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Should having a false internet identity be against the law?

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    BunionsBunions Posts: 15,044
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    benjamini wrote: »
    It was a rhetorical question. :D also hypothetical, it's not actually the real world here:)
    So people don't ask genuine questions and don't expect (mostly) sensible answers?

    Okay then - I'd say start them young at about 6 or 7 and get them watching porn early.

    That way, by the time they hit their teens and become interested in sex, they'll be bored to tears with watching it and probably won't bother doing it themselves :kitty:
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    benjaminibenjamini Posts: 32,066
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    Tyr wrote: »
    Surely you, her parent, the one who knows her better than anybody else on this Earth, are most qualified to answer those questions?

    I mean for Christ's sake, does the term "individual responsibility" mean nothing to anybody these days?

    Love how swearing at posters who do monitor and care about childrens access to the internet diminishes any point they might possibly make.
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    benjaminibenjamini Posts: 32,066
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    Bunions wrote: »
    So people don't ask genuine questions and don't expect (mostly) sensible answers?

    Okay then - I'd say start them young at about 6 or 7 and get them watching porn early.

    That way, by the time they hit their teens and become interested in sex, they'll be bored to tears with watching it and probably won't bother doing it themselves :kitty:

    Lol. as a mother and foster mother and indeed a grandmother of a 19 year old, you cannot teach me to suck eggs.
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    flower 2flower 2 Posts: 13,585
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    And if you use the correct parental control software, and don't opt out to the adult content filters being rolled out, it wont be easily available to children.

    Why do I have to monitor adult content?. There are no children in this house, so if adult content is available on my internet connection it makes no difference to me.

    If you want to monitor what your children do online, go ahead. I have absolutely zero interest in your internet connection, what it is used for, who accesses what etc. so why should I take any responsibility for what your kids do online?.

    Because the children that are not in your house are the Adults of yours and our future.
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    November_RainNovember_Rain Posts: 9,145
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    Bunions wrote: »
    I heard about a year ago (on the radio) that primary school kids were sending each other porn on their smartphones so sussing-out how to block sites on the family PC isn't really going to cut it these days.

    Another reason not to give children smartphones IMO. I'm not even sure they need a mobile at all at primary school age but that's a different topic.
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    BunionsBunions Posts: 15,044
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    benjamini wrote: »
    Lol. as a mother and foster mother and indeed a grandmother of a 19 year old, you cannot teach me to suck eggs.
    I can honestly say that I can't.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 36,630
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    flower 2 wrote: »
    Because the children that are not in your house are the Adults of yours and our future.
    I have no desire to snoop on my neighbours. Why should I?.

    Children have no access to MY internet connection, so tell me what would be the point of monitoring my own connection?. I already know what I access, as I am the only one doing it. :confused:
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    flower 2flower 2 Posts: 13,585
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    I have no desire to snoop on my neighbours. Why should I?.

    Have you at no time been affected by your neighbours?
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    benjaminibenjamini Posts: 32,066
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    Another reason not to give children smartphones IMO. I'm not even sure they need a mobile at all at primary school age but that's a different topic.

    so are you suggesting that technology should not be shared.?
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 36,630
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    flower 2 wrote: »
    Have you at no time been affected by your neighbours?

    Eh?.

    What on Earth has that got to do with whether or not they are viewing porn online?.

    I really do not get what point you are trying to make here?.

    Should I be creeping around my neighbours house and peering in their curtains, just to see if they are watching porn?. If so, what should I do about it if they are adults and it's all legal?.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 36,630
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    benjamini wrote: »
    so are you suggesting that technology should not be shared.?

    Why does a very young child need a smartphone?.
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    benjaminibenjamini Posts: 32,066
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    Why does a very young child need a smartphone?.

    Again you make assumptions. where or when was a very young child mentioned?
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 36,630
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    benjamini wrote: »
    Again you make assumptions. where or when was a very young child mentioned?

    It was a question, not an assumption, besides it was mentioned that young children where sending naughty pics via smartphones.

    Older teenagers are far more likely to be able to cope with seeing something they shouldn't, so as long as they are aware of the dangers it's fine for them to have smartphones.

    But younger children are probably more likely to be upset with some of the things they see online, and they have no need of a smartphone anyway given things like FB are supposed to be restricted to over 13s anyway.

    If a younger child needs a phone, give them a basic one with no internet access. Then they can't use it to view anything they shouldn't be viewing that may upset them.
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    BunionsBunions Posts: 15,044
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    benjamini wrote: »
    Again you make assumptions. where or when was a very young child mentioned?
    When I posted that they were sending each other porn on their smartphones at primary school.
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    flower 2flower 2 Posts: 13,585
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    Eh?.

    What on Earth has that got to do with whether or not they are viewing porn online?.

    I really do not get what point you are trying to make here?.

    Should I be creeping around my neighbours house and peering in their curtains, just to see if they are watching porn?. If so, what should I do about it if they are adults and it's all legal?.

    No, you said that you didn't have children in your house whilst using the internet, so that was ok, I was just trying to point out that children become adults at some point and they are our future.
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    flower 2 wrote: »
    No, you said that you didn't have children in your house whilst using the internet, so that was ok, I was just trying to point out that children become adults at some point and they are our future.

    OK,

    but I don't see what that has to do with the current debate.
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    BunionsBunions Posts: 15,044
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    flower 2 wrote: »
    No, you said that you didn't have children in your house whilst using the internet, so that was ok, I was just trying to point out that children become adults at some point and they are our future.
    Well we're in big trouble if they have parents who can't suss out internet security.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 36,630
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    Bunions wrote: »
    Well we're in big trouble if they have parents who can't suss out internet security.

    Very true.

    We're in bigger trouble if their parents couldn't care less about them and let them do what they want without monitoring or controlling them.
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    flower 2flower 2 Posts: 13,585
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    Bunions wrote: »
    Well we're in big trouble if they have parents who can't suss out internet security.

    You have a point.
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    benjaminibenjamini Posts: 32,066
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    Bunions wrote: »
    When I posted that they were sending each other porn on their smartphones at primary school.

    yeah well that was you and your friends.;-)
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    AxtolAxtol Posts: 8,480
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    flower 2 wrote: »
    As a child, there were times when the talk from grownups, made me want to investigate for myself.......and the equipment to 'investigate' is in our homes (that I do not yet know how to keep fully under lock and key).

    If you purchased the internet connection and brought the computer into the house then I think it's your responsibility. That might mean you need to spend some time learning.
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    BunionsBunions Posts: 15,044
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    benjamini wrote: »
    yeah well that was you and your friends.;-)
    I'm nearly 50 so that would have been an impossibility.

    Had I have had one back then?

    I probably would have been one of the kids that saw it.
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    BunionsBunions Posts: 15,044
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    Very true.

    We're in bigger trouble if their parents couldn't care less about them and let them do what they want without monitoring or controlling them.
    We're basically fecked :D
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    flower 2flower 2 Posts: 13,585
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    Bunions wrote: »
    We're basically fecked :D

    You may have a point!
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    DanniLaMoneDanniLaMone Posts: 2,274
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    There is nothing wrong in using a false identity while posting on the internet. What is wrong is if you pretend to be a different sex in order to trick someone into being your buddy. I became friends with a woman in Israel because we shared the same first name. We would message etc. until one day she let slip something that made me realise she was actually a man. Why would anyone want to be a different sex is beyond me, very sad.
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