So I was telling this female friend of mine that I am only attracted to slim and busty girls and she accused me of being shallow.
What I don't get is that she is only attracted to tall men and she had the nerve to all me shallow >:(
We find different things attractive in people, as in, physical features. I think about 90% of the black lasses out there are attractive. The odd time I see one, that is.
It is frustrating though when someone runs in shit stirs with such a post then runs out again. Having said that, I am a hypocrite because i am enjoying guessing
It is frustrating though when someone runs in shit stirs with such a post then runs out again. Having said that, I am a hypocrite because i am enjoying guessing
Do you judge plump or obese women harshly? Do you think small-busted ladies are less worthy than the more buxom ones? Attitudes like that would be unfair and obnoxious to many, I'm sure, to be quite honest.
Well you cant though. I dont mean to be funny but women are always the ones who always judge their partners by their looks
The usual cliches such as:
Tall Dark Handsome
Most men don't really describe the type of women they like in the physical sense or as much as women do. Therefore it;s safe to say women are more shallow if one is to label
'Tall dark handsome' is just a jokey phrase. You must see, if you look round, that men of all shapes and sizes are snapped up by adoring women (and vice versa of course).
Well. That's why I get confused. Do some people settle for people they don't fancy?
I've been lucky that I've always got girls I fancy, I worry if I was single now I'd be screwed.
Or possibly not screwed.
If you were single now you would attract and be attracted to someone older than when you were young. Most people automatically feel attraction towards appropriate people, ie people who might reasonably find them attractive back, and not revolting and creepy. Occasionally the mechanism seems to fail, and you get those sad people who are always having massive crushes on people a million miles out of their league. Or, and this is mainly a male characteristic, hoping to find a gorgeous young thing who is dazzled by the 'lifestyle' (ie money) on offer.
My reservation about the OP is about his manners, not his sexual preferences. It is rarely polite or attractive to tell a female friend that you only ever fancy 'slim and busty' women. A polite and even charming man is one who makes women feel good about themselves. My husband, though in other respects at least half warthog, is good at this. He manages to convey to any woman over a certain age - say, 30-ish - that she is gorgeous; it is charming and inoffensive purely because it is so general: I have seen him flirt sweetly with octogenarians, with beefy cross-dressers, with people in hospices; I assume he doesn't actually want to have sex with all of them, but he is good at making people think it is crossing his mind.
'Tall dark handsome' is just a jokey phrase. You must see, if you look round, that men of all shapes and sizes are snapped up by adoring women (and vice versa of course).
Or possibly not screwed.
If you were single now you would attract and be attracted to someone older than when you were young. Most people automatically feel attraction towards appropriate people, ie people who might reasonably find them attractive back, and not revolting and creepy. Occasionally the mechanism seems to fail, and you get those sad people who are always having massive crushes on people a million miles out of their league. Or, and this is mainly a male characteristic, hoping to find a gorgeous young thing who is dazzled by the 'lifestyle' (ie money) on offer.
My reservation about the OP is about his manners, not his sexual preferences. It is rarely polite or attractive to tell a female friend that you only ever fancy 'slim and busty' women. A polite and even charming man is one who makes women feel good about themselves. My husband, though in other respects at least half warthog, is good at this. He manages to convey to any woman over a certain age - say, 30-ish - that she is gorgeous; it is charming and inoffensive purely because it is so general: I have seen him flirt sweetly with octogenarians, with beefy cross-dressers, with people in hospices; I assume he doesn't actually want to have sex with all of them, but he is good at making people think it is crossing his mind.
I don't see how that sits with your comments in other threads....
I'm sure you know the ones I mean.
I certainly have...
I assume he meant if he was looking for a relationship. While I've not always agreed with jra on some of his views he has always been consistent and open about what he is looking for.
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Nope, men put looks first everytime.
No we don't.
I recently started watching Dinner Date on TV and when they ask the men and women first impressions the response is usually along these line
Male: Yeah shes nice, very chatty and friendly
Female: He is not usually the type I go for, but he has nice teeth and nice smile
The point is I see men describe personality more than looks. Tomorrow I shall watch it and take notes again.
Stereotypes are fun
A nice personality would be top of my list, tbh.
As the expression goes, beauty is only skin deep.
If you are with an intelligent good looking/beautiful women, then you've hit the jackpot.
Agreed, I'd also say that the saying "beauty grows" is true as well.
Who woulda thought it, guys being emotionally connected to things. Unthinkable :eek:
Course they do. Women just wait to see how big the cock is.
There is nothing wrong in having a type.
OK... Now I am intrigued lol
If you preferences are for a certain type, then so be it.
We find different things attractive in people, as in, physical features. I think about 90% of the black lasses out there are attractive. The odd time I see one, that is.
Ask the OP.
Not sent to me btw.
Oh, OK.
OP, what is this about photoshopped pics via PM?
Me 2, I'm nosey. Why would someone send unsolicited pics ?? and how do they know it's photoshopped.
Who doesn't like a bit of forum gossip? Lol
It is frustrating though when someone runs in shit stirs with such a post then runs out again. Having said that, I am a hypocrite because i am enjoying guessing
I don't want to know who, just what really.
Do you judge plump or obese women harshly? Do you think small-busted ladies are less worthy than the more buxom ones? Attitudes like that would be unfair and obnoxious to many, I'm sure, to be quite honest.
Or possibly not screwed.
If you were single now you would attract and be attracted to someone older than when you were young. Most people automatically feel attraction towards appropriate people, ie people who might reasonably find them attractive back, and not revolting and creepy. Occasionally the mechanism seems to fail, and you get those sad people who are always having massive crushes on people a million miles out of their league. Or, and this is mainly a male characteristic, hoping to find a gorgeous young thing who is dazzled by the 'lifestyle' (ie money) on offer.
My reservation about the OP is about his manners, not his sexual preferences. It is rarely polite or attractive to tell a female friend that you only ever fancy 'slim and busty' women. A polite and even charming man is one who makes women feel good about themselves. My husband, though in other respects at least half warthog, is good at this. He manages to convey to any woman over a certain age - say, 30-ish - that she is gorgeous; it is charming and inoffensive purely because it is so general: I have seen him flirt sweetly with octogenarians, with beefy cross-dressers, with people in hospices; I assume he doesn't actually want to have sex with all of them, but he is good at making people think it is crossing his mind.
That's actually a really good post
I'm sure you know the ones I mean.
I certainly have...
I assume he meant if he was looking for a relationship. While I've not always agreed with jra on some of his views he has always been consistent and open about what he is looking for.
However I assume he can answer that for himself.
I'm sure he can, I was just thinking out loud really. :-/