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Why do some women deny that 'size matters'?

NorwoodCemeteryNorwoodCemetery Posts: 1,653
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Of course it matters. Just watched a discussion on sexual dynamics and the tiresome lip-service paid to the issue is irritating in the extreme.

It doesn't wash the dishes, it doesn't put up shelves and it doesn't clean the car - it only does one thing and if it can't do that to a satisfactory standard then the ladies will be far from happy.

The forum rules prevent graphic discussion but come on, why delude men that it 'isn't important'? All things being equal between two men in terms of looks, status, wealth and personality, does anyone seriously believe that women wouldn't opt for the one hung like a six-dollar pistol over the chipolata smuggler?

Men like big boobs, big lips and voluptuous bums. Women like big 'equipment'. Just plain biological facts. Why can't we all just be honest? And guys, when a woman tells you "it isn't what you've got but what you do with it that counts", don't believe for a minute that she doesn't spend many a lifeless love-making session with you, lost in a dreamy nostalgiac torpor for her idealised Chad Thundercock... so think on.
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    ResonanceResonance Posts: 16,644
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    Most women can't climax from penetrative sex alone. So I imagine there are things that matter more in the bedroom department than penis size.

    I suppose the answer to the question "Does size matter" is that it depends on the woman and how good/bad the bloke is in bed.
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    Phoenix LazarusPhoenix Lazarus Posts: 17,306
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    So where on the dick-scale are you, OP!?;-):D
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    JasonJason Posts: 76,557
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    If it did wash the dishes and put shelves up, I'd be mightily impressed :D
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    NorwoodCemeteryNorwoodCemetery Posts: 1,653
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    If it did wash the dishes and put shelves up, I'd be mightily impressed :D
    I know. I kind of regretted adding 'washing the car' to that list as there are always unsavoury deviants for any scenario :D:D:D
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    NamiraNamira Posts: 3,099
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    I had a boyfriend who was pretty well endowed but tbh I found sex with him pretty painful. Not to mention he thought that all he had to do was just stick it in and saw in and out and I would be all "When Harry met Sally". I think he watched too much porn. There is so much more to sex than penetration, which women don't even climax from most of the time anyway. As long as a guy isn't hiding a micro-penis down there I honestly don't care.
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    NorwoodCemeteryNorwoodCemetery Posts: 1,653
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    Namira wrote: »
    I had a boyfriend who was pretty well endowed but tbh I found sex with him pretty painful. Not to mention he thought that all he had to do was just stick it in and saw in and out and I would be all "When Harry met Sally". I think he watched too much porn. There is so much more to sex than penetration, which women don't even climax from most of the time anyway. As long as a guy isn't hiding a micro-penis down there I honestly don't care.
    So you agree size does matter?

    And indeed what would you do if you encountered a 'microman'? Dump him for being inadequate?
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    TakaeTakae Posts: 13,555
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    Some of my all-time best orgasms came from just making out. Usually full-clothed.
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    Danny_SilverDanny_Silver Posts: 902
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    The Classic saying

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    EvieJEvieJ Posts: 6,040
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    Namira wrote: »
    I had a boyfriend who was pretty well endowed but tbh I found sex with him pretty painful. Not to mention he thought that all he had to do was just stick it in and saw in and out and I would be all "When Harry met Sally". I think he watched too much porn. There is so much more to sex than penetration, which women don't even climax from most of the time anyway. As long as a guy isn't hiding a micro-penis down there I honestly don't care.

    True. If he's not skilled in other areas then it could be more of a curse than a blessing.
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    An ThropologistAn Thropologist Posts: 39,854
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    So where on the dick-scale are you, OP!?;-):D

    I would venture large. :D
    If it did wash the dishes and put shelves up, I'd be mightily impressed :D

    Now that would be useful.;-)
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    NamiraNamira Posts: 3,099
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    So you agree size does matter?

    And indeed what would you do if you encountered a 'microman'? Dump him for being inadequate?

    It matters when it's that small, sure, but most men who are 4 or 5 inches think they are too small.
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    NorwoodCemeteryNorwoodCemetery Posts: 1,653
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    Takae wrote: »
    Some of my all-time best orgasms came from just making out. Usually full-clothed.
    Well that's a new one for me.
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    An ThropologistAn Thropologist Posts: 39,854
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    Namira wrote: »
    It matters when it's that small, sure, but most men who are 4 or 5 inches think they are too small.

    And given that most women are no more than 5 inches long inside, anything more than 4 - 5 inches would be too big. Unless of course he can do a 180 degree Carlsberg turn with it. ;-)
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 342
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    Because they can only feel the first three inches?
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    An ThropologistAn Thropologist Posts: 39,854
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    Because they can only feel the first three inches?

    To tell the truth many of us can only feel the last inch or so. ;-):D
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    Wee TinkersWee Tinkers Posts: 12,782
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    They're just trying to make you feel better, wee man.


    Generally speaking it doesn't matter that much given that women are more likely to get there with clitoral stimulation than, what do you call it? Vaginal stimulation? I don't know. But I know what I mean.

    Of course, it matters when you are talking extremes. But a guy with a bit there but not much to write home about will do rightly. And anyone who hasn't lost their tongue in a debilitating industrial accident is a keeper too. Even a micro dude.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 342
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    To tell the truth many of us can only feel the last inch or so. ;-):D

    Bucket. Hehe.
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    WolfsheadishWolfsheadish Posts: 10,400
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    Of course it matters. Just watched a discussion on sexual dynamics and the tiresome lip-service paid to the issue is irritating in the extreme.

    It doesn't wash the dishes, it doesn't put up shelves and it doesn't clean the car - it only does one thing and if it can't do that to a satisfactory standard then the ladies will be far from happy.

    The forum rules prevent graphic discussion but come on, why delude men that it 'isn't important'? All things being equal between two men in terms of looks, status, wealth and personality, does anyone seriously believe that women wouldn't opt for the one hung like a six-dollar pistol over the chipolata smuggler?

    Men like big boobs, big lips and voluptuous bums. Women like big 'equipment'. Just plain biological facts. Why can't we all just be honest? And guys, when a woman tells you "it isn't what you've got but what you do with it that counts", don't believe for a minute that she doesn't spend many a lifeless love-making session with you, lost in a dreamy nostalgiac torpor for her idealised Chad Thundercock... so think on.

    I can only assume they're being polite. They don't want to hurt the man's feelings by telling the truth.
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    TankyTanky Posts: 3,647
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    50 Shades of Grey....................
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    JurassicMarkJurassicMark Posts: 12,877
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    Namira wrote: »
    I had a boyfriend who was pretty well endowed but tbh I found sex with him pretty painful. Not to mention he thought that all he had to do was just stick it in and saw in and out and I would be all "When Harry met Sally". I think he watched too much porn. There is so much more to sex than penetration, which women don't even climax from most of the time anyway. As long as a guy isn't hiding a micro-penis down there I honestly don't care.

    I've heard many women say that (not about me).

    Don't like to generalise but sex is more of a physical experience for men, whereas it's more of an emotional experience for women. As long as she doesn't have to ask "Is it in yet?", I don't think it's much of an issue.
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    WolfsheadishWolfsheadish Posts: 10,400
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    I think what a lot of people fail to take into account is that a nice thick one can have a sort of pulling effect on the clitoris, which helps the woman to have what might be termed a vaginal orgasm. If it comes to a choice between girth and length I guess I'd have to go with girth. On the other hand, a big one tends to just look more aesthetically pleasing. Or is that just me? :D
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    WolfsheadishWolfsheadish Posts: 10,400
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    I've heard many women say that (not about me).

    Don't like to generalise but sex is more of a physical experience for men, whereas it's more of an emotional experience for women. As long as she doesn't have to ask "Is it in yet?", I don't think it's much of an issue.

    Not necessarily and I've yet to meet a woman who's able to have an emotional orgasm (although there may well be one out there).
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    JurassicMarkJurassicMark Posts: 12,877
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    Not necessarily and I've yet to meet a woman who's able to have an emotional orgasm (although there may well be one out there).

    Didn't mean that woman were able to achieve emotional orgasms, it just seems to me that woman tend to be less concerned than men regarding the size of sexual body parts.

    The size of women's bits vary just as much as the size of men's bits, so if a woman says she cannot get stimulated because my penis is too small, I can respond by saying "No, it's because your vagina is too big" :p
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    Old EndeavourOld Endeavour Posts: 9,852
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    "It only does one thing" - Yes and that would be depositing sperm into the vagina. That is the one thing it is designed to do, so if it is capable of that then it has met requirements.

    Unless you are just talking about sex for fun and then it's anything goes. If you are only judging things on bigger is best in the fun sex world then you are simply wrong, not to mention shallow and trolling.
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    pope_tartpope_tart Posts: 3,801
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    It matters to me.

    a willy is like a car. All of them, if in working order, will get a woman where they want to go quite adequately, however once a woman has driven a big Ferrari, she is likely to want to repeat the experience. She may get the Lada out of the garage once in a while for a bit of tootling around and be happy enough doing so, but for a really exhilarating ride you can't beat a big powerful engine ;-)
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