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    EbonyHamsterEbonyHamster Posts: 8,175
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    Pain is just stupid today :( I'm hoping the food is nice!
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    RandomSallyRandomSally Posts: 7,072
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    Maybe

    In which case you need to speak with him. If there is no communication you could find him gone one day.
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    EbonyHamsterEbonyHamster Posts: 8,175
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    In which case you need to speak with him. If there is no communication you could find him gone one day.

    There's no compromise to that situation though sadly
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    RandomSallyRandomSally Posts: 7,072
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    Pain is just stupid today :( I'm hoping the food is nice!

    I suspect the pain is worse because, either consciously or not, you are trying to find a reason not to go. Don't give in to it. Go out, eat, chat, laugh and smile. It will help lighten your mood.
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    RandomSallyRandomSally Posts: 7,072
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    There's no compromise to that situation though sadly

    Of course there is! If you both love each other...
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    EbonyHamsterEbonyHamster Posts: 8,175
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    I suspect the pain is worse because, either consciously or not, you are trying to find a reason not to go. Don't give in to it. Go out, eat, chat, laugh and smile. It will help lighten your mood.

    No it's worse cause I had to go to the shop and shower yesterday, too much for my body
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    EbonyHamsterEbonyHamster Posts: 8,175
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    Of course there is! If you both love each other...

    It's either have sex or don't have sex
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    RandomSallyRandomSally Posts: 7,072
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    It's either have sex or don't have sex

    Or find new and different ways of not having sex.
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    EbonyHamsterEbonyHamster Posts: 8,175
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    Or find new and different ways of not having sex.

    I think we do all that tbh lol :blush:
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    RandomSallyRandomSally Posts: 7,072
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    I think we do all that tbh lol :blush:

    Well whatever, unless you talk to him you won't know what the problem is.
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    EbonyHamsterEbonyHamster Posts: 8,175
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    Well whatever, unless you talk to him you won't know what the problem is.

    Very true
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    gdjman68wasdigigdjman68wasdigi Posts: 21,705
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    i must have missed something..i thought this thread was about going out for tea??
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 6,924
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    i must have missed something..i thought this thread was about going out for tea??

    Tuts loudly. Bloody men, never listens to a thing anybody says. ;-)
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    sadmuppetsadmuppet Posts: 8,222
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    i must have missed something..i thought this thread was about going out for tea??

    Yes, but going out for tea involves getting clean in the shower, which Ebony can't do by herself so she has to do it with her OH who might see her scabby belly, which will turn him off and cause him to not fancy her anymore and then he won't want to have sex, which is possibly a good thing because Ebony won't do that anyway and is unwilling to change the situation.... :(

    Or something like that.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 53,142
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    go to the meal out, get home and have sex ..:D
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    gdjman68wasdigigdjman68wasdigi Posts: 21,705
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    sadmuppet wrote: »
    Yes, but going out for tea involves getting clean in the shower, which Ebony can't do by herself so she has to do it with her OH who might see her scabby belly, which will turn him off and cause him to not fancy her anymore and then he won't want to have sex, which is possibly a good thing because Ebony won't do that anyway and is unwilling to change the situation.... :(

    Or something like that.

    oh well, hope it all works out
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    Bex_123Bex_123 Posts: 10,783
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    No it's worse cause I had to go to the shop and shower yesterday, too much for my body

    Out of interest, what did you say your diagnosis was again? Was it EDS?

    Just being nosey, feel free to tell me to bugger off. But I observed a rheumatology clinic the other week and chatted to some people with EDS :)
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    gdjman68wasdigigdjman68wasdigi Posts: 21,705
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    avasgranny wrote: »
    Tuts loudly. Bloody men, never listens to a thing anybody says. ;-)

    i dont want to miss any excitement though
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    sadmuppet wrote: »
    Yes, but going out for tea involves getting clean in the shower, which Ebony can't do by herself so she has to do it with her OH who might see her scabby belly, which will turn him off and cause him to not fancy her anymore and then he won't want to have sex, which is possibly a good thing because Ebony won't do that anyway and is unwilling to change the situation.... :(

    Or something like that.

    You forgot about the extreme pain which means that a pop to the shops and a quick shower means she is now bed bound and therefore not up for sitting at a table chatting to her family, about her interesting life.
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    EbonyHamsterEbonyHamster Posts: 8,175
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    Orangemaid wrote: »
    go to the meal out, get home and have sex ..:D

    Lol

    Meal was nice
    Bex_123 wrote: »
    Out of interest, what did you say your diagnosis was again? Was it EDS?

    Just being nosey, feel free to tell me to bugger off. But I observed a rheumatology clinic the other week and chatted to some people with EDS :)

    Yeah, EDS type 3
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    sadmuppetsadmuppet Posts: 8,222
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    Well done for going out even when you didn't feel much like it! Glad you enjoyed it! :)
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    EbonyHamsterEbonyHamster Posts: 8,175
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    sadmuppet wrote: »
    Well done for going out even when you didn't feel much like it! Glad you enjoyed it! :)

    Yeah it was good

    My knee partially dislocated cause my jeggings were too tight on that leg

    But apart from that, it was good
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 6,924
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    You went out? Well done. Glad you had a nice time. Now go jump those lads bones. ;-)
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    EbonyHamsterEbonyHamster Posts: 8,175
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    avasgranny wrote: »
    You went out? Well done. Glad you had a nice time. Now go jump those lads bones. ;-)

    Lol, thanks

    There'll be no jumping of bones though :o
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