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pearlsandplumspearlsandplums Posts: 29,678
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I was up at my parents for dinner at the weekend, and we had a roast. Being an irish mother, my mother needs to cook the roast for about three days, and the veg for a similar length of time.
I know everyone has different tastes, but i just dont understand how anyone can enjoy meat thats been cooked for so long that its dried up and leathery.
Is anyone else a sole rare/medium eater in a family of well done-rs?
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    ShrikeShrike Posts: 16,610
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    My mum was the same, bless her. For some reason her generation were paranoid about undercooked meat, not sure why the veg had to be boiled to death though.

    I was quite shocked first time I saw beef that was pink inside:o
    I've been converted now though - rare steak with al dente veg please:)
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    walterwhitewalterwhite Posts: 57,058
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    Get the same at the in laws. We actually decided to invite them round for Xmas Dinner rather than go to their house as we couldn't face the overcooked meat again.
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    Rab64Rab64 Posts: 1,296
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    I like my meat rare to medium, but do like veg well cooked and soft
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    JulesFJulesF Posts: 6,461
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    My family have always liked our beef very rare and other meats cooked so they are only just done (indeed, my late father's favourite dish was steak tartare), as do my in-laws, so no need for us to have to try to choke down bits of leather at meals, thank goodness.

    I agree with the usual refrain of 'it's a matter of taste' only up to a certain point. The flavour of the slightly burnt outside bits is delicious, so I do get why those who like well-done meat enjoy that, but I can't understand why anyone would enjoy the texture of a leathery bit of cremated meat. And I think that meat-eaters who are squeamish about 'bloodiness' (it's NOT blood) are hypocritical and rather silly. You're eating a dead animal - why pretend it's not? Same goes for people who freak out about bones.

    I think Shrike is quite right - it's often a generational thing, harking back to the days when the rearing, slaughtering and butchering of livestock was not heavily regulated, like it is today. I've seen older people do things like rinse meat under a tap (sacrilege, and totally pointless). Another example is people who still think that pork should be utterly cremated, so you can barely swallow it down, rather than cooked so that there is the merest hint of pink, as there should be.
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    molliepopsmolliepops Posts: 26,829
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    It's quite funny when you say that's how it should be when previously for many many generations it shouldn't have been and this rare and nearly raw in some cases meat may just be a fleeting fad in the scheme of things.

    Meat had to be cooked safely and veggies too when they came in from the garden filthy and pitted it's only with todays clinically washed veg perfectly round with no flaws we can risk not cooking them until they are properly fully cooked through.
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    WombatDeathWombatDeath Posts: 4,723
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    I can imagine parents/grandparents of a certain age having conversations along the lines of "Oh god, do we have to go to Wombat's house for dinner? They serve their meat practically raw!".
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    walterwhitewalterwhite Posts: 57,058
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    molliepops wrote: »
    It's quite funny when you say that's how it should be when previously for many many generations it shouldn't have been and this rare and nearly raw in some cases meat may just be a fleeting fad in the scheme of things.

    Meat had to be cooked safely and veggies too when they came in from the garden filthy and pitted it's only with todays clinically washed veg perfectly round with no flaws we can risk not cooking them until they are properly fully cooked through.

    But there's a difference between cooked through and being cooked for about an hour longer than that isn't there?
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    molliepopsmolliepops Posts: 26,829
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    But there's a difference between cooked through and being cooked for about an hour longer than that isn't there?

    Of course but what you seem to consider cooked through would not be cooked enough for my meat eaters they like theirs very well done, we are also fans of properly cooked veggies (soft).
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    pearlsandplumspearlsandplums Posts: 29,678
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    JulesF wrote: »

    I think Shrike is quite right - it's often a generational thing, harking back to the days when the rearing, slaughtering and butchering of livestock was not heavily regulated, like it is today. I've seen older people do things like rinse meat under a tap (sacrilege, and totally pointless). Another example is people who still think that pork should be utterly cremated, so you can barely swallow it down, rather than cooked so that there is the merest hint of pink, as there should be.

    My mum would still wash a turkey under the cold tap on xmas eve.
    All it does is spray germs around the kitchen, as lets face it, running cold water over raw meat isnt going to do much good. Science on big brother washed mince
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    JulesFJulesF Posts: 6,461
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    molliepops wrote: »
    It's quite funny when you say that's how it should be when previously for many many generations it shouldn't have been and this rare and nearly raw in some cases meat may just be a fleeting fad in the scheme of things.

    Meat had to be cooked safely and veggies too when they came in from the garden filthy and pitted it's only with todays clinically washed veg perfectly round with no flaws we can risk not cooking them until they are properly fully cooked through.

    Well, yes, that's what I was saying. Previously, meat had to be cooked thoroughly to make sure it was safe. Today, in developed countries, standards are much, much higher, and meat can be cooked for less time. That is the reason why more people now eat rare meat - because they like it and they can do so safely - rather than it being a fad.

    I don't really understand what you are saying about the veggies though. Some people like theirs soft and well-done, yes, but I've never heard anything about health risks involved with eating raw vegetables or fruit (other than things like rhubarb and potatoes, that are harmful when eaten raw). Don't we all eat some raw vegetables - carrots, salad leaves, cucumbers etc? Other than possible pesticides, what is this harmful 'filth' that comes (or used to come) on vegetables from the garden? The 'pitts' and 'flaws' in vegetables are not flaws at all - that's the natural state of naturally grown vegetables. There is nothing sinister or harmful about that.
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    molliepopsmolliepops Posts: 26,829
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    Obviously nothing wrong with pits and flaws I prefer my veg to look natural I wasn't saying there was anything wrong with them but you can't clean them as antiseptically as they do the veg these days in supermarkets.

    And unless you garden in a cat or fox free area I would suggest there are many reasons to cook stuff extremely well.
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    JulesFJulesF Posts: 6,461
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    molliepops wrote: »
    Obviously nothing wrong with pits and flaws I prefer my veg to look natural I wasn't saying there was anything wrong with them but you can't clean them as antiseptically as they do the veg these days in supermarkets.

    And unless you garden in a cat or fox free area I would suggest there are many reasons to cook stuff extremely well.

    I live in a very rural area, so plenty of wildlife around here! Still, I eat plenty of the vegetables that come from my garden (and the supermarket) raw - not sure why or how one would cook a cucumber, for example. After a thorough rinsing, of course, but that's about it - just a rinse. I'm very much against cleaning anything completely antiseptically, or cooking everything to within an inch of its life. There are plenty of studies that show that over-adherence to cleanliness has a negative effect on the immune system, and is therefore more harmful than ingesting the odd bit of dirt and bacteria.

    I guess the bottom line is: if you like your meat and vegetables well-done, fine, but there is no real need to cook like this these days.
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    Lucy LouLucy Lou Posts: 8,574
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    Interesting thread :) and it has helped to understand why my Mum always cremated the meat too (she still does) - it was so dry and tough and then she would save some of the roast for Mondays tea to be eaten cold by which time it was tougher than leather, she still washes raw meat to this day. I must say though to her credit she does make the best slow cooked braised steak I have ever eaten.

    In my house we prefer meat just cooked so that it is still moist and the vegetables definitely al dante.
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    MoggioMoggio Posts: 4,289
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    molliepops wrote: »
    And unless you garden in a cat or fox free area I would suggest there are many reasons to cook stuff extremely well.

    A rinse under the tap will do.
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    I can imagine parents/grandparents of a certain age having conversations along the lines of "Oh god, do we have to go to Wombat's house for dinner? They serve their meat practically raw!".

    That's my mum. :D Even when we're watching cookery programmes, she'll say in disgust "send it back, it's not even cooked!".
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    ShrikeShrike Posts: 16,610
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    My mum would still wash a turkey under the cold tap on xmas eve.
    All it does is spray germs around the kitchen, as lets face it, running cold water over raw meat isnt going to do much good. Science on big brother washed mince

    I'd forgotten that:D He also insisted on cutting about a third of the chicken off and chucking it out as he didn't want to eat it's arse. I know he got his nickname as he liked science at school, but I can only assume it was physics and chemistry - not biology;-)
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    walterwhitewalterwhite Posts: 57,058
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    molliepops wrote: »
    Of course but what you seem to consider cooked through would not be cooked enough for my meat eaters they like theirs very well done, we are also fans of properly cooked veggies (soft).

    Once beef shows no sign of pink it is cooked through. Trust me, my mother in law must cook hers for another hour after that point.
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    Wallasey SaintWallasey Saint Posts: 7,636
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    I tend to use a meat thermometer when checking the meat is cooked, although i prefer meat medium to well done, Pork & Poultry has to be cooked well done. I do my veg just as it goes soft, as you get the flavour from the veg then, i do remember having veg when it was cooked to a mush no flavour whatsoever.
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    pearlsandplumspearlsandplums Posts: 29,678
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    If making steak and potatoes, my mother would put the steak on before the potaoes
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    gemma-the-huskygemma-the-husky Posts: 18,116
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    modern food preparation is hardly safe, is it.

    we wash most things before use. All fruit and veg for instance. We would certainly wash chickens, although not joints of meat. And despite observations about pork, we cook ours properly.

    Heston B managed to poison a lot of his diners with the contaminated shellfish, did he not. Leviticus properly has it right. I eat prawns and the like, but rarely touch other shellfish.
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    LostFoolLostFool Posts: 90,668
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    When I visit my parents for the weekend I always have to come up with an excuse to leave early on a Sunday morning to avoid stopping for dinner. The meat is cremated and the veg boiled for hours. The last time I was there I offered to take them to a local carvery but they refused because they said they had been before and the food was served "half raw".
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    walterwhitewalterwhite Posts: 57,058
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    modern food preparation is hardly safe, is it.

    we wash most things before use. All fruit and veg for instance. We would certainly wash chickens, although not joints of meat. And despite observations about pork, we cook ours properly.

    Heston B managed to poison a lot of his diners with the contaminated shellfish, did he not. Leviticus properly has it right. I eat prawns and the like, but rarely touch other shellfish.

    It is impossible to tell if Oysters are clean before you cook them, that was what caused the food poisoning. Pork should be cooked slightly pink if that's what you mean.
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    JulesFJulesF Posts: 6,461
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    modern food preparation is hardly safe, is it.

    we wash most things before use. All fruit and veg for instance. We would certainly wash chickens, although not joints of meat. And despite observations about pork, we cook ours properly.

    Heston B managed to poison a lot of his diners with the contaminated shellfish, did he not. Leviticus properly has it right. I eat prawns and the like, but rarely touch other shellfish.

    Why do you wash chicken, but not other joints of meat? It's the heat that kills bacteria. Running something under the tap doesn't kill any surface germs at all.
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    walterwhitewalterwhite Posts: 57,058
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    JulesF wrote: »
    Why do you wash chicken, but not other joints of meat? It's the heat that kills bacteria. Running something under the tap doesn't kill any surface germs at all.

    The same reason they cook pork all the way through. Habit.
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    LyricalisLyricalis Posts: 57,958
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    I was up at my parents for dinner at the weekend, and we had a roast. Being an irish mother, my mother needs to cook the roast for about three days, and the veg for a similar length of time.
    I know everyone has different tastes, but i just dont understand how anyone can enjoy meat thats been cooked for so long that its dried up and leathery.
    Is anyone else a sole rare/medium eater in a family of well done-rs?

    My mother was never able to cook beef properly. It just ended up looking and tasting like shoe leather. Any other meat and she didn't overcook quite as much, but beef had to be totally nuked.

    The first time we went to a restaurant as a family (long after all the kids had left home, in fact it was celebrating my mum's 60th birthday), my mother looked like she was going to be sick when she saw the rare steak I'd ordered :D.
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