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Why do many of us men like seeing two or more women "get it on" ?

BlizzardUKBlizzardUK Posts: 4,965
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I got to admit, my ideal adult entertainment is just women, I don't get much pleasure from male on female porn. My ideal would be two or more women kissing (and so on). Yet if you ask women, most of them probably wouldn't say two men or more, although I could be wrong. I think with most women there has to be a woman in the porn for them to get aroused ? Perhaps ? To me my answer is the more naked women the better, but is it as simple as that ?

So I just wondered why this difference in the sexes ? As I am definitely not alone in preferring female on female adult action.
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    DanniLaMoneDanniLaMone Posts: 2,274
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    Most men have a fantasy of getting two women in bed with them. One guy once asked me and my sister to have sex with him. We told him to f*** off!!
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    blue eyed guyblue eyed guy Posts: 2,470
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    Lesbian porn can be instructive for a guy who is sexual, in that as he watches the action taking place he can take notes as to what gets a woman revved up, and then adapt it to the next time he is having pre sex sex aka foreplay with a woman. :)
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    Summer BreezeSummer Breeze Posts: 4,399
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    I do not watch porn as it does not turn me on.
    My OH watches a bit of porn but not the girl on girl stuff, he likes to see a man (or men) with a woman.
    I can use my head to get a sex fix if I want one, I then would fantasise about two men together to get myself there, and other stuff of course.
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    sarahj1986sarahj1986 Posts: 11,305
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    I suppose there are a number of reasons -

    1, Women are beautiful and seeing 2 of them together is a turn on

    2, tips on how to please a woman as women understand what women need to orgasm

    I think that many people will be surprised to learn that many women actually enjoy watching gay (2 males) porn. I recall seeing a study a few years ago and the levels of arousal in some of the women when watching it was the same if not more when watching straight porn.

    I personally have watched many different types - straight, group, lesbian, gay and enjoyed watching them all if the "scene" and the people in it are attractive
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    John_PatrickJohn_Patrick Posts: 924
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    Have watched women getting it on several times.... in person.... have then joined in. Best entertainment ever.
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    DanniLaMoneDanniLaMone Posts: 2,274
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    Have watched women getting it on several times.... in person.... have then joined in. Best entertainment ever.

    I'd rather watch a good movie if given the choice. When I say movie I don't mean porn.
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    NaturalWorrierNaturalWorrier Posts: 649
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    My theory?

    Men are visual, women tend to be more emotional.

    So a man looking at it would be looking at the women and getting aroused by what they look like.

    Where as the woman looking at it would be thinking of the connection between the actors and the story more.

    I could be wrong of course...
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    CatsRuleCatsRule Posts: 237
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    I'm female and I like watching porn, I prefer to see a man and a woman. However I sometimes like to watch two men. Two women does nothing for me whatsover. I think womens bodies are visually more attractive, but I don't fancy them in a sexual way.
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    DanniLaMoneDanniLaMone Posts: 2,274
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    CatsRule wrote: »
    I prefer to see a man and a woman. However I sometimes like to watch two men. Two women does nothing for me whatsover. I'm female and I think womens bodies are visually more attractive, but I don't fancy them in a sexual way.

    By 2 men do you mean what I think you mean? Because I find that repulsive tbh and I am not anti gay just not into stuff like that.
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    CatsRuleCatsRule Posts: 237
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    By 2 men do you mean what I think you mean? Because I find that repulsive tbh and I am not anti gay just not into stuff like that.

    yes. can't explain why I do. It would be boring if we all liked the same stuff! :D
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    trevgotrevgo Posts: 28,241
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    This is a very interesting subject, and there is no doubt female-on-female action does far more for heterosexual males than male-on-male does for most females.

    In some respects I can draw an equivalence with men for whom the appearance of another man in porn is a turn off, as any female involvement will turn me completely off. A naked female has the same effect on me as another naked male would for a heterosexual guy.

    Funnily enough, I was only thinking of this last night whilst watching "The Wire". One of the main characters is a lesbian cop, and there is a bit of soft action between her and her girlfriend. I felt uncomfortable, but knew there'd be loads of guys pausing and replaying! However, another character is a black gangster who happens to be gay, and there was a short bit of him kissing and caressing his homie boyfriend - I could hear the male "OH NO!" groans from across the globe!!
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 11,348
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    Have watched women getting it on several times.... in person.... have then joined in. Best entertainment ever.

    Yes I agree - on the couple of occasions that I've partaken in this - it was fantastic loool. There is just sometihng about too women together - not sure what it is - but it was amazing lol.
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    GneissGneiss Posts: 14,555
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    BlizzardUK wrote: »
    I got to admit, my ideal adult entertainment is just women, I don't get much pleasure from male on female porn. My ideal would be two or more women kissing (and so on). Yet if you ask women, most of them probably wouldn't say two men or more, although I could be wrong. I think with most women there has to be a woman in the porn for them to get aroused ? Perhaps ? To me my answer is the more naked women the better, but is it as simple as that ?

    So I just wondered why this difference in the sexes ? As I am definitely not alone in preferring female on female adult action.
    No, it bores me to death....

    In fact if I'm watching a porn film I'll usually fast forward through those scenes. It's not like you'll miss any of the plot or anything :D


    Most men have a fantasy of getting two women in bed with them.
    You make an awful lot of claims about "most men", 99% of them being incorrect...

    I think it's often said as a joke, personally it's not for me. I much prefer one to one and always have.
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    DanniLaMoneDanniLaMone Posts: 2,274
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    Gneiss wrote: »
    You make an awful lot of claims about "most men", 99% of them being incorrect...

    I think it's often said as a joke, personally it's not for me. I much prefer one to one and always have.

    I miss mike :cry:
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    los.kavlos.kav Posts: 8,053
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    CatsRule wrote: »
    yes. can't explain why I do. It would be boring if we all liked the same stuff! :D

    I like it too. It's just as valid as men liking two women together! :D
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 7,888
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    Maybe they use it as an instructional video as women know where everything is. Some guys don't. Having said that if you venture into the fanfiction side of the internet, you find many ladies who are turned on by gay men.

    Personally, I don't actively watch porn, I mean I have before, curiosity and to see if it did it for me, nah, didn't work but hey ho as long as you're not going around expecting real people to be complete porn stars or asking lesbians to make out for your viewing pleasure.
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    SoundboxSoundbox Posts: 6,250
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    I miss mike :cry:

    I thought you didn't - I felt for him with all the bullying on here. At least he was genuine.
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    Rip the TV EyeRip the TV Eye Posts: 1,687
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    1. Women look good together.

    2. The man watching doesn't have to look at another bloke's lobster and clams, or his arse.
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    spiney2spiney2 Posts: 27,058
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    yeah as the famous book says, men wash their cars but women do the dishes.

    this whole sex thing is a gweat mithterwy (to quote toyah wilcox). how is it that masculinity or femininity - straight lines vs curves - can stir such passions ?
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    darkislanddarkisland Posts: 3,178
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    "Why do many of us men like seeing two or more women "get it on" ?

    Firstly, speak for yourself, and secondly, at a guess because it validates a fragile sense of masculinity.

    There's a lot of truth in 'the boy doth protest too much'.
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    MudboxMudbox Posts: 10,110
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    well, heterosexual men have something in common with lesbians, in what they are attracted to..
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    Jesse PinkmanJesse Pinkman Posts: 5,794
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    "Why do many of us men like seeing two or more women "get it on" ?"

    Us men? I'm also a man but of the homosexual kind and so can't think of anything less sexual to me than two women getting it on.

    This is 2014 and we really should be dropping these silly outdated stereotypes where men, man, male only means red blooded, female banging, beer drinking rednecks.

    I'm a man. bloke, guy. It says male on my birth certificate and I have a fully working set of male attachments. I wear men's clothing, no makeup, hate shopping and don't have a clue about scatter cushions.
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    MudboxMudbox Posts: 10,110
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    I think 'many' means 'a lot', 'not all' etc.....
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    SoundboxSoundbox Posts: 6,250
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    Mudbox wrote: »
    I think 'many' means 'a lot', 'not all' etc.....

    I know loads of blokes but none are interested in porn. I think it's a minority fetish along with other activities of that kind.
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    MudboxMudbox Posts: 10,110
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    I think we are all in danger of extrapolating from our own experience. I suppose we haven't much else to go on, but there are millions of people out there with all sorts of points of view, and preference. Difficult to see what is really going on without some sort of properly executed survey.
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