After I split up with my ex last summer I did consider it, saw this beautiful redheaded Russian girl (looked exactly like Karen Gillan) being advertised for £100 an hour, almost went through with it until I realised I'd absolutely regret it after I came.
You realise this argument only works to convince people who actually do pay for sex though right?
Hey, whatever works for you. There's nothing wrong with it.
But most people don't need to 'pay' for sex, with money or otherwise.
I don't need to convince my self or anyone I enjoy it and until you have actually done it you can't say what it is like or how you would feel, I just hate the stigma that people who pay for sex can't go out and get laid, I could quite easily go to a club and sleep with some drunk girl, though it wouldn't be anywhere near as enjoyable for me as paying for it
I don't need to convince my self or anyone I enjoy it and until you have actually done it you can't say what it is like or how you would feel, I just hate the stigma that people who pay for sex can't go out and get laid, I could quite easily go to a club and sleep with some drunk girl, though it wouldn't be anywhere near as enjoyable for me as paying for it
My post was not meant to sound judgemental. I don't really judge people who pay for sex at all, each to their own and all that and I know someone who is an escort.
But saying 'everyone pays for sex in some way' is just trying to convince yourself of that. Most people do not pay for sex in whatever way you mean.
The bottom line is, there is no substitute for real love or intimacy, and paying for sex isn't likely to solve that... It would be interesting to get the point of view of someone who has escorted.
The bottom line is, there is no substitute for real love or intimacy, and paying for sex isn't likely to solve that... It would be interesting to get the point of view of someone who has escorted.
How do you know these people are looking for 'real love and intimacy'? Sex isn't always an expression of love, sometimes people just wanna...well, just f*ck, and there's nothing really wrong with that.
How do you know these people are looking for 'real love and intimacy'? Sex isn't always an expression of love, sometimes people just wanna...well, just f*ck, and there's nothing really wrong with that.
Where are all the male prostitutes then? I don't think there is a single one behind a window in Amsterdam.
Well me and my mates looked for one a few years ago (in the UK, not 'Dam), and they were ALL UGLY. I wouldn't have paid a fiver for one let alone £100 per hour or whatever they were asking for.
I don't even think it's a thing for seedy old men anymore, some men out there just don't want a relationship with a Woman due to bad experiences etc...they would much rather have the pleasure of a beautiful Woman once a month or whatever and then go about their business afterwards.
But I do know that it just seems easier somehow for females to find someone to have sex with. I have no idea if it is easier but certainly all the girls I know who go out in town to pull manage every time... The guys, not so much. More girls than guys maybe? No idea.
But I do know that it just seems easier somehow for females to find someone to have sex with. I have no idea if it is easier but certainly all the girls I know who go out in town to pull manage every time... The guys, not so much. More girls than guys maybe? No idea.
It's cause us guys are more fussy, don't you know!
I haven't read the call girl site for quite a while but one thread made me smile. One of the girls was complaining about a dirty punter and how it was making her gag to have sex with him. She was advised to make him shower before she allowed him to touch her .... I find it sad that they make their living this way. I can understand there is a need for these kind of women but what I don't understand is how so called happily married men would cheat on their wives with one.
But I do know that it just seems easier somehow for females to find someone to have sex with. I have no idea if it is easier but certainly all the girls I know who go out in town to pull manage every time... The guys, not so much. More girls than guys maybe? No idea.
This reminds me of the one about the two toddlers being bathed in the same tub.
The little boy stood up, pointed at his penis and said to the little girl, "Ha, Ha, you haven't got one of these!"
She stood up and replied, "No, but I've got one of these, and my big sister said, if you've got one of these, you can get as many of them as you want!"
All the girls will say no,
many of the men will say yes.
Supply and demand, and it's quite clear that men find women attractive moreso than women with men.
Nothing like making sweeping statements. I'm sure you'll find some women that would say yes. Also I think that it could also be that arguably it is seen as more legitimate for a man to pay for sex than a women rather than just supply and demand.
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Tbh in way everyone pays for sex
You realise this argument only works to convince people who actually do pay for sex though right?
Hey, whatever works for you. There's nothing wrong with it.
But most people don't need to 'pay' for sex, with money or otherwise.
I don't need to convince my self or anyone I enjoy it and until you have actually done it you can't say what it is like or how you would feel, I just hate the stigma that people who pay for sex can't go out and get laid, I could quite easily go to a club and sleep with some drunk girl, though it wouldn't be anywhere near as enjoyable for me as paying for it
What I was referring to is I have spent less on escorts in the last year than I ever did in a year with my ex,
My post was not meant to sound judgemental. I don't really judge people who pay for sex at all, each to their own and all that and I know someone who is an escort.
But saying 'everyone pays for sex in some way' is just trying to convince yourself of that. Most people do not pay for sex in whatever way you mean.
The bottom line is, there is no substitute for real love or intimacy, and paying for sex isn't likely to solve that... It would be interesting to get the point of view of someone who has escorted.
Do they?
I've never used one and they don't look pathetic to me.
In fact, I'd say those who look pathetically at those who pay for it look pretty pathetic.
Call me!
Where are all the male prostitutes then? I don't think there is a single one behind a window servicing women in Amsterdam.
I don't know.
But I do know that it just seems easier somehow for females to find someone to have sex with. I have no idea if it is easier but certainly all the girls I know who go out in town to pull manage every time... The guys, not so much. More girls than guys maybe? No idea.
It's cause us guys are more fussy, don't you know!
many of the men will say yes.
Supply and demand, and it's quite clear that men find women attractive moreso than women with men.
This reminds me of the one about the two toddlers being bathed in the same tub.
The little boy stood up, pointed at his penis and said to the little girl, "Ha, Ha, you haven't got one of these!"
She stood up and replied, "No, but I've got one of these, and my big sister said, if you've got one of these, you can get as many of them as you want!"
Nothing like making sweeping statements. I'm sure you'll find some women that would say yes. Also I think that it could also be that arguably it is seen as more legitimate for a man to pay for sex than a women rather than just supply and demand.