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Creepy stares. Have you ever been stared at?

Lil_MLil_M Posts: 2,105
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Just anywhere, in middle of the supermarket to your local town centre.
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    TheTruth1983TheTruth1983 Posts: 13,462
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    I'm usually the one doing the staring :p
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    Lil_MLil_M Posts: 2,105
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    I'm usually the one doing the staring :p

    I ask, as I was being proper stared at by this woman (with a pram) and it was so obvious. Her Face was just practically up against mine. It was uncomfortable.
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    CravenHavenCravenHaven Posts: 13,953
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    No! When I stand outside their bedroom window looking in, it's too bright inside for them to see me. And I have night vision goggles.
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    CaptainObvious_CaptainObvious_ Posts: 3,881
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    Lil_M wrote: »
    I ask, as I was being proper stared at by this woman (with a pram) and it was so obvious. Her Face was just practically up against mine. It was uncomfortable.

    I sympathise, I always seem to catch people staring at me (especially on the train of all places :confused:) but that is crazy when it is as close as you say

    I have also been looked up and down quite obviously by one woman when on the train platform (why is it always train related?). It made me feel horrible and paranoid

    >:(
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    CentaurionCentaurion Posts: 2,060
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    I stare at folk and folk stare at me, I've long since thought it was an unimportant human trait, it's part of life isn't it ?
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    Lil_MLil_M Posts: 2,105
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    I sympathise, I always seem to catch people staring at me (especially on the train of all places :confused:) but that is crazy when it is as close as you say

    I have also been looked up and down quite obviously by one woman when on the train platform (why is it always train related?). It made me feel horrible and paranoid

    >:(

    I was in Tesco and nicely getting some bagels and this woman for some reasons stared. I was a bit ok wtf what do I do now, how do I react.

    It is not like it is a one off. I was once stopped in a middle of debenhams, someone stared at me for a good 10 minutes before approaching me and asking me where I was from.

    It was too weird.
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    John146John146 Posts: 12,926
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    I was getting stared at in the supermarket, so I thought I had better put my clothes back on...:D
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    Lil_MLil_M Posts: 2,105
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    John146 wrote: »
    I was getting stared at in the supermarket, so I thought I had better put my clothes back on...:D

    Haha. This reminds me of this occasion in Liverpool and I was in the changing rooms and was not naked but was just stared at by this old woman (old enough to be my great gran).
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 384
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    Not being big headed but I have been stared at since I was a young girl (14ish),doesn't bother me now I just smile and enjoy whilst it lasts.Im a starer though,not intentionally but I stare at other women,seeing if theyre pretty,what theyre wearing.Not in a judging way, just being nosey.I take everything in from the colour of their eyes to the make of shoes.But OH sometimes nudges me and says stop staring.Staring at someone for 10minutes is excessive though:o
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    performingmonkperformingmonk Posts: 20,086
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    Not being big headed but I have been stared at since I was a young girl (14ish),doesn't bother me now I just smile and enjoy whilst it lasts.Im a starer though,not intentionally but I stare at other women,seeing if theyre pretty,what theyre wearing.Not in a judging way, just being nosey.I take everything in from the colour of their eyes to the make of shoes.But OH sometimes nudges me and says stop staring.Staring at someone for 10minutes is excessive though:o

    I take it you're fitter than your FM name suggests then? :D If you really were Blanche, people would be staring alright, seeing as she's been dead for years!! ^_^
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    barlowconnorbarlowconnor Posts: 38,120
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    Several times I just stare back and they usually stop.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 384
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    I take it you're fitter than your FM name suggests then? :D If you really were Blanche, people would be staring alright, seeing as she's been dead for years!! ^_^

    Yes I am (slightly) fitter than dear old Blanche:D.I named myself after her as shes my hero and who I aspire to be like in my old age;-):D
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    performingmonkperformingmonk Posts: 20,086
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    I work in a shop and will get customers who just stand and stare. If they do that I won't say a thing and carry on doing what I'm doing. If they act like a human being (e.g. 'excuse me, I wonder if you could help me?') then they're more likely to get a positive response from me. Otherwise, they can f**king stand there all day as far as I'm concerned! :D
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    performingmonkperformingmonk Posts: 20,086
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    Yes I am (slightly) fitter than dear old Blanche:D.I named myself after her as shes my hero and who I aspire to be like in my old age;-):D

    Do you have a son-in-law who you call 'Kenneth'? :D
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    CaptainObvious_CaptainObvious_ Posts: 3,881
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    Not being big headed but I have been stared at since I was a young girl (14ish),doesn't bother me now I just smile and enjoy whilst it lasts.Im a starer though,not intentionally but I stare at other women,seeing if theyre pretty,what theyre wearing.Not in a judging way, just being nosey.I take everything in from the colour of their eyes to the make of shoes.But OH sometimes nudges me and says stop staring.Staring at someone for 10minutes is excessive though:o

    How do you know they're staring because your pretty though? (I'm assuming from 'not being big-headed' :blush:) I tend to imagine people staring at me for the opposite- I'm not pretty really, not a looker at all.
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    performingmonkperformingmonk Posts: 20,086
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    Several times I just stare back and they usually stop.

    Good on you. :)

    btw loving how the Corrie usernames are out in force tonight! :cool:
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    phylo_roadkingphylo_roadking Posts: 21,339
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    I get stared at like that every single day...just try walking into a shop carrying a black motorcycle helmet!

    Makes you feel you should be carrying another one for your SECOND head...
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    bluebladeblueblade Posts: 88,859
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    Occasionally. I can't abide being stared at. Really freaks me out.
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    bazzaroobazzaroo Posts: 6,848
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    Not sure about creepy stares but i do have creaky stairs.
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    HarrisonMarksHarrisonMarks Posts: 4,360
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    I had a whole load of celebrities just stare at me the other day. Then I realised - I work at Madame Tussauds!
    Do I win £5?
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    Duffman2000Duffman2000 Posts: 1,372
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    Frequently, by my mum and my brother! :(
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    FIN-MANFIN-MAN Posts: 1,598
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    This guy keeps staring at me at work and I took his picture just in-case something bad happens.
    http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/09/02/article-2408778-1B94B96A000005DC-365_634x422.jpg
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    IzzySIzzyS Posts: 11,045
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    I tend to avoid eye contact for the most part, so perhaps but I may not be aware of it :)
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    Duffman2000Duffman2000 Posts: 1,372
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    I had a whole load of celebrities just stare at me the other day. Then I realised - I work at Madame Tussauds!
    Do I win £5?
    You get NOTHING! You LOSE! Good day sir!
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    jrajra Posts: 48,325
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    As looking at someone becoming a stare varies in interpretation for everyone, it can't really be defined.
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