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What really goes on in the back room of a strip club?

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    spiney2spiney2 Posts: 27,058
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    some are doing sociology doctorates......
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    James FrederickJames Frederick Posts: 53,184
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    I did know a stripper many years ago I guess I would have been about 14 maybe 15 at the time one of the women in the refuge me and my mum and brothers were staying in at the time worked as a stripper she was quite open about it to everybody in there and still went out to work almost everyday.

    I don't really know what went off with her as I never asked all I remember is I used to get worried as I didn't know if she went back to the same place she always worked so her husband/BF would know where she was or if it was a new one if he just found out the area she lived now he could find her easy.
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    walterwhitewalterwhite Posts: 57,058
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    spiney2 wrote: »
    some are doing sociology doctorates......

    I went to a stag do at a local strip club and one of the girls came over and said hello to my mate. Turned out they were on the same degree course at Uni.
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    Sweet_PrincessSweet_Princess Posts: 11,038
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    The back room is obviously there for a reason. Guys pay to see girls dance on the poles in the main room and if they want extra they pay more to get anything in the back room thats how it works
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    jrajra Posts: 48,325
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    You can have a private dance in the back room. I've done that and there was no sex involved.

    Try explaining that to some people in this thread. Many factors involved. The back room doesn't automatically mean sex.
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    jrajra Posts: 48,325
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    The back room is obviously there for a reason. Guys pay to see girls dance on the poles in the main room and if they want extra they pay more to get anything in the back room thats how it works

    Yes, but that does not automatically mean (full) sex. A lap dance and/or a bit of groping may be all that happens. If the male is single no harm done. If you (the male) are in a relationship, then I would be asking questions.
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    Ben_Fisher1Ben_Fisher1 Posts: 2,973
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    I want to know what really goes on at the end of male strip shows like The Dreamboys. Do women really go back to the dressing rooms offering them money for sex? and I heard that there have been orgies with punters too.
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    Pumping IronPumping Iron Posts: 29,891
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    The back room is obviously there for a reason. Guys pay to see girls dance on the poles in the main room and if they want extra they pay more to get anything in the back room thats how it works

    The pole in the main room is just to advertise for private lap-dances where the girls make their money. On the pole the girls tend just to go topless, in a private dance they go fully nude. I have worked the doors of 2 strip clubs and there was very much a no-touching policy. The girls would have been fired straight away if anything else went on in the club. It may happen in some of the more downmarket clubs though.
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    Ben_Fisher1Ben_Fisher1 Posts: 2,973
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    Has anyone here ever met a Dreamboy, or know one of them? What are they like, douchy thick exhibitionists, or are some decent, and interesting?
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    Billy_ValueBilly_Value Posts: 22,923
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    i think most people in this thread are talking about the gta experience than real life LOL
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    James FrederickJames Frederick Posts: 53,184
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    The pole in the main room is just to advertise for private lap-dances where the girls make their money. On the pole the girls tend just to go topless, in a private dance they go fully nude. I have worked the doors of 2 strip clubs and there was very much a no-touching policy. The girls would have been fired straight away if anything else went on in the club. It may happen in some of the more downmarket clubs though.

    What about out of the club?

    As I said my best friends bf's sister worked at one and she said it never happned in the club but some girls did meet up with customers after their shift/the club closed and sex for money did take place.
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    Pumping IronPumping Iron Posts: 29,891
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    What about out of the club?

    As I said my best friends bf's sister worked at one and she said it never happned in the club but some girls did meet up with customers after their shift/the club closed and sex for money did take place.

    It probably does happen with a minority of girls, but its not something I have ever encountered.
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    Sweet_PrincessSweet_Princess Posts: 11,038
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    Maybe not everything happens in the back room but something must happen
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    Pumping IronPumping Iron Posts: 29,891
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    Maybe not everything happens in the back room but something must happen

    Yes a private dance
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    JurassicMarkJurassicMark Posts: 12,892
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    Yes a private dance

    Correct, I've been in a private room and that's all I got.

    It was several years ago and think they called it a 'Champagne Service', which started of by me agreeing to pay a ridiculous price for the service and a bottle of Champagne. Then went into the room for a private dance and she spent a lot of the time trying to get me to drink the Champagne, in the hope that I would buy another bottle. There was a 'no touch' policy and sex was not offered or even hinted at.

    Imagine that some people think something dodgy is going on as it's in a private room, but I believe this is to make the client feel special, in that the service is for his eyes only. They were very vague as to what this 'Champagne Service' involved, which I think is deliberate and some clients may believe that something more will happen in the private room than actually does.

    Part of the reason I agreed to the service was curiosity - I wanted to know what happened in there, but it was very expensive for what it was and would never do it again.
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    Sweet_PrincessSweet_Princess Posts: 11,038
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    I think you got conned. I am sure more goes on in the back room than just a dance
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    JurassicMarkJurassicMark Posts: 12,892
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    I think you got conned. I am sure more goes on in the back room than just a dance

    You can continue to make baseless accusations until you go blue in the face.

    These establishments get inspected by officials pretending to be clients and if they found anything inappropriate going on, they would probably be forced to close. Not saying that is doesn't happen at all, but it's probably very rare as it's not worth the risk to the proprietor.

    If someone wanted sex, it would be a lot easier (and usually cheaper) to visit a massage parlour.
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    trayhop123trayhop123 Posts: 886
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    please everyone go back to my first post on page one ,,,,,,,,,, thems the facts straight from the whorses mouth ( sorry lol)
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    ÆnimaÆnima Posts: 38,548
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    I think you got conned. I am sure more goes on in the back room than just a dance

    Ha, Nah... I've been to them a couple of times before and you don't get conned, you just get a private dance. My mate insisted last time I went and got me one, even though I wasn't bothered. To be honest, it's kind of boring, I ended up, making small talk with the stripper :D Don't see the point when you could just find a girl who you like, who likes you, who you can touch and you don't have to pay :p

    On that note though, I must have some crazy charm because one of the times I went, the strupper started touching me and I touched her back and then was like; shit, sorry you aren't supposed to do that are you? and she was like, 'it's fine', just as I was expecting a couple of the massive bouncers to come in a give me a kicking :D

    The last time I went was a few years back and I got my brother and his mate a private dance, and I sat on my hands that time :blush: Still think strip clubs are a bit shit though, I mean, they're ok if you're desperate to stay out and everywhere else is shut, but to be honest they're just an exercise in expensive drinks and sexual frustration. You're better off trying to pull a girl who likes you back and if you can't do that, just go home, watch some porn and sleep it off :p
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    JurassicMarkJurassicMark Posts: 12,892
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    trayhop123 wrote: »
    please everyone go back to my first post on page one ,,,,,,,,,, thems the facts straight from the whorses mouth ( sorry lol)

    Thing is, there's more than one horse's mouth on this thread and there's also people who claim to know girls who work in the business, so who do you believe?
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    trayhop123trayhop123 Posts: 886
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    Thing is, there's more than one horse's mouth on this thread and there's also people who claim to know girls who work in the business, so who do you believe?

    i gain nothing from lying mate ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, but i can only tell you my experience of the high end executive lace in leicester square ,,,,,,, where 100% nothing goes on in any back room ,,,,,,,,,, obviously i cant speak of the more seedy establishments
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    FusionFuryFusionFury Posts: 14,121
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    Its obvious sex goes on in the back girls take the men back there for extra money

    Do you know that for a fact? I believe in some places it happens, guess it depends on the house rules and how "loose" (or high) the girls are that night..
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    Rhythm StickRhythm Stick Posts: 1,581
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    I think you got conned. I am sure more goes on in the back room than just a dance

    Why are you "sure"?

    Ever been in a private room?
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    Pumping IronPumping Iron Posts: 29,891
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    I think you got conned. I am sure more goes on in the back room than just a dance

    No it's just a dance.
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    walterwhitewalterwhite Posts: 57,058
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    Maybe not everything happens in the back room but something must happen

    Private dances happen.
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