed noticeably, so I shall reserve judgement.
Why isn't the OP at school? Is it half term somewhere?