No woman has ever done it to me as punishment either. I'm not sure where your theory comes from. Personal experience?
Never been in a relationship long enough. Assumption, assuming women have a much higher threshold with regards to sex. Men do tend to think with their 5th appendage.
I've been single (male) now for coming on 7 years but not really considered a prostitute. I think that I am finally rediscovering 'the horn' and worried that I will probably be shit in the sack after all this Time out but I would rather a buffer shag than a hooker. Nightclub mutual one night stand thing to hone a few skills before I go looking for a keeper. Unless of course 1nighter and I hit it off
If you are both honest up front no one gets hurt if you then both think that was good then why not. It will be tougher for me as I couldn't shag someone I did not like personality wise. Most blokes just go for the looks where as I could not have sex with a tidy looking complete bitch. I could have sex with a plain looking nice girl however.
My mate is 43 and still single .He used to pay for sex but started going to clubs where a lot of 40 year old plus women hung out .He'd go out twice a week and pick one up .He's done this for about 15 years now and is perfectly happy .The women seem to be too .Most are separated or in the last couple of years read 50 Shades .
Maybe its different for men and women. As a woman, I only want to sleep with a man who truly desired me. Paying someone to do it wouldn't be a turn on im afraid. I have no problem with a mutual one night stand when lust is high on the agenda, but again, at that moment he and I would desire one another. With a prostitute, they are just doing the deed for the money, you could be old, ugly, married or having 18 heads - they are just in it for the cash, and i wouldn't be able to enjoy the experience in that situation.
YES! I most definitely would pay for sex with a man. It would be sooooooooo much simpler than having to go through all that dating crap. He'd arrive when you wanted him and leave when you told him to. You wouldn't be expected to eat dinner/breakfast with him, tell him how wonderful he was, hold your stomach in - it would be wonderful! You could have a different one every time, or stick with the same one if you liked him enough. If I ever win the lottery I'm gonna make a habit of it
When I say that I mean pay for and meet an 'escort'. Obviously there are male and female escorts so it could be either. I haven't but I know a couple of people who have boasted about it to me and I'm not sure what to make of it. One of them even has a partner, and now I know this about them...!
I was just wondering if anyone on here had done it or considered it or know of someone doing so and any funny stories involved? Maybe some have been or are an escort yourself? I'm not sure I'd be able to do it, though for sure there could be a few perks of the job! I think of that Billie Piper series, Secret Diary of a Call Girl, is that what escorting is really like?
No I would never pay for sex but then I am a woman and we view sex different to men.
I do realise men have a higher sex drive than women but what I don't understand is how they can use a prostitute. It turns my stomach to think of how many men have used these women and IF I was a man I would scared of picking up something from these women.
Id never go for a street walker prossy.
Brothels are only good if they are on the up-market scale of things like sandys superstars in Manchester.
Escorts are generally good looking and good or great in bed.
When i used to have one night stands; sure the girls fancied me and at that time some of the girls were good in bed. Until i started seeing escorts, most of them were better in bed than the best shags id ever had before. Some escorts are so great in bed the sex was better than any sex with ex-girlfriends.
If i can sense the girl isnt enjoying the sex (for whatever reason, forced prostitution?), paid or unpaid, i simply can not continue, i cant stay hard. Which has very very rarely happened.
Escorts are no different to dating. Except you know you are more than likely going to get laid, with someone you find attractive instead of ugly or average looking. For her, if she doesnt find him attractive then the money makes up for it, at the end of the day its very good money... if i could get paid over £100 an hour id make it my full time job, instead i have to slave away 40 hours a week for £13/hour with a boss breathing down my neck for more performance.
If people get off on outlandish stuff, bondage, fetishism masochism, and the wife's not interested and would rather watch Corrie, then what's the harm in hiring someone who does ?
I think men who use prostitutes should read TOP a site for call girls. The way they view their punters is so funny and if I was a man and a punter I would feel extremely pathetic
I think men who use prostitutes should read TOP a site for call girls. The way they view their punters is so funny and if I was a man and a punter I would feel extremely pathetic
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Neither would I, hence why I said 'many'. But sex trafficking is not fueled by women buying the services of other women either.
Never been in a relationship long enough. Assumption, assuming women have a much higher threshold with regards to sex. Men do tend to think with their 5th appendage.
Whatever floats your boat...:p
It's fuelled by corrupt criminal minds exploiting a market.
Human trafficking isn't a secret though. A lot of turning a blind eye and feigning ignorance I imagine.
By whom? The authorities?
If you are both honest up front no one gets hurt if you then both think that was good then why not. It will be tougher for me as I couldn't shag someone I did not like personality wise. Most blokes just go for the looks where as I could not have sex with a tidy looking complete bitch. I could have sex with a plain looking nice girl however.
Prostitutes though ... Nah
Maybe its different for men and women. As a woman, I only want to sleep with a man who truly desired me. Paying someone to do it wouldn't be a turn on im afraid. I have no problem with a mutual one night stand when lust is high on the agenda, but again, at that moment he and I would desire one another. With a prostitute, they are just doing the deed for the money, you could be old, ugly, married or having 18 heads - they are just in it for the cash, and i wouldn't be able to enjoy the experience in that situation.
No I would never pay for sex but then I am a woman and we view sex different to men.
I do realise men have a higher sex drive than women but what I don't understand is how they can use a prostitute. It turns my stomach to think of how many men have used these women and IF I was a man I would scared of picking up something from these women.
There is, it's called every bar bar up and down the country.
There's always some desperate rent boy looking for a sugar daddy.
*or so I've heard....:o
Brothels are only good if they are on the up-market scale of things like sandys superstars in Manchester.
Escorts are generally good looking and good or great in bed.
When i used to have one night stands; sure the girls fancied me and at that time some of the girls were good in bed. Until i started seeing escorts, most of them were better in bed than the best shags id ever had before. Some escorts are so great in bed the sex was better than any sex with ex-girlfriends.
If i can sense the girl isnt enjoying the sex (for whatever reason, forced prostitution?), paid or unpaid, i simply can not continue, i cant stay hard. Which has very very rarely happened.
Escorts are no different to dating. Except you know you are more than likely going to get laid, with someone you find attractive instead of ugly or average looking. For her, if she doesnt find him attractive then the money makes up for it, at the end of the day its very good money... if i could get paid over £100 an hour id make it my full time job, instead i have to slave away 40 hours a week for £13/hour with a boss breathing down my neck for more performance.
a trip to the bathroom perhaps would.
whys mens testosterones always get excuses made for them, womens sex drives can be just as bad as the blokes
this threads rather amusing lol
Well I dont feel pathetic at all
Ok but you do look pathetic to others who don't have to pay for sex