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Dog wont stay home alone.
Lucozade76
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We have a 2 coming on to 3 year old staffy. He did live with my son but both have now come to live in our flat but we can't leave him alone in a cage even for an hour two to go the shop or whatever.
Can this be fixed or are we doomed to always have someone with him?
Edit to add:
The problem is he cries and/or howls.
Can this be fixed or are we doomed to always have someone with him?
Edit to add:
The problem is he cries and/or howls.
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Pretty sure it can be fixed. Have you tried leaving him for a few mins at a time and building it up?
Yes, but we've just has him a week.
I remember this Dog Whisperer from TV.
He's pretty weird but good at his job.
Common sense advice here which we are working on:
http://www.cesarsway.com/tips/dogtraining/Dealing-with-Separation-Anxiety-by-Martin-Deeley
I spent a while working through pretty severe separation anxiety with my staffy cross.
There are lots of things you can do.
Use an Adaptil or Pet Remedy Diffuser, or even Zylkene (a natural medication to aid relaxation).
Encourage him to be independent, ignore him if he follows you around, shut him in the one room when you are in another, don't allow him to sleep in your room etc.
Also you need to desensitise him to any signs you are about to leave - eg. putting coat on, finding keys, locking up etc. So when you leave him he is fairly relaxed.
Walk him before you go out if possible so he has spent a bit of energy.
They start leaving him for maybe 30 seconds, then build up slowly. If he is panicking, you are going too fast.
Crate training is another option if you have space.
Never shout at him for crying, it will make his anxiety worse.
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I am not sure I'd condone drugging any animal just to keep them quiet though. :kitty:
While the food is there the dog will be quiet. Too busy eating. But try standing outside after the food has gone and you just might find a different story.
My dog barely noticed us leaving but as soon as the food was gone she would howl and whine until we got home. I've heard how hoarse she has been after being left so she clearly keeps on howling for most if not all of the time we are gone.
We have given up on leaving her and take her to my parents to be baby sat if we are going out.
If he isn't a howler, try leaving the radio on. And pray he isn't like my old pup.