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EbonyHamster
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My cousins getting married later in the year, we (OH and I) aren't invited to the day time which is fair enough, money and numbers etc
Found out today though that we aren't invited to the night time either as its the same people as the daytime who'd going and they aren't having a typical night do (disco etc) they are having a singer and a grand piano
I feel annoyed cause my dad and sister are invited but we aren't, my sister said she didn't think it was our thing as we would have to buy suits (so?) and that the place is really posh (again so?) she also said some partners weren't invited, I'm family though and other family have been invited
I know people will probably say I'm in the wrong being pissed off but I can't help how I feel, nice to know what my family really think of me!
Found out today though that we aren't invited to the night time either as its the same people as the daytime who'd going and they aren't having a typical night do (disco etc) they are having a singer and a grand piano
I feel annoyed cause my dad and sister are invited but we aren't, my sister said she didn't think it was our thing as we would have to buy suits (so?) and that the place is really posh (again so?) she also said some partners weren't invited, I'm family though and other family have been invited
I know people will probably say I'm in the wrong being pissed off but I can't help how I feel, nice to know what my family really think of me!
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You might be family, but are you close?
I mean I have quite a few relatives that would come way below my friends on the list of people I want at my wedding... The couple should be surrounded by the people that they share their life with, not by people they barely know but are related to.
Essentially it's their wedding, their choice.
We were as children but then the whole family fell out (well the adults) me and my cousin were only kids
We've been back in touch the past few years
I think you right being honest. I mean your family not a pair of hobos off the street
Weddings can be funny affair, my ex wife got married last week and I was shocked she didn't invite all of the school mums... Mind most of then speak to me re activities with all of the kids
I feel your pain, you should make your feelings clear to them
It may just be that costs and numbers were tight and even though you've been back in touch you're not close enough for her to invite you over some of her friends.
The only way to know for sure is to ask her in a calm, non-confrontational manner.
It is a bit shitty that your sister has been invited but thems the breaks.
I'm not being difficult, but would you actually go? Maybe if they thought you'd not or would rather not they didn't want to put you in the position?
Not yet no, I'm waiting till I calm down first
Thank you
I've asked my sister if my dads taking his girlfriend (who's met my cousin once) I won't be happy if he is
Yeah that's why I'm waiting till I calm down to ask her
Don't be silly! Why spoil the chance of another DS moan?:D
Now who's upset me me me lately?;-)
Oh you think!
Well done captain obvious *rolleyes*
We would have went yes
Like someone above mentioned, I'd have friends before most of my family. Essentially, it's their wedding, their money, their choice.
That said, of course you have the right to be pissed off - but do you have the right to kick up a fuss or ask why you're not invited - IMO - not really.
Oh I totally get it's their wedding
I do think I have the right to ask why though
Bloody hell. That was a bit quick was it not? Doesn't seem like 5 minutes since you were on here talking about the break up and your kids. Sorry Ebony I do understand why you are pissed of tbh.
Not to appear rude, but honestly I don't think you do...it's there wedding and they shouldn't need to explain to anyone why they are not invited.
If you do ask you may not like the answer.
If they did suddenly invite you, wouldn't you feel like it was an after thought?
I would rather hear a answer I don't like than wonder
Thank god for that!
Of course, it's too late to be invited now
But that doesn't change how I feel about not being invited, I can't help how I feel
I DON'T care if I am not invited to yours either cos I AM STILL COMING OK?
Can I ask why they might dislike you?