Whilst withholding judgment on the OP and their view on women, I do have to say that I find it uncomfortable to see suggestions like this being made on this and other threads around this theme of long term single men who have not found a partner. I noted the same suggestions were being made on another of the OP's threads. First of all, sexuality is not a choice and secondly, such a suggestion paints gay men in a negative light (in the same vein as someone who can't find a partner) and may (unintentionally) hold an undertone of homophobia.
Whilst withholding judgment on the OP and their view on women, I do have to say that I find it uncomfortable to see suggestions like this being made on this and other threads around this theme of long term single men who have not found a partner. I noted the same suggestions were being made on another of the OP's threads. First of all, sexuality is not a choice and secondly, such a suggestion paints gay men in a negative light (in the same vein as someone who can't find a partner) and may (unintentionally) hold an undertone of homophobia.
It's just a joke. It doubles the amount of people the OP could date, that's all. I don't see how it paints gay men in a negative light or is homophobic.
Whilst withholding judgment on the OP and their view on women, I do have to say that I find it uncomfortable to see suggestions like this being made on this and other threads around this theme of long term single men who have not found a partner. I noted the same suggestions were being made on another of the OP's threads. First of all, sexuality is not a choice and secondly, such a suggestion paints gay men in a negative light (in the same vein as someone who can't find a partner) and may (unintentionally) hold an undertone of homophobia.
well i'm a gay man and very proud of that fact so you cant say its homophobia coming from me!
Only do that to better yourself, people generally don't like being approached in most situations as it a) whiffs of desperation which sends people running in the opposite direction and b) as lottielaneuve pointed out, people are usually doing things and don't want to be approached unless in a situation designed to meet people like the aforementioned pubs, nightclubs, speed dating and online dating.
And don't discount anyone who has a kid.
I don't like clubs as draws the wrong kind of people there. Pubs are pretty much the same. Speed dating is desperate and online dating I think is desperate too.
I don't like clubs as draws the wrong kind of people there. Pubs are pretty much the same. Speed dating is desperate and online dating I think is desperate too.
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If you're straight, you're straight.
Not really. The girl I mentioned was too clingy, I couldn't handle it. She wasn't really a gf, well in her mind, maybe, but not in my mind.
It's just a joke. It doubles the amount of people the OP could date, that's all. I don't see how it paints gay men in a negative light or is homophobic.
well i'm a gay man and very proud of that fact so you cant say its homophobia coming from me!
I don't like clubs as draws the wrong kind of people there. Pubs are pretty much the same. Speed dating is desperate and online dating I think is desperate too.
Ideal for you then...*clang*
Sounds like it would suit you fairly well.
Edit, said the same as Vosne :eek:
Nae luck. You truly are in the gutter now. Welcome to Hell.
Except, I'm not desperate.
The public have spoken.
Everyone is a little bit bi!
I am where Hayley Williams is concerned!
After a google so am I!
Oh yes :cool:
So why do you moan about not being able to find girlfriends when you have no problems at all?
What about bi-sexual?
It's not black and white.
No they're not. :cool:
Bi-sexual isn't straight.
You can't choose to be that either. Jane was referring to someone not being able to 'try gay'.
If you're bisexual you're not straight. :cool:
This.
Even if you deny it and just for experimentation purposes only.