The words "Get the **** out of my life, I hate you" actually mean "You are my soulmate, I love you and want to be with you forever".
Bugger. No wonder my ex pestered me for weeks.
For me, it's having your partner travel from Glasgow to London for no other reason than because you had said in a phone call you missed him That's when I realised he really did love me.
For me, it's having your partner travel from Glasgow to London for no other reason than because you had said in a phone call you missed him That's when I realised he really did love me.
Was that the weekend when Rangers played a friendly with Arsenal?
I suppose but then surely it's more than subtle things by that point? I would've thought, and obviously I've not been in a 10 year+ relationship so don't know. But by then it's less about knowing they love you and more about you realising something is wrong in the relationship. More fighting, less time together.
Maybe it does come as a surprise to some, but I always fiigured there would be signs of some sort. That's perhaps naivety on my part.
There were no signs in my case - he was still "loving" and attentive as ever - but he was just pretending so I wouldn't guess he was shagging someone else!
There were no signs in my case - he was still "loving" and attentive as ever - but he was just pretending so I wouldn't guess he was shagging someone else!
There are lots of subtle ways but one of my favourites is a little test you can conduct. If something significant happens in your life - family news, work/college events, bad news, good news, gossip - when the first person you want to talk to about it is your boyfriend/girlfriend; there's a very good chance it's love.
That was it for me. It might have been the fact that a hero of mine was on the radio - it was only him I wanted to talk to about it.
Doesn't that just show that you love him? If he reciprocates by wanting to speak to you about such things, then that would show he loves you?
I sometimes thing grand gestures of love are misleading its more the day to day stuff.But what are the signs that your man or woman deep down loves you.How does it manifest and show itself?
It may be by just doing stuff to make one smile. Cooking a nice meal, making a cup of tea first thing in the morning to have in bed together, booking tickets for a night out as a surprise, buying a small treat(some fave chocolate or biccies to have with tea) after buying the weekly shopping unattended.Putting the hot water bottle in the bed to warm it up.
It may be by just doing stuff to make one smile. Cooking a nice meal, making a cup of tea first thing in the morning to have in bed together, booking tickets for a night out as a surprise, buying a small treat(some fave chocolate or biccies to have with tea) after buying the weekly shopping unattended.Putting the hot water bottle in the bed to warm it up.
Anyone else feeling a bit nauseous after reading that ?
It may be by just doing stuff to make one smile. Cooking a nice meal, making a cup of tea first thing in the morning to have in bed together, booking tickets for a night out as a surprise, buying a small treat(some fave chocolate or biccies to have with tea) after buying the weekly shopping unattended.Putting the hot water bottle in the bed to warm it up.
I agree. It's the little things that show they are always thinking of you.
I get lots of cuddles and kisses every day and a fresh bouquet of flowers every week without fail. Normally we are both cuddled up together on the sofa in the evenings but he's gone out tonight.
I get lots of cuddles and kisses every day and a fresh bouquet of flowers every week without fail. Normally we are both cuddled up together on the sofa in the evenings but he's gone out tonight.
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If he replies, 'I know', he doesn't really love you back.
Well, not in the way you want him to.
Makes mental note... "Hmmm...some women here are more perceptive than I thought."
Bugger. No wonder my ex pestered me for weeks.
For me, it's having your partner travel from Glasgow to London for no other reason than because you had said in a phone call you missed him
Was that the weekend when Rangers played a friendly with Arsenal?
He once ran home through the rain to get me my tampons.
He offered me his food when I dropped my plate on the floor.
And of course, I know he loves me because he tells me so!
Yeah, but has he ever mimed ' medicine for constipation' in a language he doesn't know?
If he's a keeper it would be Celtic.;):D
Just in case anyone is offended, I'm joking. It's just a silly game anyway.
He supports Ayr United so I don't even need to worry about him at Old Firm matches
There were no signs in my case - he was still "loving" and attentive as ever - but he was just pretending so I wouldn't guess he was shagging someone else!
Katie Perry might well be looking at the divorce papers Russell Brand served and thinking there may be problems.
I'm sorry to hear that.
Doesn't that just show that you love him? If he reciprocates by wanting to speak to you about such things, then that would show he loves you?
If you have to ask them then they don't love you. You cant fake nor withhold love.
Anyone else feeling a bit nauseous after reading that ?
No.
You miserable sod.
I agree. It's the little things that show they are always thinking of you.
I would have thought that was fairly obvious. That's how I act when I'm in love - so if your boy/girlfriend acts like that, they're probably in love.
Really didn't think that would have to be explained.................
Ouch!
The thread is about how you know they love you, and the things you described seemed to me to describe your feelings for him, not his feelings for you.
Probably out sh*gging the mistress.
No, not at all, it was a long time ago, and even if it wasn't, you didn't say anything wrong at all