It's not about him not wanting to see it, it's about me not wanting to show it, will just have to try and hide it as best I can when we shower
I've belittled, mocked and sneered on this topic?
As someone who has spent many an hour reading the threads of Tinks yes she does get belittle, mocked and sneered at. The thing is she has herself been guilty of that kind of behaviour many times. The thread that comes to my mind is one in which she was sneering at women who had had breast implants. Her opinion was scathing., her being a non girlie. When it was pointed out by a poster that having her implants were result of breat cancer, there was no apology or anything, just more of her vile opinion. Then of course her thoughts and opinions on mental health. I could go on.
If you don't want to be belittled , mocked and sneered at then perhaps you need to look to yourself and ask yourself why the same thing happens again and again in every forum you join.
Just my observation, a person who once defended you when i first came across you and felt sorry for the treatment you were getting. I soon realised my error.
As someone who has spent many an hour reading the threads of Tinks yes she does get belittle, mocked and sneered at. The thing is she has herself been guilty of that kind of behaviour many times. The thread that comes to my mind is one in which she was sneering at women who had had breast implants. Her opinion was scathing., her being a non girlie. When it was pointed out by a poster that having her implants were result of breat cancer, there was no apology or anything, just more of her vile opinion. Then of course her thoughts and opinions on mental health. I could go on.
If you don't want to be belittled , mocked and sneered at then perhaps you need to look to yourself and ask yourself why the same thing happens again and again in every forum you join.
Just my observation, a person who once defended you when i first came across you and felt sorry for the treatment you were getting. I soon realised my error.
I don't remember the breast implant thing
I will admit that in the past I've had narrow minded ignorant views on MH issues which my opinions have changed on
As someone who has spent many an hour reading the threads of Tinks yes she does get belittle, mocked and sneered at. The thing is she has herself been guilty of that kind of behaviour many times. The thread that comes to my mind is one in which she was sneering at women who had had breast implants. Her opinion was scathing., her being a non girlie. When it was pointed out by a poster that having her implants were result of breat cancer, there was no apology or anything, just more of her vile opinion. Then of course her thoughts and opinions on mental health. I could go on.
If you don't want to be belittled , mocked and sneered at then perhaps you need to look to yourself and ask yourself why the same thing happens again and again in every forum you join.
Just my observation, a person who once defended you when i first came across you and felt sorry for the treatment you were getting. I soon realised my error.
All this looks like is an attempt to defend the belittling and mocking really and it's not any justification. It all seems a bit school playground if I'm honest.
As someone who has spent many an hour reading the threads of Tinks yes she does get belittle, mocked and sneered at. The thing is she has herself been guilty of that kind of behaviour many times. The thread that comes to my mind is one in which she was sneering at women who had had breast implants. Her opinion was scathing., her being a non girlie. When it was pointed out by a poster that having her implants were result of breat cancer, there was no apology or anything, just more of her vile opinion. Then of course her thoughts and opinions on mental health. I could go on.
If you don't want to be belittled , mocked and sneered at then perhaps you need to look to yourself and ask yourself why the same thing happens again and again in every forum you join.
Just my observation, a person who once defended you when i first came across you and felt sorry for the treatment you were getting. I soon realised my error.
She wrote a terrible thing once about a girl who had disclosed sexual abuse, someone was asking advice about it on MSE and she virtually posted that the girl had been asking for it
Why should I be nice to people who are nasty to me
Anyway, what I've said on past forums has nothing to do with being on here now
The relevance is that you've been posting the same contradictory, attention seeking nonsense for years. Some people on these boards have offered you well considered and lengthy advice, sometimes revealing personal details about their own problems without realising that you never take on board any advice given and that you have no intention of making any of the changes they suggest to improve your life.
For example,all the threads everywhere about your sex life and its non existence at your choice, yet here you are wailing that your boyf will not want you because of scabs, despite your insistence that you don't want him to want you.
She means that her partner assists her to shower as he's her carer. Presumably.
Fair enough. I've not really been following the history. CBA to be honest. You know, other people's problems, not really interested in the main, as I don't know them from Adam.
I often give advice on DS, but probably sometimes not the advice one wants to hear, like **** off, you stupid ****. But, as you know, I'm only here to help.
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No but you play a good victim
Not a victim
It really doesn't seem to be a two way street.
This isn't personal at you by the way, just an observation.
As someone who has spent many an hour reading the threads of Tinks yes she does get belittle, mocked and sneered at. The thing is she has herself been guilty of that kind of behaviour many times. The thread that comes to my mind is one in which she was sneering at women who had had breast implants. Her opinion was scathing., her being a non girlie. When it was pointed out by a poster that having her implants were result of breat cancer, there was no apology or anything, just more of her vile opinion. Then of course her thoughts and opinions on mental health. I could go on.
If you don't want to be belittled , mocked and sneered at then perhaps you need to look to yourself and ask yourself why the same thing happens again and again in every forum you join.
Just my observation, a person who once defended you when i first came across you and felt sorry for the treatment you were getting. I soon realised my error.
I don't remember the breast implant thing
I will admit that in the past I've had narrow minded ignorant views on MH issues which my opinions have changed on
All this looks like is an attempt to defend the belittling and mocking really and it's not any justification. It all seems a bit school playground if I'm honest.
She wrote a terrible thing once about a girl who had disclosed sexual abuse, someone was asking advice about it on MSE and she virtually posted that the girl had been asking for it
Aww that makes it ok then
Why should I be nice to people who are nasty to me
Anyway, what I've said on past forums has nothing to do with being on here now
It does show the type of person you are though
Not really
People can change and as I said why should I be nice to people who were nasty to me
The relevance is that you've been posting the same contradictory, attention seeking nonsense for years. Some people on these boards have offered you well considered and lengthy advice, sometimes revealing personal details about their own problems without realising that you never take on board any advice given and that you have no intention of making any of the changes they suggest to improve your life.
For example,all the threads everywhere about your sex life and its non existence at your choice, yet here you are wailing that your boyf will not want you because of scabs, despite your insistence that you don't want him to want you.
As E comes below D it would not be dismissed.
Or you could just shower on your own. Unless I'm missing something here, isn't that bloody obvious.
Yeah one could, but I'm a bit bored.
Is this a first, Jra on advice?
She means that her partner assists her to shower as he's her carer. Presumably.
Yeah you're missing something
Maybe the reason your BF doesn't seem interested is that he's bored with no intercourse.
Maybe
Apparently so.
Fair enough. I've not really been following the history. CBA to be honest. You know, other people's problems, not really interested in the main, as I don't know them from Adam.
I often give advice on DS, but probably sometimes not the advice one wants to hear, like **** off, you stupid ****. But, as you know, I'm only here to help.