How do you know these people are looking for 'real love and intimacy'? Sex isn't always an expression of love, sometimes people just wanna...well, just f*ck, and there's nothing really wrong with that.
I don't need to convince my self or anyone I enjoy it and until you have actually done it you can't say what it is like or how you would feel, I just hate the stigma that people who pay for sex can't go out and get laid, I could quite easily go to a club and sleep with some drunk girl, though it wouldn't be anywhere near as enjoyable for me as paying for it
100% agree! As the customer of an escort, you get to choose what you want from the menu. You simply don't get that level of satisfaction with just anybody
I don't even think it's a thing for seedy old men anymore, some men out there just don't want a relationship with a Woman due to bad experiences etc...they would much rather have the pleasure of a beautiful Woman once a month or whatever and then go about their business afterwards.
Absolutely.
The older I get, the less and less I care about getting in a relationship with a woman. After being hurt by so many you end up 'giving up' and assuming that actually, there is no such thing as a happy relationship.
Most people 'just settle' or end up in a relationship because it's 'comfortable'. That's so bloody pointless. You don't get to live your own life and end up making sacrifices and compromises, and in the end, are either of you truly happy?
Plus, as mentioned at the beginning of this post, relationships seem to be a perpetual drain on money. At least with the escort you know how much it will cost up-front!
no and no, primarily, because of fear. Because if someone just looks at you as a lust object, then maybe they wouldn't care if they hurt you, or else they may be paying for sex, because their needs or fetishes are so horrifying that can't find any woman who would agree to indulge them? Those have always been my thoughts, my fears. I am not against it at all, I just feel it is dangerous.
Milkmaiding, is the only thing I'd make an exception for, but only if I really needed the money to live. I guess that's because I don't actually see it as sex, just as nurturing and as a rather sympathetic thing to do and I have known someone who did it and she said her clients wanted feeding and not sex. But I still would be a bit scared, I mean these would be people with teeth, (probably, anyone who could take dentures out would be less scarey) - around a vulnerable part of my anatomy.
Why not? Convienient for both parties,one getting paid,the other getting what they like/want,and how they want it,with spmeone they find attractive,and no faffing around going out on the pull,going home having failed feeling frustrated etc....also,an escort will do what you want done,its agreed beforehand on the phone.Its a service to be used,and costs no more than a normal night out,or dates etc....also,its guaranteed at midnight on a thursday night,when you want or need sex,or company,or cuddling,or whatever.
No I would never pay for sex but then I am a woman and we view sex different to men.
I do realise men have a higher sex drive than women but what I don't understand is how they can use a prostitute. It turns my stomach to think of how many men have used these women and IF I was a man I would scared of picking up something from these women.
I'm a woman too and would most DEFINITELY pay for it!
And if prostitution were legal the workers would be more likely to use protection against disease and/or be certified clean than anyone you'd pick up drunk in a bar.
I'm a woman too and would most DEFINITELY pay for it!
And if prostitution were legal the workers would be more likely to use protection against disease and/or be certified clean than anyone you'd pick up drunk in a bar.
Although to be honest, prostitutes are already more likely to be cleaner than somebody picked up in a bar.
They seem to have this image of being dirty/infected and so forth but every escort I've ever met has insisted on condoms which seem to be thicker than average, and they don't offer bareback sex under any circumstances.
I almost can't believe any prostitute or client would provide/want bareback sex. The risk would be appallingly high.
no and no, primarily, because of fear. Because if someone just looks at you as a lust object, then maybe they wouldn't care if they hurt you, or else they may be paying for sex, because their needs or fetishes are so horrifying that can't find any woman who would agree to indulge them? Those have always been my thoughts, my fears. I am not against it at all, I just feel it is dangerous.
Milkmaiding, is the only thing I'd make an exception for, but only if I really needed the money to live. I guess that's because I don't actually see it as sex, just as nurturing and as a rather sympathetic thing to do and I have known someone who did it and she said her clients wanted feeding and not sex. But I still would be a bit scared, I mean these would be people with teeth, (probably, anyone who could take dentures out would be less scarey) - around a vulnerable part of my anatomy.
Yes I have but no longer do. I would spend anywhere between £120 to £200 per hour depending on where the escort was and what rate she offered. If i was on business in London then i would expect to pay a min of £150, plus this depends on the escort in question.
My first time was with a Japanese student who was amazing and ended up going back about 3/4 times. The rest were one offs depending on where I was in the UK.
I've spent £200 p/h on a 25 year old "high class" escort in London who would dress for the needs (buisness smart if i was in a hotel) yet be completley wild/dirty once things got going.
I'd like to do it now and again but i've grown up and started to save the money I would blow on a girl.
Yes I have but no longer do. I would spend anywhere between £120 to £200 per hour depending on where the escort was and what rate she offered. If i was on business in London then i would expect to pay a min of £150, plus this depends on the escort in question.
My first time was with a Japanese student who was amazing and ended up going back about 3/4 times. The rest were one offs depending on where I was in the UK.
I've spent £200 p/h on a 25 year old "high class" escort in London who would dress for the needs (buisness smart if i was in a hotel) yet be completley wild/dirty once things got going.
I'd like to do it now and again but i've grown up and started to save the money I would blow on a girl.
Good times and don't feel any shame.
Yet you don't seem to be able to type the word prostitute.
Yes I have but no longer do. I would spend anywhere between £120 to £200 per hour depending on where the escort was and what rate she offered. If i was on business in London then i would expect to pay a min of £150, plus this depends on the escort in question.
My first time was with a Japanese student who was amazing and ended up going back about 3/4 times. The rest were one offs depending on where I was in the UK.
I've spent £200 p/h on a 25 year old "high class" escort in London who would dress for the needs (buisness smart if i was in a hotel) yet be completley wild/dirty once things got going.
I'd like to do it now and again but i've grown up and started to save the money I would blow on a girl.
Good times and don't feel any shame.
That is how men are different to women. As a woman I would be thinking who had been having sex with this person before and did they have some kind of std. Then I would be thinking what if the condom bursts (this his has happened to me with an ex boyfriend) and I get infected that way.
I know what I would spend £120 to £200 on and it wouldn't be for something I can get for free.
Although to be honest, prostitutes are already more likely to be cleaner than somebody picked up in a bar.
They seem to have this image of being dirty/infected and so forth but every escort I've ever met has insisted on condoms which seem to be thicker than average, and they don't offer bareback sex under any circumstances.
I almost can't believe any prostitute or client would provide/want bareback sex. The risk would be appallingly high.
Well some clients insist on bareback - the risk is part of what they're into - but only the most desperate of prostitutes would agree to that
LOL at the judgemental, appaled and disgusted posters... Especially the one who actually goes and reads the the forums where these loose women have discussions! I bet they would all sell themselves if they were attractive enough
Yes please, if I could earn £150 an hour for sex, even if its with a man I don't fancy, then I would do it. Where do I sign up? :D
LOL at the judgemental, appaled and disgusted posters... Especially the one who actually goes and reads the the forums where these loose women have discussions! I bet they would all sell themselves if they were attractive enough
Yes please, if I could earn £150 an hour for sex, even if its with a man I don't fancy, then I would do it. Where do I sign up? :D
Funny you say that, im in Brighton on the 20th of this month...
Yes, I have. But not knowingly. This is the dumbest story I have and sounds like my claims of innocence are BS. They're *really* not.
I was in Bangkok (relax; it's not one of *those* stories) and had got stupidly drunk of cheap, highly-alcoholic cocktail from Kao San Road. A friend and I went to a bar. An attractive Thai girl started looking at me. Being stupidly drunk, I blustered over there and started "chatting her up". It seemed to be going well and we got a little cosy. I leaned in for a kiss. She said "not until we get to your hotel room". Money was not mentioned or, if it was, I didn't hear her because of drunkeness, dance music or regional accents.
***Now this should have been the warning sign but, I state again, I was incredibly drunk and feeling invincible***
She wanted to go to my hotel RIGHT NOW.
We hailed a cab and went back to my hotel. The receptionist wouldn't let her in without me paying additional money to the desk. This wasn't surprising so I didn't question it.
The sex was a bit of a blur, although I managed to perform despite my drunkeness (I feel inclined to point this out). I woke up the next day and she wanted sex again. I was about to when reception phoned up and said the woman was still in my room and, if she was staying any longer, I would need to pay more.
I had a stinking hangover anyway, so I told her she'd better go. She asked for money.
This is a moment I've thought back to numerous times, just to question whether I had selective memory the night before, but I *swear* I was absolutely amazed at this point. I had no idea she was a prostitute.
I can't remember how much it cost (it was my second day in Thailand and I wasn't even used to the currency) but I felt instantly sh1tty about it. I'd thought it was a genuine pull. To be frank, often I use sex as a self-esteem booster. But paying someone to be with me...well, that shoved it down several notches.
I did not confess anything to my friend (who I'd left in the bar). I carried on the charade that she was a regular girl but, looking back, it was blindingly obvious and he must have known.
I was at a place in Singapore called Orchard Towers, also known as '4 floors of ****' a couple of weeks back. It mainly caters for foreign western workers and I was amazed by the number of married men, who were picking up prostitutes. After a few beers I did ask a few 'does your wife know you're here?'
Like many men, I have paid for sex countless times, treating your girlfriend to a slap up meal or cooking a nice meal for her both costs money & both often results in getting your end away as a thanks.
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Agree.
I kinda think that is accurate. Unless you end up with somebody really easy.
100% agree! As the customer of an escort, you get to choose what you want from the menu. You simply don't get that level of satisfaction with just anybody
Absolutely.
The older I get, the less and less I care about getting in a relationship with a woman. After being hurt by so many you end up 'giving up' and assuming that actually, there is no such thing as a happy relationship.
Most people 'just settle' or end up in a relationship because it's 'comfortable'. That's so bloody pointless. You don't get to live your own life and end up making sacrifices and compromises, and in the end, are either of you truly happy?
Plus, as mentioned at the beginning of this post, relationships seem to be a perpetual drain on money. At least with the escort you know how much it will cost up-front!
Milkmaiding, is the only thing I'd make an exception for, but only if I really needed the money to live. I guess that's because I don't actually see it as sex, just as nurturing and as a rather sympathetic thing to do and I have known someone who did it and she said her clients wanted feeding and not sex. But I still would be a bit scared, I mean these would be people with teeth, (probably, anyone who could take dentures out would be less scarey) - around a vulnerable part of my anatomy.
Surely the question is not whether one "needs" to pay, rather whether one prefers to?
I'm a woman too and would most DEFINITELY pay for it!
And if prostitution were legal the workers would be more likely to use protection against disease and/or be certified clean than anyone you'd pick up drunk in a bar.
Although to be honest, prostitutes are already more likely to be cleaner than somebody picked up in a bar.
They seem to have this image of being dirty/infected and so forth but every escort I've ever met has insisted on condoms which seem to be thicker than average, and they don't offer bareback sex under any circumstances.
I almost can't believe any prostitute or client would provide/want bareback sex. The risk would be appallingly high.
I'm starting to really hope you are a WUM.
My first time was with a Japanese student who was amazing and ended up going back about 3/4 times. The rest were one offs depending on where I was in the UK.
I've spent £200 p/h on a 25 year old "high class" escort in London who would dress for the needs (buisness smart if i was in a hotel) yet be completley wild/dirty once things got going.
I'd like to do it now and again but i've grown up and started to save the money I would blow on a girl.
Good times and don't feel any shame.
ARE YOU SERIOUS?????
Let me guess you're a man right? A straight man who has no other perspective but his own :sleep:
That is how men are different to women. As a woman I would be thinking who had been having sex with this person before and did they have some kind of std. Then I would be thinking what if the condom bursts (this his has happened to me with an ex boyfriend) and I get infected that way.
I know what I would spend £120 to £200 on and it wouldn't be for something I can get for free.
I can change them if you so wish, prostitute or escort, it's the same thing.
Again, no shame. I paid, and got what i paid for.
Keep trying if you're hoping to shame me...
Well some clients insist on bareback - the risk is part of what they're into - but only the most desperate of prostitutes would agree to that
Yes please, if I could earn £150 an hour for sex, even if its with a man I don't fancy, then I would do it. Where do I sign up?
Funny you say that, im in Brighton on the 20th of this month...
But it should be legal for those who wish to do it
I agree, most normal men would feel the same way as you.
I was in Bangkok (relax; it's not one of *those* stories) and had got stupidly drunk of cheap, highly-alcoholic cocktail from Kao San Road. A friend and I went to a bar. An attractive Thai girl started looking at me. Being stupidly drunk, I blustered over there and started "chatting her up". It seemed to be going well and we got a little cosy. I leaned in for a kiss. She said "not until we get to your hotel room". Money was not mentioned or, if it was, I didn't hear her because of drunkeness, dance music or regional accents.
***Now this should have been the warning sign but, I state again, I was incredibly drunk and feeling invincible***
She wanted to go to my hotel RIGHT NOW.
We hailed a cab and went back to my hotel. The receptionist wouldn't let her in without me paying additional money to the desk. This wasn't surprising so I didn't question it.
The sex was a bit of a blur, although I managed to perform despite my drunkeness (I feel inclined to point this out). I woke up the next day and she wanted sex again. I was about to when reception phoned up and said the woman was still in my room and, if she was staying any longer, I would need to pay more.
I had a stinking hangover anyway, so I told her she'd better go. She asked for money.
This is a moment I've thought back to numerous times, just to question whether I had selective memory the night before, but I *swear* I was absolutely amazed at this point. I had no idea she was a prostitute.
I can't remember how much it cost (it was my second day in Thailand and I wasn't even used to the currency) but I felt instantly sh1tty about it. I'd thought it was a genuine pull. To be frank, often I use sex as a self-esteem booster. But paying someone to be with me...well, that shoved it down several notches.
I did not confess anything to my friend (who I'd left in the bar). I carried on the charade that she was a regular girl but, looking back, it was blindingly obvious and he must have known.
I've never admitted this to anyone.